He says he loves me but don't feel like he does why Is that?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of almost two year say he loves me, he wants a future with me, he want us to have babies later on, has a vision on how he wants our first house to be. Yet I don't feel loved. I love him and I feel like I put him on one of my first priorities but he doesn't I guess I sweet talk him and motivate him to try to be the best he can but he doesn't take it sometimes or I don't get any support when I need it just like a little "come on you can do this" I would appreciate a lot. His actions sometimes throws me off because he isn't patient with me but he wants me to be patient with him... am I over thinking this is it just me or what? Any opinions?

[DLTN1992]

Never second-guess your feelings. If you feel that he doesn't like you, then you're right. Because you wouldn't be saying these things if he really does

[Megalyssa]

He might be expressing his love not in the way you can appreciate. What does he needs to do for you to feel his love?

[Asker]

I just said it at least show some type of encouragement/support he shows nothing

[Megalyssa]

How exactly do you want him to show support? It is important to understand what you want.
Say I thought same about my man. He never ever called me anything nice. Never massages. So I thought he doesn't care about me. But he was giving me almost all of his money and was buying presents. Not the things that I wanted. But still. He was expressing his love in a different way. That's all

[Asker]

Yeah I guess you're right but it gets to me and I start assuming... :/

[Megalyssa]

Its super annoying. Google 5 languages of love. But I think if they really really loved us they could be expressing love the way we wanted. especially after we explained in plain English.

[Viranda]

Because he doesn't.