I ruined my life at 29?

[Dest4]

Really bad. No houde live wih a thug boyfriend, no friends , career went down, i do have a job, no family no drivers license.

[SueShe]

Well, some of those problems are self created and some could be remedied.

Not having a driver's license is not an issue and does not count towards ruining your life. That is either a choice or lack of finances. You have a job, then concentrate on saving money for the most urgent things in life.

First off, get rid of this boyfriend of yours since he seems to be toxic for you. Next, concentrate on finding a place for yourself. It does not have to be a palace but good enough for you to start anew. Friends are also not mandatory because a lot of them are just toxic as well.

As for family, you are the only one to be able to do something about it. I suggest you stop feeling sorry for yourself and start doing something to get back to where you want to be. It takes courage but if you put your mind at it, there is no reason why you cannot achieve your goal. Good luck.

[dorksided1]

You need to start making decisions to change your life in the direction you want, no one else can do it but you. Without any action there will be no progress. Life just doesn't happen to you or for you, gotta put effort in. People start over all the time at any age

[Achilles8827]

Damn, well I'm sorry to hear that. Get a piece of paper and write down where you are and where you want to be. Then write down the steps it's going to take you to get there. Accomplish each goal, small are big one step at a time and you'll get there. Have faith

[DarkWinterNights]

Well, you have acknowledged there is a problem… so that’s a start. Developing a plan, sticking to it and changing bad habits that got you in this situation is the hard part. You can do it, but only you can.

[artstatues]

It's never too late to start over. You're still young. You can make friends, get a better job or a driving license at any age.
Don't be so hard on yourself. Everyone makes mistakes

[Gingerguy33]

Your alright just pick your head up and try to get and do everything you listed if you have to do it slowly do it slowly but work on yourself you’ll feel much much better in the end I promise

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Each as well as everyone of our lives are different & you did not ruin your life at 29.

[nawtee_me]

start over and learn from your mistakes... You are young still and have what could be your whole (and good) life in front of you.

[EnglishEuropean]

To be clear, you said you DO have a job. That's a positive.

[Dest4]

Yh a good office job

[Anonymous]

Will everyone can't be awesome like me, others must suffer

Thank you for your sacrifice

[Opinion Owner]

So just remember - "It is not enough that I should succeed. Others must fail."

But also remember - "Just because someone stumbles, and loses their way, doesn't mean they're lost forever."

[EmmaMary]

What exactly is your question?

[TheMajesticKing777]

So what are you doing get to fixing lol

[UniquelyBasic]

Your life isn't over.

[Iron_Man]

Why don’t you try your family again

[Dest4]

They hurt me

[Iron_Man]

What happens

[Iron_Man]

Happened

[In_Trance]

So, do you have a question?