I fucked my life up at 24? should I go on?

[Anonymous]

I am seriously depressed... i fucked it up, my family fucked me up, i still live with them but i hate their guts. I never had a boyfriend due to insecurities, i never had many friends cause i dont know how to socialize... i grew up socially isolated, i want to move out but i can't cause i am scared, what if people are going to ridicule me for being weird? i mean 24 never had a boyfriend could be a red flag, im also bad at making girlfriends... i dont trust women because my mom and sister used to emotionally abuse me calling me 'ugly, hairy, stupid' etc... i dont want to give up on life but its been to hard to deal with... i feel like my life isn't worth much and that i am behind everyone... i haven't socialized in years and definitly didn't make it easy for myself...

[Gabesexual]

Just because your mom and sister emotionally abused you that does not mean you have to take it for granted and start hating women. Not every single person out there is the same, some are good, some are bad.

It does not mean you are actually ''ugly, hairy, stupid'' only cause 2 persons told you so. There are currently 7.4 billion people in this world and obviously not all 7.4 billion will tell you what your mom and sister did.

There is someone in that huge number that will change you radically (Not only one but many that will change you radically).

My suggestion: Try going to a therapist, those people are called therapists for a reason, they will offer lots of attention to your case or get enough money and try moving out from that dark aura that u feel stressed about.

Best of luck.

[Djaaaaaay]

I want to talk... Please , go to my messages so we can back and forth talk with out all the interruptions... Just do it ok... I'll be waiting for you to messasdge me... Say any thing !!! 😊

[Anonymous]

stop playing the victim. start working out, get a new wardrobe, change up your hairstyle, be strong, and go out in public and act like you have confidence. eventually, it will become real. good luck!

[Asker]

i want to move out

[Jersey2]

Change everything, move to another city, start over, enjoy the challenge and the adventure of it. You have nothing to lose. You can and will move on.

[MoonlitSonata]

If you feel that bad get a therapist or check yourself in to a hospital

[Anonymous]

Its not gonna get better if you keep on whining. You've asked this for 4x now

[Anonymous]

I wish I was your age again