He ignores me but gets mad when I ignore him? Is it dumb for me to get mad at broken promises like not calling back?

[Anonymous]

We don't really get to see each other often he works a lot and do I our calls are basically all we have

[Anonymous]

i mean if he has a good reason, don't get mad. if he does it a lot and it just wastes your time, tell him that & say if you're not gonna call don't tell me you are & waste my time.

[WiseTurtle]

keep ignoring him until he blows and then make your point definitly, do you agree on that?

[Asker]

I did once and he texted me like a hundred times. He works long days so I feel should be understanding but I hate broken promises

[WiseTurtle]

that's not a reason. if i were your place i will be more of a pain in the ass for him

[Asker]

lol so what's your advice

[WiseTurtle]

make the hell out of him until i feel that he won't do it anymore. But don't feel any pity while you punish him 😩

[Asker]

So should I ignore him all day tomorrow? No matter what he says?

[WiseTurtle]

why would you fix the period for 1 day? why not longer?

[Asker]

lol how long

[WiseTurtle]

as long as it takes to fix things for once. Why do you let your feelings take control over you? Don't you want to fix it once for all?

[Asker]

Yes. But I never ignore longer than 4-5 hours

[Asker]

But I'm willing to do whatever to correct it otherwise I'll have to walk

[WiseTurtle]

the goal here is to piss him off really bad to the point he won't give any broken promises ok?

[Asker]

Okay lol

[WiseTurtle]

as much as you trust your relationship won't fall for what you're preparing to do it's all good don't you agree?

[bondobilly]

if someone makes a habit of not calling/texting back, move along.