Are you in love with your best friend?

[Anonymous]

Yes. I feel it in my blood.

No. Not in love. Blah.

[RichardBrooks]

No... and yes. I absolutely love her. We've been friends since college. She understands me in ways no one else (sometimes including myself) really does or can. She is one of the three adults allowed to hug me. We go out and do stuff together. Sometimes we cuddle on the couch watching a movie. We sometimes attend events as each other's plus one. When her apartment building caught fire and she needed a place to stay, I let her move in with me, and I realized I wasn't doing well alone, so I asked her to stay. It's been 2 years, now, and we are both entire happy with our arrangement. I miss her on the days that our various schedules and activities keep us from seeing each other. I have gone through breakups, deaths of family members and friends, my autism diagnosis, and other life evens that I don't know what I would have done without her there for me.
We are not a couple. There is nothing romantic or sexual about our relationship. Even our movie night couch cuddling has never turned the least bit steamy. We are friends, and that is all we are. We date other people. We give each other dating advice, and sometimes screen each other's dates. We have saved each other from a few crazies.
I love her. She loves me. Neither of us are afraid to tell each other. We are not in love. In a lot of ways our friendship is healthier because we are male and female. There is no shred of competition between us. I can express things to her that I can't with my guy friends. I have Asperger's, so emotions are something I have always struggled to understand. She helps me to not just express, but to feel and explore my emotions. Men and women can be 'just friends'. We are proof.

[nics97]

Its a crazy feeling once you start talking and fall into this goofy, childish thing where you have no restraints and have never felt that open with someone before. Or even know you can be that open. We've known eachother for 4 years from Highschool and have been dating for 2 1/2 years. She's 100% my best friend.

[kaylaS91]

My boyfriend happens to be the person who I view to be my closest 'best friends', so yes. I am in love with my best friend.
(we were really close friends before we started dating, too. So either way, my answer is 'yes'.)
✌️

[Asker]

that sounds so perfect :D :D

[Snow-Girl36]

Yes.
My best friend of 7 years happened to feel the same about me as I did about him. We've been dating for two years now, and I can honestly say, a relationship has never felt more amazing.

[mooky06]

No no love lol
I care about them a lot as a friend. Nothing more and nothing less. I wouldn't say it's a friendship either.. it's more of a family bond

[Anonymous]

I've never heard this song before or anything from this group but I really like it. I find it to be soothing.

And no, I'm not

[Asker]

Glad you liked The Veronicas. It calms me too.

[Browneye57]

Yes, actually. We became great friends, then an affair. I was already married. That was almost thirty years ago. Yes, I ran off with my secretary. For reals. And we got married. And had a kid. And lived happily ever after. :)

[akadatank44]

I do lover my best friend not "in love" with him, he is married to my other best friend xD

[Asker]

lmfao. that's kind of awesome. but... did you not have feelings for your other best friend at all?

[akadatank44]

Nope. She became my best friend once they met. We never knew each other prior. But I did back in high school so many years ago 😂

[Asker]

crazy how that worked out :p

[akadatank44]

Wbu? You in love with your best friend? 😛

[Asker]

she said she's in love with me lmfao. i mean, we're both straight. but she's repeatedly made comments about wishing i was a guy LOL. I don't know. i feel all nostalgic for some reason. ideally, i would want my partner to be my best friend.

[akadatank44]

Lol that is a tad strange to say but in a way it makes sense right? She obviously looks up to you and likes your qualities and personality. So feel good about yourself 😉
Same for me as well. Who knows what will happen tho xD

[Asker]

well. I don't know. it kind of makes me wonder if i would make a better dude than a girl. LOL.

[akadatank44]

Lol! I don't think she means it quite like that but I understand what you are thinking😛 I'm sure you make a fantastic girl? That's sounds weird 😂

[CyberKnight]

they're good, although, my God. the girl on the left, worst case of rbf I think I've ever seen.

here's a better example.

https://youtu.be/hyj4JFSErrw

[blondfrog]

Don't know if I can call her by boyfriend but I'd like to consider her as a friend yes lol.

[blondfrog]

I meant to type best friend lol but when I typed boyfriend I forgot that it turns that into the word boyfriend lol.

[DankMemeage420]

I wouldn't say best friend, but maybe best girl (space) friend

[tiajoker]

Yeah, I was. He turned me down though, but I don't think of him like that anymore and I'm glad was rejected.

[BlueFire876]

Yes, and it is really hard cause we just broke up and I want him back so bad, but it is for the best so I must resist texting him :,(

[browning1996]

Yes, he was my best friend then feelings developed and we began a relationship thereafter. Huge risk

[madhatters4]

i love my closest friends. i'm not in love with them

[19magic]

I love my bestie forever and always no matter how far apart we may be.

[Pizzalover101]

No if she s just a good friend its possible just have opaset sex friend's

[tacoty21]

im so in love with her it not even funny 😥

[Seppelson]

poor one. I was the same and is destroyed friendship

[browning1996]

Please take time to really think if its worth the risk because if things don't go well, the friendship will be damaged too

[Wingedz]

Me: "I'll bang you later, ok?"
She: "Yes, Commander"

[Anonymous]

No such thing as best friend between m/f...
Your question proved it.

[Dwiller924]

I'm my own best friend. So yes. But I do love someone else I wish was my best friend.

[she40841]

Hmmm... difficult to know... he is married to my other best friend xD

[DarklordOdin]

I do love her a bunch, just not in a gay way.

[rgb008]

I don't have friends :(

[Anonymous]

i dk girl, are you, in love with your best friend..

im a guy, and i have a guy best friend.. why would i be in love with him?