Why is he ignoring me after I broke up with our situationship?

[Anonymous]

I asked him if he could give me some time to go out and meet others and I will allow him to find someone else. He’s acting the same way as my previous situationship when I asked to just be friends he stopped talking to me and ignored me. In my seem like I’m at fault but as soon as I see red flag 🚩 I politely distance my self. This guy seems either a cheater or very
jealous because when I go out he goes out and seems and acts like he’s making me pay for it.

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We can be friends *

[Anonymous]

what else is he supposed to do? pretend everything is okay? talk to you like nothing happened? i think he's over it

you said you saw a red flag. did you talk to him about it or just said you need some time, without telling him why? he has no idea what is going on. so it's only fair that he doesn't talk to you either during this time

[avery58]

Cause he's not interested in having a normal friendship with you.

[serious]

You saw the red flag and you distanced yourself from him, you did the right thing.

[spartan55]

Why he talk to you aren't having sex with him?

[spartan55]

*why would he

[spartan55]

"you will allow him to find someone else"... you seem to think you are in a normal committed relationship...😂 😂

[Asker]

Dude, he told me I couldn’t be in a relationship if we’re talking because it’s disrespectful.

[spartan55]

Dude, you aren't in a relationship. You are letting some clown who doesn't respect you, and won't commit to you, tell you what to do? Wow really?

[spartan55]

When you're talking? And you just along with that? You think he isn't talking to anyone else? Yeah okay.

[Asker]

We have one month and a half talking until I noticed that if I go out he will go out and post stories having fun after calling me and letting me know if I was más linda laughing like he was making me pay. I don’t know if you get it. He said he still needs to know me more because it’s been only a month but he already talk to my mom and told me that if I lose him I will lose a hard working man with good family and manners. But what I didn’t like it’s that he was a Jesus accusing me of cheating and some other comments putting me down

[Asker]

Of course he is. If he accuses me I will accuse him back. I have make friends

[spartan55]

What am I not getting? This guy sounds like an abuse starter kit.