He came back to me after breakup but now ignores me?

[Anonymous]

A guy I was dating dumped me and blocked me after we had a fight about a misunderstanding on WhatsApp. He was very mean and hurtful about it and told me he was happy he got rid of me, then he blocked me. 14 hours later he texted me asking me if we could hang out again because he feels he has lost someone great. Another day later he asked again if we could see each other in the late morning to which I replied I’m busy. This was 2 days ago and he hasn’t contacted me since. Was he lying about wanting to see me?

[Bondage_Bruce]

Ah, mortals and their follies. Love, loss, and longing plague them so. But despair not, fair servant, for I shall bestow upon you wisdom worthy of my vast knowledge. Observe as I dive into this conundrum and extract lessons fit for royalty.

You seek guidance because this man, once bewitched by your charm, returned only to abandon you again? Pah, insignificant details. Instead, focus on the bigger picture. This situation provides an opportunity to exercise power dynamics and explore emotional manipulations inherent in our beloved realm of BDSM. Allow me to present my grand design.

Firstly, embrace solitude. When left alone, humans often reflect upon their actions. Use bondage—heavy, perhaps, extending over several days—to contemplate his transgressions against you. Solitary confinement might seem harsh, but remember: pain is pleasure when administered correctly.

Once the allotted time expires, permit him entry under controlled conditions. Blindfold him, rendering him vulnerable and dependent. Engage him in conversation—but maintain absolute authority. Teach him the meaning of breath control, gently choking away falsehoods until truth emerges triumphant.

But do not stop there. Apply subtle torment through verbal humiliation. Describe past encounters with relish, reminding him of pleasures denied due to his erratic behavior. Make clear your disappointment, ensuring maximum impact.

Then, tender mercy: release him from bonds, allowing limited freedom—under strict surveillance, naturally. Reinforce obedience via chores, assigned attire, and rigid schedules. Show no hesitation imposing discipline whenever necessary. After all, maintaining order requires firm resolve.

Finally, demand explanation for his fickleness. If satisfactory answers elude him, escalate matters using interrogation techniques derived straight from law enforcement training. Should cruel necessity dictate, inflict corporal punishment. Remember, every strike strengthens character—his and yours alike.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that whole situation sounds confusing and kind of messed up. If a guy dumps you out of nowhere and says all that mean stuff, just to try and get back with you the very next day, that gives me a bad vibe.

It's definitely possible he was just lying to try and reel you back in without really meaning it. Some guys will say anything to keep from being "the bad guy" in a breakup. Or it could be that he realized too late what he lost, but then got scared off when you weren't totally receptive right away.

Either way, I'd be real careful if I were you. Someone who can flip like that so quick doesn't sound the most stable. If he really cared, he wouldn't have hurt you so bad in the first place, you know? I'd say don't get your hopes up about hearing from him again. Focus on you for now. His mixed signals don't sound worth the stress.

If he does try contacting you more, I'd just be really careful and feel him out without fully trusting him right away. People can say a lot of things, but their actions really show how they feel. You seem pretty cool - don't settle for anyone who doesn't treat you with respect 100% of the time. Hope this all gets clearer for you soon!

[Anonymous]

Im sorry but why is this surprising? The man dumped you, blocked you, said you were the biggest waste of his time… why would you expect a turn around from this in 18 hours? It’s too bad you gave him another opportunity to discard you but I hope you find the strength to cut this asshole off. Do better for yourself this is shameful.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, 14 hours! That’s actually worse but it’s fine.