My boyfriend wants me to call him "daddy" but I feel really awkward and shy to do so? What should I do?

[Anonymous]

we were texting today and he said "i have a tiny favour, can you call me daddy instead of my name?" i know he likes it quite abit, he has talked about it before. honestly i think it's quite weird but i agreed and he seemed quite happy. i tried texting him "goodnight daddy" instead of the normal "goodnight" but i was so nervous i just can't do it :// what should i do? i really want to please him ugh but it's just so something im not used to doing

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i dont have any strong dislike for the word. i just feel that it's kinda weird and im not used to calling someone not my dad daddy.

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people, he doesn't want me to call him that only when we are having sex or intimate stuff. he wants me to call him that like all the time. of course not out loud in public but like in texts.

[alwayswannadoit14]

let me tell you this one hits home. my girlfriend, which is 20 and I am 43, strange and not what you think, but when we first started seeing one another she would do this, only during sexual moments and at first I was like whoa, this girl is weird and has issues. then whispering to her in public things like Daddy is gonna spank you if you don't stop..., that was a huge turn on, and then it was Daddy this daddy that all the time, in texts whispering quietly in public and even aloud when people would look at us funny cuz of the age difference. but it passed and now we have a child and are in love cuz we compliment one another. the daddy thing fell by the wayside, and it was a huge turn on, but other than sexually or intimate moments, I see it as really weird too.

[Asker]

he wants me to call him that all the time i think, not just during sex

[alwayswannadoit14]

that to me would be a tad awkward and every now and then in public was ok but usually only when getting weird looks from others. I don't know if I would want to hear that all the time as it doesn't sound ok unless the situation is right, wrapping my hand around her throat gently while she says daddy oh yes daddy, hurt me daddy. you get the point. that was a huge turn on but has faded and is gone but really made our sex life super hot for a good year or so. all the time no way for me. surprise him once in bed and say oh Daddy I want you, I bet it turns up the heat, weird at first but the result you have to experience. if you do have that physical relationship. not for everyone but sexy and hot for some.

[Asker]

it's probably really awkward for me to do it. i dont think i can bring myself to say it ughhhhh

[alwayswannadoit14]

my girl was the one who did it first and I cringed when she did it, but eventually it was just so hot and made us both happy. if ya can't then he should back off, but going out on a limb for a person you love is a small sign that you would do anything for them, but add boundaries like only in bed, promise you both will be highly aroused especially you the one nervous about it, it took me a while but I began playing along and it for me being the apprehensive one made me that much better in tune to her sexuality and cum together more than once we did even got her to squirt, sorry it really was exciting. try it or ask him to please not pressure you to do things you aren't comfortable doing he should care enough to respect that.

[Levin]

Do you think you could get into the psychology of it? You being a good obedient submissive girl to your daddy? Being punished when you're naughty. There's no need to be shy. Sex is about fun ;)

[Anonymous]

Awe poor guy he got happy. It's honestly harmless. You shouldn't feel weird. I feel like it's almost every guy who wants to be called that... my boyfriend didn't bother asking me, he legit told me to call him big daddy lol. Don't think of an actual father. That's gross. It's just a name that gives men pride. It's pretty fun when your in bed too. He calls me his slut and although it's usually an offensive word, to me it makes me feel sexier. Be open to your relationship but also comfortable and if it's not working for you, just let him know.

[GulfCstGurl]

Me and My fiance talked about this once. Neither of us like that, as we both call our dad's Daddy. Now, we had a friend who was in to daddy/little stuff. She called her boyfriend Daddy AS WELL as her dad. I guess it's the comfortability with it. Try calling him Papi?

[Anonymous]

you grow used to it. you just need to adapt your speech. it's a petname, and it doesn't mean father or anything like that. it's a thing about dominance. just try to incorporate it every now and then, and soon it'll all just flow naturally

[Asker]

im just really nervous to even start

[Opinion Owner]

don't worry, I was too. if you're not comfortable tell him. but overall, remember it's just a name. you don't need to say it all the time, just occasionally. just try to do it whenever you feel the time is right, and eventually, over time, you'll be more comfortable

[eleanor95]

u dont have to do it if ur uncomfortable, i tried it during sex when he asked tho, and at first i thought i wouldn't like it, but its kinda hot

[Megalyssa]

That's such a small thing he is asking. Why not just go for it. you might like it

[Asker]

i just find it abit weird and im not used to it. i want to say it but i get so nervous and shy.

[Megalyssa]

I had a boyfriend like twice as young, he called himself daddy lol. it was weird, you are right but was fun. it was such a turn on for him

[mae_kookie]

lool well he's kinky asf...
tons of guys like being called daddy.
DONE EVER CALL HIM THAT IN PUBLIC...
its more of a bed room thing or a sexting thing.

[madhatters4]

tell him you are uncomfortable with this. you have a dad and wouldn't have sex with your dad or any "daddy" figure

[Robsinsf53]

Tell him what you just told us. And add at the end "im not calling..." I don't want no one to call me daddy except my daughter, lol.

[Anonymous]

Then dont! I dont even get why guys want to be called that way. Its honestly disgusting and sick. If you dont want to, then dont. She him that you can be a boss at a times as well.

[Kaylyne]

Only do what you feel most happy and comfortable with.

[Anonymous]

if ur not comfortable doing it tell him, but don't be nervous.. just send it to him.

[mayur1111]

it's not about the word by which you call him it's about the love , affection, and respect in your tone when you call him. as per your concern try to let him know your problem.

[Anonymous]

lol its simple just tell him you dont want to call him that as its awkward. whats the big deal lolz

[Asker]

i want to call him that but im just really nervous about it

[HashirShaikh]

Don't call him daddy. Actually he wants dominance over you and i must give you my opinion that never let him have dominance over you.

[Anonymous]

Well he is kinda like a dad because he gives out paper.

[Anonymous]

tell him no and to stop

[Anonymous]

HE WANTS TO BE YOUR DADDY AND FUCK WITH YOUR MOM.