Baby daddy drama: I'm a calm person, he's talking sh*t about me, I'm not entertaining it but it's getting old should I put him on blast?

[Anonymous]

OK I got pregnant by some jack ass at work; we were bed buddies, good friends too until I got pregnant... He's also engaged but never told me he was engaged. I've heard that he's told other people he doesn't think the baby is his and that I've messed around with other guys when I was with him, which is not true because I've only slept with three people in my life, he being the last one. Also, I would make him lunch several times a week and I even bought him a pair of Jordan 12's; I'm not going to spend $500 on just anyone (yes I'm aware I'm stupid for doing that). He has the nerve to act like our unborn baby is nothing to him. I'm no social media stalker but I feel like finding out who his family is on his social media so I can send them messages and give the evidence of what was going on between us... I even have the screenshot of my email receipt of the Jordan's I got him, size 10 (not too many guys wear that size). A part of me wants to leave it be and not look back but at the same time I'm thinking "f#ck this ass hole for being such an inconsiderate prick to our unborn baby and me. If any of you could post to his social media account that would be better. I have tons of evidence. I have ALL of our messages that I can easily screenshot. I've tried many times to delete our conversations but strangely enough my phone didn't let it happen and none of those messages are locked. I really just needed to vent but if any of you would be willing to post to his public Instagram (I have him blocked I don't wanna see him) I would be more than happy to give you the account name. I really want to do it myself but I don't wanna waste any more time on him. I just want him to shut the hell up already. I know what he's "saying " is technically hearsay but I have reputable sources. It would be so nice to put him in his spot publicly though.

[mutedaisy]

You should take a vacation. Just like a weekend getaway, get a massage and relax. Seriously, you sound stressed out and that's not good for you or your baby. Let him go...

[Rocket_Queen]

Why even entertain that? Just worry about you and baby. Let him talk crap if it makes him feel better. Be the bigger person.

[karennn]

Personally, I'd just drop it and focus all my energy on me and the baby. Why cause all that drama and for what?

[karennn]

Karma has its way of working itself out on people like him. Just do you, and keep a positive mindset. If you need to talk, I gotchu :)

[Asker]

Thanks :). It's frustrating and for the most part I've been good and haven't had crazy hormonal outbursts and like you've implied in better off ignoring him like I have been. I don't plan on getting cold support from him (I make twice his salary) plus I don't want someone who doesn't want to genuinely be there for her to have rights to her. If anything if he were to have rights he'd probably take her to spite me and I don't want negativity around her.

[karennn]

Exactly, so there we go. And to be frank, you wouldn't want your child to be around someone who is irresponsible like that. He is not a man. He's a child and you don't need to trouble yourself with that problematic situation. Surround yourself with positive people who will motivate you to be the better person.

[Anonymous]

No offense, but you sound like a low-life skank.

[Asker]

And you must be some middle aged bum on food stamps

[Dimmu]

you are disguisting