Why is he ignoring me so much?

[Anonymous]

I don't get why a guy just can't tell a girl "I don't like you. I don't want to talk to you." Or something instead of ignoring her messages like 3 days in a row but hasn't missed viewing not one Snapchat story? (messages have always been on Snapchat too) Yes we know each other personally. He just lives in another state right now. I know he's a nice guy. His last relationship was a mess.

He said the biggest mistake he's ever made was getting with that girl. They got married and divorced within 7 months. At first he was talking to me A LOT! Then after he mentioned he had to go live in another country for 2 years cause I mentioned visiting him before he left, it's like things went down hill. I was just trying to be nice cause no one from back home goes and visits him at all. Which he does live like 4 states away.

I asked him why he didn't like me as anything & he said he never said he didn't like me as a friend. Before that he said he had no interest in dating me which is fine. But now he hasn't messaged back in almost 5 days. I was left on read. which I haven't bothered with him in 3 days. He's never missed watching a Snapchat story. He's even been on my instagram cause he mentioned something about it to me but he doesn't even follow me. Nothing adds up to me and I feel like he's playing some game right now.

[RayKelzi]

Sorry to say this, but he's ignoring you cause he's not interested in you. So the most simple & easier thing to do is ignore the messages you send instead of telling you the truth that he's not interested. (which by the way, everyone men & women do the same thing by ignoring someone when they just aren't interested in or doesn't care about them).
You can't do anything about it. if he cares, he should've texted you back sooner & not letting you wait days while he already read your texts.

[Asker]

Yeah I know. I just wish he'd remove me and stop looking at everything I do if he don't care for me lol. He intentionally is viewing all my Snapchat stories (he's never missed one since I've had him added) and he's been on my instagram where he don't even follow me. It really makes no sense. I would remove him but it would not do anything cause my snaps are public so I don't have to add everyone back but they can still view them. He hasn't done anything for me to block him.

[RayKelzi]

Yeah i understand. The same thing happened to me with a girl i liked a year ago (the first few weeks were great, she is really a nice person though, but then one day she just stopped replying to my texts, but still she was always liking every pic & quote i upload on instagram or facebook for the next 2 months, which was really weird if she just didn't care or if she wasn't interested then why does she keeps on following me. Until one day i just wanted to stop wondering & had to talk to her about this, until finally she removed me from fb & stopped following me on instagram too & i did the same).

[Asker]

Usually when girls stop talking like that but they still engage with you on social media that means they found someone else to talk to or they started dating someone. but I've already changed confronted this guy about all that and he didn't remove it yet. Lol

[RayKelzi]

Good to know.. Well at least now that you've tried everything you can & confronted this guy. You can move on from this.

[Asker]

Right

[Danny_dan92]

When people ignore? It equals no interest. Simple as that

[Asker]

Well maybe he should stop watching me on Snapchat so much, stalking my instagram even though he don't follow me, if he has completely no interest. Not to mention replying to snaps saying "Damnnnnn." I'm just saying. Doesn't look like no interest to me. I even told him to remove me off Snapchat if he wanted to that I wouldn't be upset and he stated I was the resin why he still has Snapchat lol

[Danny_dan92]

Next time he stalks your IG DM him and say "can I help you?"

[Danny_dan92]

But you'd be surprised, a few girls I either once had a thing with, or flirted with a little at one point but stopped. Still look at my snap story. It's the weirdest fucken thing I know.

But know this

[Danny_dan92]

Back then the snap stories just kept rolling unless you swipped away.

So if you see his username on the view bar, and on ALL the snaps on your story. Then that means he intentionally wanted to see your snaps. So he has to physically click on your bubble and press play. Soo... there's a reason for that

[Asker]

I know. The stories used to play automatically but they don't anymore. You have to physically click it to view it just like you said and I post A LOT! To me a lot is like 6-7 times a day. Maybe once on a bad day. Majority of my snaps are always of me... my face. So he's looking at me when he opens them. He rarely ever posts on his. Last time he posted it was of his truck and I feel like the only reason why he done that was because I posted a snap of like 5 trucks in my yard. Every other week he will post pics of like the sun set or something lol. Never of him though.

[Danny_dan92]

There's a little trick to this. 😈

I'll give you the inside scoop lmao

[Asker]

Which he doesn't have many people on his Snapchat either. He has about as many as I do. About 12 people.

[Danny_dan92]

How quick would you say he looks at your story?

[Danny_dan92]

Like say you post something... how long would it take for him to look at it

[Asker]

During the week I say at least within an hour of me posting except like maybe Wednesday he will go a few hours without looking at it until he views it. He has viewed them within 30 minutes sometimes. Usually it's an hour though then at night it's certain times. Around 6,8, and 11p. m. Then at 2 a. m. I think he works night shift. Now on the weekends it's different. He's always viewing on the weekends like right after I post

[Danny_dan92]

If you wanna find out what he thinks about you on a attractiveness level.

Post a snap of something random, like a truck or whatever. And then time how long it takes for him to look at it

Then after that post a picture of you in a bikini laying down poolside, or something like that. And then time that. If he viewed the one with the bikini in less time? it means he was like "holy shit!! I gotta look at this" and was tapping the view button like he has propellers in his hand

[Asker]

I've already posted a snap of me in a bikini laying poolside a few weeks ago and he viewed it in less than hour. He views my snaps frequently. I post pics and videos. I even posted a snap of me in the mirror with a crop top with some adidas sweats on and he messaged me 2 days later about it asking was that me lol.

[Asker]

He even read the text I put in the corner of the photo lol. So I know he's looking at what I'm posting and not just skipping through. What's even more weird is O sent him a Snapchat request 3 months ago and he just added me back a month ago. it took him 2 months to add me back now he's on Snapchat like everyday and he's not really snapping anyone cause his score doesn't change much during the week. He's a sweet guy. I have sent him pics of me in bra and panties before which he really liked. He told me that he's never had a girl send him anything. He's never been the type to ask he said. Which he told me he didn't think any of less of me and that it was fine cause I told him not to think I was a ho or something.

[Danny_dan92]

Damn... you're really head over heels for this guy huh? Lol

[Danny_dan92]

Honestly he could have just been having a hiatus.

I sometimes don't go on snap for awhile.

[Danny_dan92]

Well shit that's good!! It means he has dignity and respect. I'm the same way I don't ask girls for nudes. If anything I just say I would like to see them but what they decide to do it up to them

[Danny_dan92]

Hmm... maybe he likes you. It's just the fact that he doesn't know how to confess it. Like he doesn't wanna come off too thirsty

[Asker]

Well yeah I'm a girl lol. We notice EVERYTHING especially when we like someone. It just really don't make sense to tell some one you're not interested in them like that but yet you're always looking at what they're doing. I am an honest person. Very straight forward. Never shy. I told him that I think he's lying that there's some kind of interest there whether it's only like 2% and he said that if he had interest in me I'd know it that he's just a nice guy. And I said "Well you see that's all you had the say. Wasn't so hard was it. So thank you." He said "Well you're welcome." And hasn't talked to me since. So I feel like he's doing this to try and prove something to me. I also told him there's guys everywhere lol.

[Danny_dan92]

Well guys and girls are different.

Cause I've had a few girls do just that to me and yet even with the ones I was persistent on taking them out on a date. They kept rejecting me lmao

But for us guys, if we are looking at your snap story all the time... it means we have some sort of interest in you.

[Danny_dan92]

Seems like he has a mouth full of salt... he needs some water

[Danny_dan92]

He's fucken weird tho... for reals.

Like if I'm looking at a girls snap story all the time (it means I like her) and if she hit me up? I would flirt like a savage

[Danny_dan92]

But I don't know that's just me

[Asker]

EXACTLY! That's kind of what he said. Which I didn't send nudes lol. He was like "It doesn't really matter if you send it or not that's up to you." He always said it was up to me or not but he NEVER denied or said no to it. Once I sent the 1st pic he opened it & it took him like 15 mins after opening it to message back "Dang that's nice" then I sent the last one and he replied with "Damnnnnnn." So I think he liked them lol. He already knew that I liked him cause I told him I have to really be digging him to send anything like that.

[Asker]

We're in our mid 20's. He just went through a divorce at this time last year. They were only together for 1-2 years. Got married and divorced within 7 months. He said she was an evil selfish hateful b**** that he regrets marrying and that the biggest mistake he's ever made was getting with her. I'm not sure what she did. It's none of my business to know that lol but it must of been pretty bad cause I've never heard him talk like that about anyone. like ever. I felt like he was shutting me out cause of that. Thinking he's going to get hurt again.

[Danny_dan92]

Honestly I respect a girl that sends me pictures of her in a bra and panties a lot more than a chick that sends me nudes. Cause for one it makes me think she's too easy, and two I like the tease of those pictures. It makes me use my imagination lol

That's interesting tho. It seems like he does like you... but I wanna say it's more lust than anything

[Danny_dan92]

Hahaha yeah I would never marry a woman in 2 years that was a terrible mistake

[Danny_dan92]

And that's very mature of you not to ask. And you're right, it's best to let that stay in the past. Let him vent about it, cause I'm sure it has affected him. Especially if he didn't get a prenup

[Danny_dan92]

But with what you just said, I feel like he might have his guard up

[Asker]

I guess he really loved her to marry her that fast. He definitely has his guard up. He doesn't talk about his feelings at all. Very reserved. Want know something else that doesn't make sense? I'm sort of popular on social media and sometimes these people will make ship edits. Shipping someone means you think they would make a cute couple. Well a few ships got made of me and him (literally got over 1k likes and 300 comments) and he was perfectly fine with it. Which I wasn't really feeling him then like I am now. I posted a photo of him on my insta and that's what started that. He didn't even know what it meant. He was just like "What's ship mean that they think we're a thing or something." I told him what it meant and it was like "Oh well that's not bad at all." If he didn't like me I would assume that wouldn't be okay lol

[Danny_dan92]

I've never heard of that behavior lol

But yeah I think I'm spot on with this guy. He likes you but is traumatized. Honestly I can't blame him, that shit sucks

[Asker]

I told him he's the most confusing person I've ever met. He has a reason to cut all contact with me and he hasn't. My crazy ex went through my phone one day a few weeks ago (I stopped by to get some of my things he found in the attic) & saw his name. Spazzed out and literally messaged him on Facebook asking how long we was talking and when did we start and what did we talk about. He messaged him back and told my ex that he has absolute no interest in me or in any of the girls from back home. That he has a girlfriend out there where he's at anyway that he has nothing to worry about."

Imessaged the new guy back a few days later apologizing for all that telling him I didn't do anything wrong that i would understand if he doesn't want to associate with me anymore. He replied back saying he knows I didn't do anything wrong that "we're not a couple or anything that I don't have to explain myself to him that it's none of his business."

[Asker]

And I also confronted him about the girlfriend thing saying he should of told me had a girlfriend cause he never once mentioned a girl to me besides his ex who he divorced plus no pics of any on social media. He said that he only told my ex he had a girlfriend to make him feel better. Lol. So he lied about that

[Danny_dan92]

Your ex deserves to get stabbed in the face. Jk but seriously that's some immature shit. If some new guy is getting at my ex girlfriend so be it, I'm already moving on to other women myself lmao

[Danny_dan92]

This new guy is very mature. I would have said the same thing

[Danny_dan92]

Shit if anything I would have found your ex and turned his teeth to dust for trying to come at me like that

[Danny_dan92]

Woah woah woah... he's got a girlfriend right now?

[Asker]

Lmao right? I left him. He couldn't control his anger. That's all I'm going to say about that one. I also asked the new guy about the no interest thing. I asked him did he really mean what he said when he said he has absolutely no interest in me and he said "What I meant by no interest is I'm not interested in dating you is all." I still call bull on that just like he said he has no interest in any girls back home but yet he keeps up with what I'm doing. His actions don't match up with his words besides the ignoring me thing he's doing right now.

[Asker]

No lol. He told me he told my ex he had a girlfriend just to make him feel better so he lied I guess to get him off his case lol

[Danny_dan92]

Psh yeah I can see that hahaha

Umm... I got some bad news for you

[Danny_dan92]

The fact that he said that could very well mean that he just finds you sexually attractive but doesn't want anything more from you than just sex

[Danny_dan92]

I mean after all you did send him pictures of you in underwear and he clearly enjoyed it but when you ask him about how he see's you, he says he doesn't see himself dating you.

[Danny_dan92]

Gotta give him credit though, he really has some balls to be upfront with you like that. Most people simply show rejection by ignoring the person's advances

[Danny_dan92]

Ohhhh ok gotcha. I still would have kicked his ass for crossing the line

[Asker]

I went 2 whole months without talking to this guy and he just had to add me back out the blue on Snapchat and now I have to go through this all over again. It kind of sucks but like I told him, there's guys everywhere. I remember the 2 nights after he added me back he was at a concert and I heard him singing in the background.

I messaged him and asked was that him singing and he said yeah more than likely. I asked him when was he going to sing me song and he said whenever he writes a good one. That's what started it up all over again. I shouldn't of never messaged him to begin with.

[Danny_dan92]

Lol wtf why? So now you regret hitting him up?

[Asker]

He's never ignored any advances I've made but he has told me before that he isn't interested in talking to girls "like that" unless we're dating. He's always saying "we're or we." So that makes me think he doesn't care for sex either lol. That's what he said but he only said that cause he misinterpreted something I said lol.

[Danny_dan92]

Well that's kinda wack... where's the fun in flirting with the girl if you aren't gonna be like that? 😂

[Asker]

Well kind of cause he's giving me a hard time. Lol. The last 3 messages I've sent got left on read so I'm on my 3rd day of acting like he don't exist.

[Danny_dan92]

Fuck it, play his card against him

[Asker]

Yeah well he's never really flirted with me much. Maybe he's insecure about himself or something. I have no idea. I've never had a guy I've talked to like that that hasn't flirted with me. He's the 1st not to lol no I'm not big headed either. I'm just saying.

[Danny_dan92]

Lemme ask you something

[Danny_dan92]

During what time frame did you send him those sexy snaps and he responded saying "daaamnnn" before or after your psychotic obsessive ex confronted him?

[Asker]

I seriously thought he was gay and I think that might be why he's ignoring me now. That's actually the last thing I sent him. Cause I told him I think he's hiding something and he said like what. At first I said him lying about not having interest in me but then I said I lied that I thought he was hiding that he was secretly gay at first cause I've never had a guy act like he had towards me which I told him it wouldn't be a big deal if he was. I told him that and he hasn't talked to me since lmao. Guess I hit a nerve

[Danny_dan92]

You thought he was gay 🤣

[Asker]

Before but my ex only saw his name on my phone. He didn't see no messages or nothing. Him and my ex know each other lol so he knew who it was by the name. They played ball against each other in high school and they didn't like each other either. My ex despises him lol

[Danny_dan92]

Well tbh that was some savage ass shit, even if it was not true that was kinda harsh lol but hey you know what I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and also say that I can understand where you're coming from. Sucks fucken ass to make an effort and make it a point to someone that you like them and then they go cold turkey on you.

[Danny_dan92]

Ahhhhh

Yeah your ex fucked it up

[Danny_dan92]

You can thank him by sinking a 10 inch blade into his forehead

[Asker]

Well he still talked to me after that happened with the ex. He said he knows I did nothing wrong that were not like couple of anything that I don't have to explain myself to him. He acted like he didn't care. I really thought he was gay cause the way he was acting towards me. I seriously thought he was kind of gay but I told him I know he's not now. I even sent another message apologizing to him for saying that and he didn't say anything back lol. Usually he says something but nope. He can't be too upset since he's still on my Snapchat

[Danny_dan92]

Yes he's right you didn't do anything wrong, but he just doesn't wanna date you cause he thinks he might end up getting involved in a love triangle.

But I have a way you can test him and find out the truth 😈

[Asker]

I don't think it's a good idea I keep bothering with him. I ignored guys that have millions of followers on social media because all my attention was on him and now I feel like an idiot lol. He knows all this too.

[Asker]

I also thought maybe he's ashamed to like me cause in high school he was preppy and only hung out with popular people dated cheerleaders and all that which I only know of 3 girls he dated in school. 2 of them were cheerleaders but the other was king of girly tomboy. My brother was in his class which they liked him. It's not that I wasn't popular it was I wasn't as well known around like he was. He seemed shy in school to me. I was friends with everyone. But he hasn't seen me since high school Which has been almost 8-9 years ago. I've changed a lot. He even said I have lol. I don't know. He's left me confused. I even offered to go visit him (he lives on the other side of the country) he was surprised to know I would go visit him. He was like "Visit where? Here?"That's when he told me he's moving to another country in February to live for 2 years.

[Danny_dan92]

Sorry I fell back asleep

[Danny_dan92]

Ohhhh no... you're not pinning values on guys that have millions of followers right? 😂

[Asker]

If I did I would of quit talking to him a long time ago

[Danny_dan92]

Ok, hahaha you're a good girl.

Ummm I don't know if I where you I would do this to find out his true colors.

Next time, send him a snap MESSAGE saying "hey, are you down to hookup?" And WATCH what he says

[Danny_dan92]

This is gonna work wonders for you 😜 cause see if he only sees you as a hookup. (Which would make sense cause the fact that he is still looking at your snap stories but when it comes to having a normal fucken adult conversation with you he ain't having it.)

Once you straight up bring up the idea of sex, he'll jump out of his seat faster than an mach 6

[Asker]

Lmao well I don't know if that's going to work. I already told him before that I'd smash if given the chance and he didn't really say anything lol. But it was also said with a lot of other stuff. Maybe thats why he quit talking to me. He noticed I developed feelings for him when maybe all he wanted was to hookup. I wouldn't mind it though lol. but I also don't want him to see me as "that kind of girl." Ya know cause I'm not like that lol

[Asker]

I also told him last week that "I know this may be wrong for me to say but I want you." And all that fool said was "I figured." Lmao so it's probably not interested in hooking up either. I might as well just forget about him. Lol

[Danny_dan92]

Just remember that if you have feelings now... just wait till his dick is sliding in and out of your pussy.

I've had many girls tell me straight up they only wanted to hook up and then after we had sex I found them cuddled up next to me and they had me spend the night. Even invited me back the next day 🤣

[Danny_dan92]

But that's good that you don't see yourself like that!! Don't be a thot

[Danny_dan92]

Wow... what an asshole. It's as if he said "yeah, no shit shirlock"

[Asker]

I couldn't even get him to talk about sex. He said "I don't normally talk to guys like this unless I'm dating them. I'm not interested in doing all this stuff unless we're dating." Considering he is always WE makes me think I have some what of a chance lmao. I don't know what his deal is. See why I thought he was gay? Maybe he's just shy or maybe he's screws a lot of people and don't wanna hurt me for all I know

[Asker]

I meant *girls 😂 he don't normally talk to girls like that

[Danny_dan92]

"I don't normally talk to guys like this" ?

[Danny_dan92]

Oh lol you beat me too it

[Danny_dan92]

I'm sorry but what a bitch 😂 I mean me personally I'm not super sexual when it comes to talking to a girl that I'm not serious with. But at the same time, if I'm just having a normal conversation with her and with absolutely ZERO sexual jabs here and there. She's gonna put me in the friend zone faster than shooting star

[Asker]

He also has a very stressful job. He works 12 hours every single day. he used to talk to me all the time but he slowed down and when he did I asked what was going on and he said that he was just keeping to himself and I told him if he wanted me to I'd leave him alone and he was just like "no it's just I'm keeping to myself. I have a lot going on i guess." Ever since that he's just been not very communicative. Maybe he does have some stuff going on. I told him if he needed someone to talk to I'm here and he was just like No he's good.

[Asker]

He went from sending 2-3 page texts and loling and hahaing a lot to little short text or just slam out ignoring. He got me though. I thought he liked me for a minute but now it feels like he despises me lol

[Danny_dan92]

With what you just said, I honestly feel like he is no longer interested but doesn't wanna flat out tell you

"I'm not interested in you at all whatsoever"

But I can tell you deserve that since clearly you really like this dude and you just want closure so you can move on once and for all.

I mean you can demand him to be a fucken man and stop giving you the run around and tell you straight up how he feels about you. But that's your call. I mean if he is not interested (which I think he is with what you've said) it's really not gonna make a difference lol

[Danny_dan92]

You're wasting your time lol go find yourself a real man that will treat you like a queen and not give you the run around like a little queer

[Asker]

Well ignoring my messages but then turning around and looking at every snap I post within an hour doesn't make sense to me. You think maybe he's scared since his last 2 girls screwed him over. Like he's not the type to go messing around with everyone if that makes sense. If he really didn't like me I would assume those ship edits people were making would make him feel uncomfortable but they didn't and he even said it wasn't bad at all. So he must agree that we would be cute together. He's confusing and he's confused me. I've never in my life dealt with someone like him before

[Asker]

I honestly feel like he's scared of liking someone cause of what happened to him with that last girl. I kind of feel bad for him cause I do wanna be there for him. the one before her cheated on him. I see why he wouldn't of want mess around with any girls from back home. He probably thinks they're all the same which isn't true. Just the way he acts makes me think he's pushing me away because of all that. I feel like any guy who didn't care for a girl wouldn't be looking at what she's doing and stuff

[Danny_dan92]

Now that you put it that way, I think you're right

[Asker]

Isn't that what guys do when they have had their heart broken? They hide their feelings cause they don't want to get attached? They think the girl is going to be like all the other ones so they don't even bother. Like he literally was talking to me like crazy almost all day and then when things started getting deep he backed off little by little so I think that's what his problem is. That's what my gut is telling me lol.

[Asker]

He probably doesn't even know what it's like to have a girl care about him or want to come visit him even if he's over 1,000 miles away cause I know for sure the last one he was with didn't.

[Danny_dan92]

Yes, I got my heart torn to shreds by a my last serious ex. She fucked me over so bad that I was scared to get into another relationship. As a result I literally became a fuck boy, I slept around a lot and when girls asked me to be their boyfriend I told them I wasn't looking for a relationship.

Out of all of them though, I only got somewhat serious with one of them. But the second I started getting a bad feeling I ended it.

But recently I ran into two girls that both make me feel a lot different (yes I know it's fucked up to have options) but I'm still single and so are they. Plus I'm sure they are talking to other guys as well lmao after all they are both smoking hot.

That being said I've been single for 3 years now... and only recently was I starting to think of the idea of seriously dating a girl. Now this guy went through MARRIAGE with this woman. So his situation isn't the same as mine. And like I've mentioned before, all guys are different.

[Danny_dan92]

Sure we are all human beings and still have feelings whether we want to admit it or are too macho to not admit it. It's true, and just as girls do this. We put our guard up when we get hurt in a relationship

[Danny_dan92]

If I was talking to a girl that wanted to do that for me? Then shit that would speak for itself

[Asker]

Ever since then he slowed up talking to me. He just kind of backed off a bit. He seemed a bit surprised that I would want to go visit him I know that. Then he told he's leaving to "the country he stated" in February. I told him that he better not lose touch with me when he goes over there either and he said back "I'm sure I won't." Which I thought was kind of sweet cause he pretty stated will keep in touch with me while he's over there

[Asker]

what do you think? if a girl told you that you better not lose touch with her when you leave to go to another country for 2 years and you say back you're sure you won't. Like isn't that a good thing?

[Danny_dan92]

For one he could be lying.

But say we give him the benefit of the doubt.

Even though as you say he leaves you hanging a lot and leaves you on "read" it could very well mean that he likes you. It's just that he is being realistic. He knows that a LDR would be a BITCH, and he is not about to put you both through that.

I admire your loyalty and attention towards one man. We need more remarkable woman like you. There are a SHIIIT load of women that cannot keep their eyes on the prize, yeah sure that contradicts what I mentioned earlier about what I'm doing but hey, when considering that one girl isn't as much of a candidate for potentially having something serious with her? Then yeah it's a no brainer 😂

[Asker]

Sorry you had to go through that. My last relationship was a disaster. I was always in the damn kitchen holding a dinner plate lol. But yeah. Him lying about what? He just started leaving me on read. He didn't used to well not much anyway. Ever since I mentioned all that visiting stuff it's like he got in his feelings cause the day after I told him I wasn't trying to scare him off or anything and he said I didn't creep him out that he didn't feel any type of way about it. He's just been keeping to himself he guesses. That's when he didn't talk to me much anymore and all that.

I had someone else tell me that he's doing me a favor because of a LDR isn't all that great. And thank you. We have been chatting back and forth since May of this year and of course because I'm a female I had to catch feelings now I don't know lol. I feel like something is there. I know when someone really just don't like me

[Danny_dan92]

What do you mean by, "you where always in the kitchen holding a dinner plate" ?

Him lying about the fact that he will keep in touch with you.

Soooo you're saying that he drew more distant after you mentioned that you would be willing to visit him?

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah LD sucks ass, but with the advent of technology it's more doable. But when it comes to arguments there's no makeup sex so... that shit sucks lol

[Asker]

I was treated like a maid lol. If I didn't do what he would holler and fuss at me. I wasn't allowed to go anywhere or anything without his permission. It was just a mess. Yes ever since I mentioned that he said that. Maybe he's not lying since he's still on my social media. I've never been in LDR so I wouldn't know.

[Asker]

Sorry every since I mentioned that he backed off some.

[Danny_dan92]

Oh fuck that!! What a piece of shit lol good thing you dipped out! A relationship should be 50/50! It should NEVER be anything more or less

I can tell you're a catch and a great woman. Just don't put all your eggs in one basket, because his basket is too small for all your eggs... if you get what I mean

[Asker]

Yeah lol I know. I'm giving him his space. I just wish he'd be more clear with me. Telling me one thing and the turning around and doing another is confusing lol. I even told him if he wanted to he could remove me that I wouldn't be mad and he didn't remove me. A few days ago I did tell him if something ever happened to him I'd be devastated and he said back "Well hopefully nothing happens to me and thanks." So knows I care lol.

[Danny_dan92]

God damn, he's such a cold hearted bastard lol he needs a happy meal

[Asker]

How's that cold hearted

[katzonline]

hey dude iits me @katpuppies my account has been frozen;( please add meh

[Anonymous]

You know he is moving away right? There is your answer, he has interest but he won't Date you, move on.
Don't text him my god he should text you not you him. You already made clear what you think let him do the work now. If he doesn't do the work after you made yourself clear then he doesn't care. It's that simple.

[Asker]

I haven't talked to him in 3 days so I'm not fooling with him

[Asker]

So a guy can have interest but not want to date

[Opinion Owner]

Yes honey excatly. He can find you attractive and interesting but still he might not care enough or/and date you