26 and still Single?

[CharacterChris]

Now being 26 and closer to 27 and being still single is causing me to concern about my future because I have yet to find or meet a female that I could actually start a relationship with, I've tried dating sites (which I still currently on), clubs, bars, work, etc. Nothing is happening for me and whats weird is that I got money, fashion, great job, im actually quite talented in sports and dancing and singing, and Im pretty decent in shape and still no relationship. Im very direct and very funny but females don't find me ever attractive/boyfriend material. So I need some type of guidance cause im going to wake up one day and im going to be 30 and still by myself.

[lightbulb27]

I went through that as well. I think some of it was about me, and some about them. So consider looking at yourself and if you are the best you can be, if you have good dating and social skills with women, if you understand them decently. you make it sound like you have it all together, but so did I and I had a variety of issues. We think we are wonderful until we get into a relationship, then all the selfishness shows up. Just my experience, not projecting on you.

Beyond that, then I'd suggest looking in other environments to date, possibly another city. Consider another country even. I've had better success in other places than locally myself, and my current girlfriend is 8 hours away. I don't know why that works better.

Very direct may be a turnoff, although it isn't a problem if you come across as confident and as a leader. A lot of dating is just being real with women and letting them know they are desired, you are interested and going for it. If you give mixed signals, they are confused or friendzoned.

[Birdy5]

Stop playing yourself. You obviously have your shit together, you just haven't found someone to share that shit with. 😂😂 so keep socializing, stop pressuring yourself, let the chips fall where they may, stack that paper ND bitches will follow.

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

Dude chill out, you still have time. Maybe just take some time and enjoy being yourself and being single and shit. Not every person lives out a rom com meet cute type thing. If your dates don't pan out, its fine, it happens. Doesn't mean it's never gonna happen, it's just not happening right now. Go travel or something. Get yourself out of the funk that brought you to this site rofl.

[jemjem2017]

well first don't pressure your self im 25 and single my parents kinda put pressure on me to go back to the dating scene. but for me i don't need to look for love let love look me. i think you are kinda frustrated to have a girlfriend and pressuring your self don't do that you will not find the right person for you

[Princeofanons]

Try something new with your life and step out of your comfort zone maybe. While you may have money, it doesn't mean that much really.