Dealing my with his baby mama?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if I don't know if I should be gullible an trust that my boyfriend will do the right thing.

My boyfriend and his baby mama talk on messenger often, and about 90% of the time it's about the child. They have two boys together, one is 14 and the other is 9, so obviously they've known each other for quite some time. My boyfriend cheated on her and she left him, moved on and moved in with her current boyfriend, that was about a year before my boyfriend and I met. Through out that year before we met, she would cheat on her man with my boyfriend (her baby daddy). Then he met me, we dated and eventually became exclusive and moved in together. This is where the messenger part comes in. The talk on messenger a little too often and most of the time like 10% of the conversation is about the kids. We argue about it (yes I go through his phone and see what type of conversations they have which is how I know it's next to never about the boys) and it has resulted in him deleting their conversation.

[goddess87]

You made a big mistake confronting him before having evidence. Now he knows to hide things from you. The only thing you can do at this point is install key logging software so you can see what he is saying to her. But considering he's simply started deleting the convos that's a bad since. Also you say they were together many years and still sleeping together right before he met you. Do you think after 14+ years of sleeping together he's suddenly going to stop when he knows he can still get it? They both have a strong history of cheating so what would suddenly make them change and become faithful? Don't kid yourself here. He's up to no good

[Anonymous]

You should keep an eye on them