My coworker said he was happy to see me one day.
He also told me that I smelled really good. I sit at the front and he works in the kitchen.
I have seen him compliment other coworkers but more brotherly.
He hugged one who’s in her 40s because she had something going on with her mom but it seemed brotherly.
Once I told him I had been looking for him and he was like “we’re you?” Kinda flirty.
He asked if I had plans for the weekend and I told him I was hanging with my dad for Father’s Day. He said he was going to the mountains with his girlfriend and her dad and he took forever to say girlfriend. Then we both kept saying “cool” and he lingered and there was a weird strong sexual vibe. There was a bug and he tried to fake scare me by pretending the bug was near me.
I was stressed and he told me I was doing amazing. He had to train a girl and they came to my area. I saw them but was already rushing to go home. She came in the bathroom and when I came out he asked “what was that” because I was rushing. He followed me back out and told me bye.
Once, I was looking down and from far away he was like “hey Kathy” and he thought I was my other coworker who sits near me. we have similar hair and I was looking down. I looked up and laughed and he was like “day one without my contact lens. I was about to say Kathy looks great today.” (Me)
Later he was like “hey Kathy” to tease me.
He knows I’m seeing someone.
Other day he came over and said good morning and was blushing and it got quiet and I laughed and he asked “what?” And I told him it was awkward and he just said “ok” then walked away.
There’s a new girl in my position working on the evenings now ( she's 21 and so am I. The guy is probably early 30s ) and she’s also kinda cute and he told her hey.
The other day I asked where someone was and he told me and asked why and I was like “no reason” and he said “ok”. Today he said good morning but isn’t rlly talking to me.
He also told me that I smelled really good. I sit at the front and he works in the kitchen.
I have seen him compliment other coworkers but more brotherly.
He hugged one who’s in her 40s because she had something going on with her mom but it seemed brotherly.
Once I told him I had been looking for him and he was like “we’re you?” Kinda flirty.
He asked if I had plans for the weekend and I told him I was hanging with my dad for Father’s Day. He said he was going to the mountains with his girlfriend and her dad and he took forever to say girlfriend. Then we both kept saying “cool” and he lingered and there was a weird strong sexual vibe. There was a bug and he tried to fake scare me by pretending the bug was near me.
I was stressed and he told me I was doing amazing. He had to train a girl and they came to my area. I saw them but was already rushing to go home. She came in the bathroom and when I came out he asked “what was that” because I was rushing. He followed me back out and told me bye.
Once, I was looking down and from far away he was like “hey Kathy” and he thought I was my other coworker who sits near me. we have similar hair and I was looking down. I looked up and laughed and he was like “day one without my contact lens. I was about to say Kathy looks great today.” (Me)
Later he was like “hey Kathy” to tease me.
He knows I’m seeing someone.
Other day he came over and said good morning and was blushing and it got quiet and I laughed and he asked “what?” And I told him it was awkward and he just said “ok” then walked away.
There’s a new girl in my position working on the evenings now ( she's 21 and so am I. The guy is probably early 30s ) and she’s also kinda cute and he told her hey.
The other day I asked where someone was and he told me and asked why and I was like “no reason” and he said “ok”. Today he said good morning but isn’t rlly talking to me.
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So you are bent out of shape because a dude who has a girlfriend is not giving you enough attention? Don't be gross. Is everyone just supposed to pretend that he is single? Disgusting.
Oh, and you are seeing someone too... ugh you have no shame.
he is attracted to the new girl. if you want him , you ask him if he wants to ask you out
What shows that he’s attracted to the new girl?
New girl probably has a boyfriend too. Lol...
She doesn’t because she just moved here and we’ve talked about all of that. I just want to know what shows that he’s attracted to her?
Why does it matter? HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. What is wrong with you?
If he has a girlfriend then why is he flirting with me?
What you described isn't flirting. How does that get you off the hook anyway?
It’s fun to flirt at work. Noones talking about sex, relax. I’m young and not trying to get married anytime soon. Plus you don’t know the premise of my relationship or his.
Is that your lame attempt at justifying cheating? The premise of your relationship.. seriously? You are all gross. I don't know the premise? So why don't you straighten me out then? Tell me to relax, I'm sure you wouldn't care if your boyfriend had a side skank either right? Women like you disgust me. So insecure you don't care if you get cheap attention from taken men. You know what you are doing is untoward. Just own it.