Can we be attracted to a complete stranger?

[sarath1997]

firstly it is irrelevant for my current state , just curious
can we start having feeling for a complete stranger , if so why and what might be the reason for having such feeling...😒 if not , then why can't..
and here stranger means a person with whom you have no personal connection..., like she can be like I said earlier met in a bus , or a good friend who is 50+ KMS away... in another state or even a country...😏🤔...

no we can't have feeling for a stranger

yep we can but it is rare (and if this then say what are the things which you can be attracted in a stranger..

don't want to talk or give opinion on this topic... click here and 👋😂

[lilliank]

not sure how rare but my boyfriend​ had no idea who I was but when he met me (and we were at a rave) he later said I look different then anyone else there, my personality and all. You can Like/not like any stranger I think, because either way people have a certain demeanor to them. But of course you don't know who someone is truly.

[sarath1997]

actually we can't blame our lack of knowledge about him for that , some people are good at hiding their nature while others aren't..., i had heard stories where a person we know for many years raped someone and also a person we just met saved someone...

[ShaunaM95]

Being attracted to someone you don't know can happen all of the time! Attraction isn't something that you have to get to know a person for it to happen. Sometimes attraction can happen that way but a lot of the time it doesn't.

[sarath1997]

you said and I agree...😂 we don't need to see someone to have feeling for them , it happens for me I feel attracted to voice and personality (I mean which we can understand with chat or talk )... and I don't have to see someone to feel something for them...👍

[i_research]

We can have lust, but not genuine feelings. As in not love.

[sarath1997]

I am talking about a stranger... whom we never saw before and how can lust be there... I mean we might have talked or had some chat and stuff like that... but never seen... so lust can never happen...

[i_research]

People can feel lust by just hearing a voice a few times. You don't have to know the person. If you allow your mind, you will feel the lust for a stranger.

[sarath1997]

ooh OK... but lust is just physical attraction I am not talking about physical stuff here...

[sarath1997]

and you might like a voice but think if any singer who looks bad ,( when I say bad it is really bad but has a beautiful voice ) do you think we can be attracted I mean lust over her...🤔

[i_research]

I don't get what kind of attraction you are referring to.
We can definitely find people attractive at first glance.
We can find their voice attractive, but not face.

[sarath1997]

it is complicated lol 😂 , I am referring to a voice , or personality (I mean we had chat or talked once ) such type but never saw each other...

[i_research]

ohhh, yes attraction is possible because in our head we kind of imagine how they would be. Or we read their texts and read it in a way that we imagine that's how they are saying it. So it creates this false attraction.

[sarath1997]

so it is false attraction... I mean it won't go anywhere , sort of type...😩 OK thanks...😂 👍

[Dme500]

yeah and its not that rare. one pretty is pretty, period. also if your talking to her then she could become incredibly attractive just based off personality. I've met a few girls like that on here.

[sarath1997]

bro we have too much in common i would love to have a bro talk , tomorrow... i mean private message... if you are ready not now cause i am feeling sleepy...😂 its only 11:PM and I am already feeling sleepy so are you ready bro i need some expert advise in various stuff and you are one of the person here who knows me... so are you willing , tomorrow?😳😅

[Dme500]

just hit me up man.

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

This is what leads to 1-Night Stands

[sarath1997]

two same opinion then it might be right...

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

Possibly, but opinions are like raindrops. There are millions of different ones out there, but if you stand in one place and listen to them all, you'll get wet...

[sarath1997]

bro you impress me...

[JosyJosy]

Yes, that's where one night stands come from

[sarath1997]

and do you know that most one night stand leads to relationship, and I think my English is bad cause no one is really getting the concept of a stranger here...😩 it means no physical appearance, no sex , you don't know him... . he is just a voice or a imaginary person or some letters in your head which you start having feeling for...😩

[razor97]

no, never trust strangers

[sarath1997]

it was what my mom said when I was too young , but I have experience that strangers can be more useful then my relations.. 😒😩😂

[razor97]

not all strangers are bad, but most of humans are selfish and angry

[razor97]

and nasty

[sarath1997]

hahaha​ bro I am not... selfish... at least not for me , I can act selfish for the people I love... but never for me 😩

[razor97]

i'm talking about some strangers, not you. i don't even know you, but i know from my experience that there are bad peoples not only good

[sarath1997]

yep bro there are... I won't oppose that point , I had bad experiences too...😩