Should the boyfriend pay for the whole vacation?

[Anonymous]

[ivaneca]

If you want the guy to assume a traditional role in the relationship (the family provider, for example), then you also should assume a traditional role. So if he should be spending a load of money on you (And don't tell me a vacation is cheap, especially when you pay for 2 people, not just for yourself), you better be doing his laundry, keeping his house clean and cooking for him. You can't expect to be treated like a modern independent equal woman where it suits you and as a traditional woman who needs to be taken care of / pampered by the male where it doesn't, i. e. when you don't want to pay. You can't have both, choose one - either be independent, don't do house chores, but pay for yourself or don't be independent, have him pay for you, but do his housework. I'm sure lots of guys would be okay with either type of relationship, as long as it's fair to both genders.

To sum it up, depends on what kind of relationship values you have. Are you keeping it old school and traditional or modern and independent? Just as long as you don't mix both where it suits you, it's all good for a lot of men, I'm sure.

[PlacentaSalad]

I don't think she should leave any cash or debit/credit cards behind just because he may have promised to pay for her expenses as well as his own. Vacations are typically expensive which is why most people only have them once a year, if even that. It's always a nice gesture to be able to pay for yourself.

[YaBaba]

if he can afford it, he could.
I wouldn't say should because I don't know him, and it depends on the situation; your relationship etc

For example, my sister's boyfriend (before they got married) paid for her when she couldn't; he even paid for me and my best friend.
But then my sister had money and they split the cost. But my sister only paid for herself and he would pay for me, and my bros. etc

[kaylaS91]

no.. I don't see why the bulk of costs should fall on anyone by default, much less solely because of their gender.

[lorentat]

Agreed 100%

[Anonymous]

what a beta ass dumbass he is. where do you find these beta white knight victims girls? i want one... .

[PlacentaSalad]

They're a lot more common than you think, but just mostly in younger males. It's one "benefit" of the feminist movement, I suppose, depending on your perspective of whether a "beta ass dumbass" is a good thing or not. Most of them will either pledge to serve you or will be too lazy and unmotivated to be able to actually afford a vacation for themselves yet alone another person as well.

[Opinion Owner]

@PlacentaSalad i prefer the serving and rich category.

[DanReynolds]

Cause thats what men are for, to pamper and provide for self entitled women who feel they deserve the world for simply being born female.

[fauchelevent]

I don't see why he should? Unless he's going on his own or it was a gift?

[DanReynolds]

Yes he should.
He was unfortunately born a male and is then obligated to pay and serve the female because thats what relationships are about.
The girl is meant to be pampered and provided for without offering anything simply for being born a female.
Honestly if women really feel this entitled they should go fuck themselves.

[Billlewis]

Of course he should. Always. I know it probably sounds strange, but I love paying for a romantic vacation for a

[Unicrone]

The fuck? We are not made of money. Plus then girls will only date guys to go on nice vacations and not pay

[Asker]

Some are

[lorentat]

I don't think so in my Homey The Clown voice

[TrisJC]

Jesus paying for dinner is one thing but paying for the whole vacation that's abuse of power 😂

[lorentat]

Agree 100%

[ishtiaqe22]

If he employed you to be his girlfriend, then as an employer he has to bear costs.

[Icyfire101]

Yeah and he should leave you at home too

[i_am_your_god]

Yes, and he should leave you tied up in his basement while he's jet-skiing in Dubai.

[Lane96]

You should at least offer to pay and follow up on it if he says it would help. Vacations aren't cheap after all.

[AriadneSky]

why should he pay for more than his half?

[Asker]

It's generous in his part and Chivalrous

[DanReynolds]

So the guy is expected to over pay and be a gentleman and what exactly is the girl offering to hin/ the relationship?

[_piotr]

He should not! If it is out of generosity then it should be treated as a gift done because of his free will, not because he is forced to because he was born male.

[kkendall]

no... pay half and half

[unknownpoet]

no. you should pay for the whole vacation.

[disgustingweebtrash]

yeah, if he's going on his own

[Kitten967]

Nope

[Anonymous]

No, you should both pay half each.

[Jager66]

lol, fuck no.

[MaciJ]

How is that fair

[DanReynolds]

Cause thats what men are for, to pamper and provide for self entitled women who feel they deserve the world for simply being born female.

[MaciJ]

@DanReynolds oh you're one of those.

[DanReynolds]

Lol im simply showing the asker how stupid it sounds

[MaciJ]

@DanReynolds oh lol

[Asker]

@danreynolds I'm not saying they have to but it would be very generous of him

[cupidkisses]

he doesn't have to

[hmtr23]

lol no

[Prochto]

Why? He is Trump?

[DudeManBro_20]

Nooo.

[Anonymous]

No he shouldn't.