My crush hurt my feelings, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

So he texts me on sc, all he does is ask me for sex (but I say No) and he talks to me about dirty stuff but when I try to tell him my feelings about him, he ignores me and tries to push me away. We go to the same school and it really gets difficult for me every time I see him. Sometimes I cry at school and I even skip classes and go home. Lately he asked me if I wanted to have sex with me I told him "NO" then I told him that I want to end this thingy that is btwn us, I've decided to move on maybe I'll find someone who will love me! He didn't say anything he just told me "have a nice junior year and I'm sorry" like I felt so broken inside deep in my heart asking myself why I fall for him? like why him? I really wanna kill myself right now I can't go further anymore its hard for me to move on even though I promised I'll move on!

[random56286]

Your only mistake in this whole scenario is after the second time you said no, you didn't drop him from your mind. As you probably suspect, he is not likely to do much more than hump and dump.

That is a case where you need to override that attraction you feel and don't hold feelings for him.

It is very difficult but at your age you should bounce back in no time.

Have a GREAT Junior year now that you know you won't have him to harass you any more.

[Asker]

Thankyou

[random56286]

I hope you have found a reason to live by now 😂

Tears will dry and when they do, you will have a new and clear picture of what you have left to enjoy. In all the times I have been horribly depressed, I never wanted to kill myself but I wished so badly that I could just die.

[Asker]

Yes I did thankyou so much I was really in pain

[random56286]

Hopefully you can replace what was pain with a sense of relief. Besides, all of the shy guys who do respect your intentions will be much happier without going out with a broken woman.

[pizzainbed]

Some dudes are just immature assholes. I'm sorry but thats the reality of things. If you're serious about hurting yourself, please PM me. Lets talk it through.

[Asker]

hi, i would love to talk to you!

[pizzainbed]

I'll be waiting :)

[unknown6989]

Don't think like that most people do think about the person they felt deeply about but you shouldn't want to kill ur self about it there's always a person for someone he just wasn't the one all he had on his mind was sex that's not all he was find someone that wants to listen to u and take it as u guy both want to.. don't listen to that guy have a GREAT year make it memorable with joyful moments don't let this affect u there's always someone for you