Jealous of her teddy bear?

[Anonymous]

Well... its a long distance relationship so I don't get to hold her as much as I would like... She sleeps with a teddy bear and I've thought I heard her say "I need a new cuddle buddy...hm maybe..josh?" but she says it kind of fast and when I ask what she said she goes "Oh nothing..." and then says something random. Well... even when I go up to see her, her parents won't let me stay the night with them and she gets this kinda sad/puppy dog look... Her parents trust me and all but they don't want us to sleep together unless its like.. falling asleep while cuddling on the couch during a movie or something.. I'm actually starting to get jealous of her teddy bear! What should I do?

[Lavenderdemon]

Oh my gosh, you're jealous of her bear? No offense, but that's adorable. I'd suggest that you don't harm the teddy bear (even if you want to) and if she's the kind of girl that likes a teddy bear, she'd be okay with cuddling a lot. Invite her to a movie with her friends so the parents won't follow you, then ditch the friends and sit with her in a spot where the two of you can cuddle all you want.

Or you could by her a doll that looks exactly like you so it's like she's squeezing you instead of the bear.

It's still cute that you're jealous of the bear. Anyway, I don't think that it's that great of an answer, but I hope it helps.

[Desires]

Kill it with fire!

[thehand0]

Honor what her parents want and get over the teddy bear

[Asker]

Well its so random... I'm her first boyfriend that her parent's haven't let stay the night.. when I go to visit her I have to sleep at her friend's house because there is no hotels anywhere in the area.

[thehand0]

Well, maybe that's why her parents are being protective. it might be unreasonable to expect you to sleep at a hotel, but parents can be very protective of their daughter. their daughter is prescious to them and though you might be a really nice guy, you need to earn their trust, and that starts with not trying to sleep with her just yet.