I've never been liked by a guy before?

[Anonymous]

all my friends have had guys to told them they liked them before and some have been in relationships. I've been told by a few people that I'm pretty and I get along well with people. is there something wrong with me? I feel lousy.

[anonymousdude2]

Americans love to play games. Many won't just come out and tell you. You're young so maybe you're not so much in tune with the actions of guys. It's pretty true that guys' words are usually pretty straight forward, but you have to be able to judge their actions too.

Are they trying to hang out with you a lot? Are they giving you compliments? Are they physically trying to be close to you, sit next to you, walk next to you? Are they leaning into you trying to talk to you? Are they looking over to seek your approval of the things they do? Are they trying to get you to laugh? Basically are they showing interest or flirting with you?

Looks are very important to men, let's just be real here. Make sure your doing what you can do stay in shape and eat right. Make sure your clothes are sexy, not slutty, but not too conservative.

Maybe you're doing your fair share of flirting. If a girl is pretty enough she could probably just sit there and get hit on. But if not you might have to do a tad bit of flirting to get into his sexual interests.

If a guy thinks of you sexually then there's potential for him to like you for a long term as well. It's usually in that order as well.

[anonymousdude2]

Are you doing your fair share of flirting*

[Asker]

Haha but I'm not american.

[anonymousdude2]

Well then they're probably not playing games! :P

[iRockin]

Owned.

[iRockin]

haha there's nothing wrong with you, and don't force yurself to get a boyfriend just because your friends have one because it won't work out (I kno, I was in the same situation onece) and guys are baaaad so picking the right one for you will be difficult and you might have to look around but relationships are really fun and onece you find the right guy for you it will be all worth it (=

[livethelifeyoulove]

no there is probably nothing wrong with you don't be silly :) your time will come, I'm sure you hear that a lot but it will. I was once in your shoes felt like there was something wrong with me and I was attractive and got on well with people to, but it was when I stopped doubting myself and became more confident that boys started noticing me and wanting to be with me. confidence is a very attractive thing so be confident and be yourself and that in itself is very appealing to the opposite sex.

[Juliana77]

you're "under 18" right?! You're young relax...

I only got a boyfriend when I was 18 (almost 19), so only then..that I felt loved by someone)...

It's normal to feel "lousy" and weird, because you feel like an exception...I understand you, I felt the same...but you'll see that everything will happen at the right moment...no need to rush anything!

[ArmyStrong]

Your time will come. There are many fish in the sea.