Pregnant By Capricorn Man & He Won't call what to do?

[Leo2390]

I'm 4 1/2 Months pregnant by a Cap man he's been leaving for about two to three weeks at a time every month every time dislikes something. Every time he does this he doesn't call to check on me or anything of that nature and I don't call because I give him his space & by the way I'm a Leo... his Birthday is today and the baby's ultrasound was yesterday witch he missed and didn't bother to call me to let me know he wasn't coming. I didn't call him at all. But his Birthday is today should I call and say Happy Bday I don't think I should because of what he's been doing to me but I don't want to b petty. Also he missed Christmas and never called me or even said Merry Christmas but we got back together after that but I feel like this the last straw. I feel like he doesn't care about the journey that I'm going threw with being pregnant with his child. I don't want to be petty but I don't know what to do.

[reptocarl]

Astrology has nothing to do with it. He's a deadbeat father. You need to get court ordered child support and visitation scheduled. If you don't he can show up anytime demanding to see his kid. Child support and visitation is two separate things and one has no bearing on the other. Child support is the law. Do not make any side deals about how much he'll pay. The courts have their own formulas and will most likely be higher than he was wanting to pay. Plus if he stops paying he's in contempt of court and he could go to jail for not paying. If you don't do this then don't come whining to us about your problems

[Zendrya]

couldn't agree more with this

[Leo2390]

Thanks for the reply. I thought about fillling for custody for after the baby is born because I don't want any extra drama. I know he will take care of are daughter as far providing finacily but the way things are going now I feel like she's going to b another fatherless child. I just don't like to quite especially when there's a life involved. In past I have done some things to him but things change when there's a child involved.

[Zendrya]

You child will be fine without a strong father role. All a child needs is love, food, warmth, and shelter. You provide that and your daughter will live a happy life.

[reptocarl]

You need to get court ordered child support period. Don't ever assume anything

[reptocarl]

If you don't you're the most stupid Leo on the planet

[Anonymous]

What does him being a Capricorn man has to do anything with the way he is behaving or with the way you should act so as to make him call you. Nah, it's nothing important.
Now, see , if you know any common friends then contact them and tell them hlehat you are feeling and going through. Tell them that he needs to man up and talk to you soon.
I have a question, do you like when guys shave their whole body including legs over very hairy man?

[Leo2390]

Your. A creep. Smh.

[Leo2390]

I said Capricorn because I read that's what Cap. Men do. But honestly I know that's what cowereds do walk out and abandon family.

[Leo2390]

I know it's you. Hope your enjoying this. I really do.

[Leo2390]

I don't need him to talk to me I just need him to man up and trust it's obouse to friends and family that he's not around especially if I invite friends and family to the ultrasound and he's not there.

[Opinion Owner]

WTF?

[BellePepper]

Just get rid of him. He obviously not prioritizing you. Then decide what to do about the pregnancy.

[Zendrya]

your zodiac signs are irrelevant but he obviously doesn't care about you or the kid so ditch him