He was ignoring me until I ignored him back and now he's gotten back to me why is he doing this?

[Anonymous]

He ignored me but was posting selfie and I never chased up after him. So I ignored him back and did my own thing now he's come running

Why?

[DaveJord]

Well this is all game play and I for one never play this types of game or accept it from anyone I would want to have a relationship with. But this whole thing, about ignoring someone that you are possibly interested in... it a dangerous game.

So when I think a women is ignoring me, or not being responsive to me. I don't over think it or get upset about it. I just ignore her back because I assume she is not really interested in me. If she comes back later and wants to chat or contacts me I am more than willing to pick up the conversation. I assume she thought twice about it and is now in a better place, or I figure if I play my cards right I might be able to get laid and then who knows where it goes from there. I mean after weeks of not talking to me if she contacts me then I think sex is definitely on the table.

For a guy to ignore a women then come back around... well either he was hooking up with or getting into dating different person and it ended so he is circling back on you. Or he legitimately had a change of heart, or he thought you were playing games with him and would come back around and when you didn't he thought he better give it a another try.

Bottom line is that you two haven't talk in a while and have been in this twisted place where there was no closure on the potential relationship... so all this time and you haven't contact him so it is obviously not that important to you... so give him closure on this thing if he was a friend. Or just continue to ignore him. What you absolutely should "NOT" do is reply just to be polite, if you are not seriously interested in him.

[young_OG96]

Comfortability, he thought he had a hold on you so he could do things like that, it’s only when we get treated the same we start acting right

[MoniqueTLC]

Before you ignored him, you were showing him that you were readily available for him and that he didn't need to put in any effort to get your attention. As soon as you started to ignore him, it flagged up to him that actually, perhaps you aren't so easily attainable.

Especially since you didn't react to his selfie post (probably for validation) and doing your own thing made him realise that you're no longer 'just there'

Good for you. Keep doing your own thing, don't let his hot and cold behaviour effect you

[Pinay_ako]

ignorance is bliss.

[Straight2thepoint]

Stop giving mixed signals people. Just say something.

[baserunner611]

Some guy it the chase, one he get you he lost interest again again and again

[VV3ZZY]

Because you made him afraid that you actually dont need him and he would end up alone

[ElementoP]

He's gay. That's pretty typical... of women

[katestar]

I've tried that. It works. But it backfired.

[Asker]

You ignored someone or ignored them back?

[katestar]

Ignore someone back.

[Wise4myage]

Is he bi polar? He sounds toxic.

[Asker]

No but should I view his story now? He's done a lot of favours for me and has been good to me in the past

[Wise4myage]

Sure, go for it.

[Asker]

Is that sarcasm 😂

[Wise4myage]

No, i was being honest.

[RealDaveThomas]

Two immature people, doing immature things

[Smoothing]

Absolutely

[Still-alive]

Just game playing. i say stay away

[cloud9vortex1234]

I think you should stay away from him.

[sams_0]

He’s playing games with you sis

[Clyde_123]

Ignore him forever.