29 and ruined my life?

[Farse]

I do have a job, a good one, but no house, live with a crazy angry boyfriend, crazy family, nno drivers license almost 30 and just hurt. I met a lot of bad people who hurt me a few years ago

[MarkRet]

Your life is only ruined if you don't change what's bringing you down. If you have a good job, you can eventually get a house and car (along with a license). This boyfriend sounds like he's bad news, so you might want to get rid of him. There's not much you can do about a crazy family, my family was pretty nutty too, but my wife's family is much cooler, so I'm more tuned into them.

[LaNc3L0TT]

Nah, you didn't. You are still young, use those bad things and learn from them. Work on changing your self so you can avoid those bad moments and pick right one and focus on them. Crazy boyfriend, leave him. Family, work on that, family is family but at least start living alone since you have good job you can afford it.

[Anonymous]

The only way to change the bed you made yourself, is to buy a new one Change comes when you've finally had enough. You're almost at there. You'll know you've reached it when your bags are packed and you're beginning your new life.

[Opinion Owner]

Take all of the lessons you've learned, combine them with your experiences, and resolve to do better.

You've let everyone steal your thunder thusfar.

DO BETTER, for yourself, by yourself! You OWE yourself that much. And when you're able to stand on your own two feet, without ANY support, THEN find a partner!

No more cart before the horse. Find a farm, barn, and hay, to care for the horse FIRST. THEN buy a horse. Then once you're sure you can properly care for the horse, buy the cart.

The farm, barn and hay are your needs. Take care of them first. The horse is you. The cart is a man and/or a relationship.

Why anyone buys a horse without a farm, barn or hay, just baffles me to no end. What's the hurry to get a cart?

[boggboss]

But what are u asking what steps are u making to improve your situation

[Farse]

Did i ruin it

[boggboss]

If u feel u did I guess

[Sam_The_Savage]

Nope darling...
It's your destiny lead you there. Just relax.
Time is bitch. You never know your time will come.

[Farse]

U thibk so? Dest£iny?

[Sam_The_Savage]

Yes sweetheart. Just stay positive. Don't give up. I went through same situation. I can speak my experience.

[Farse]

U think its meant to be?

[In_Trance]

so what are you actually asking here?