So a girl, if she acts "stupid" or like an "air head" she is called a ditz, but what about a guy?
so of course this is about me. My husband's ex was a so called "ditz" who later (8 years after they broke up) turned into a guy. She was always like "oh it's 30 degrees out? I can wear a tank top" and later she can't so goes "oh can I wear your sweater? I'm cold" and he wears a size S and she wears a XXL...
My husband is the same. I would be like, I need milk for my son. I just gave birth to my daughter, can you go buy some? he would say, "kids need milk? can I get it next month?" "why can't you just go get the milk?"
You know, one of those guys where I bend over backwards to get a baby sitter so we can go to his favorite festival or movie, but he won't do the same for me and he doesn't understand why I'm mad. Then he goes, he never put a gun on my head for me to do it. Why did I do it? he is getting me mad at him because I want him to do the same, and put the same effort for me, but he goes... why does he have to? He doesn't want to go to my festivals? It's not fun for him. He doesn't want to go see my movies, it's not fun for him. Why am I getting mad at him for not wanting to go or ever putting effort to make me happy?
Before you go on and say that these people are "dumb" or "stupid" they actually aren't! His ex is 3rd in command at a huge non profit organization and he is actually the smartest guy on his team... his IQ is VERY HIGH.
Girls = DITZ
guys = ?
so of course this is about me. My husband's ex was a so called "ditz" who later (8 years after they broke up) turned into a guy. She was always like "oh it's 30 degrees out? I can wear a tank top" and later she can't so goes "oh can I wear your sweater? I'm cold" and he wears a size S and she wears a XXL...
My husband is the same. I would be like, I need milk for my son. I just gave birth to my daughter, can you go buy some? he would say, "kids need milk? can I get it next month?" "why can't you just go get the milk?"
You know, one of those guys where I bend over backwards to get a baby sitter so we can go to his favorite festival or movie, but he won't do the same for me and he doesn't understand why I'm mad. Then he goes, he never put a gun on my head for me to do it. Why did I do it? he is getting me mad at him because I want him to do the same, and put the same effort for me, but he goes... why does he have to? He doesn't want to go to my festivals? It's not fun for him. He doesn't want to go see my movies, it's not fun for him. Why am I getting mad at him for not wanting to go or ever putting effort to make me happy?
Before you go on and say that these people are "dumb" or "stupid" they actually aren't! His ex is 3rd in command at a huge non profit organization and he is actually the smartest guy on his team... his IQ is VERY HIGH.
Girls = DITZ
guys = ?
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