I remember a nurse from work (different section though), wanting to chat and dance with me all, generally flirting, I said no thanks several times. However at one point she took man hand and tried to drag me onto he dance floor, I pull back my hand back and firmly said no, then she flipped out as if I had called her name or anything. All I did was rejecting her, that's it, I was between girlfriends at the time but still, she wasen't very attractive so I was not interested.
Women are so bad at handling rejections, never seen a guy flipping out over something like this.
Wow. It's true. They don't know how to take it. I've been rejected before, and I move on. Sometimes it's disappointing but you go to the next person. Women seem to think a guy should want them just because they're women.
Yep. Lust is entirely subjctive and fickle. Friends can develop it, and acquaintances can start with it. If interest isn't there, you get the feeling you will be bored.
Bigger girls can't seem to get enough of me, but im attracted to thick or skinny girls usually. So often I don't outwardly reject big girls, but I change the subject when they try to get intimate.
That’s why they are better off just dropping hints/being friendly and waiting for the guy to make a move. But I hear a lot of the 20s guys these days have no clue how to approach women.
@hahahmm I wonder if this is why so many are badasses these days, and why girls like that. "Badboys" seem to want that image and personality to make up for what they lack.
@Nerdking find a guy who knows how and ask for tips but don’t ask a guy who is in your social circle or works with you cause he may view you as competition.
One of my best friends (Extremely hot woman) wanted me to go out with her but I rejected her because I needed a major break from relationships (I just got out of a relationship).
Yes , as was about to be deployed on operations with the British Army , also said no to a few women that turned me off with their self obsessed / nasty " personalities " .
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Yes, many times during college. Some of them did things that would certainly have been charged as sexual assault had they been men.
I’ve rejected a women before. She had found my phone number through her sister, who had gotten it from my sister. So not only did I have a random chick message me, I had to tell her I wasn’t interested in women so she pretty much wasted her time.
Ya I was ditched by my x girlfriend because she needs money not real love. I again met her and took her to a restaurant and made her pay bill and said good bye and left the place
That’s why my ex left me too... for a rich guy. Wish i had the opportunity to do that to or something like it missed my chance when I️ straight cut off all contact
I haven't exactly turned them down, but because of my shyness and lack of alone time with them, and lack of them conversing with me, nothing happened. Oh well FML
they have to be because if guys are then they get in trouble., Yes they are, it's very convenient though they shouldn;t have to be like that becuase guys shouldn;t have to feel guilty fro flirting
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like 3 times they all younger than me i just want older women to hit on me and yet i keep getting hit one by women 3 or 4 years younger than me -_-
Omg I want older women too!
breach brother ! hallelujah
A few times yes, girls don't seems to be very accustomed to rejections, it hardly ever pan out well.
Very true.
I remember a nurse from work (different section though), wanting to chat and dance with me all, generally flirting, I said no thanks several times. However at one point she took man hand and tried to drag me onto he dance floor, I pull back my hand back and firmly said no, then she flipped out as if I had called her name or anything. All I did was rejecting her, that's it, I was between girlfriends at the time but still, she wasen't very attractive so I was not interested.
Women are so bad at handling rejections, never seen a guy flipping out over something like this.
Wow. It's true. They don't know how to take it. I've been rejected before, and I move on. Sometimes it's disappointing but you go to the next person. Women seem to think a guy should want them just because they're women.
Yep. Lust is entirely subjctive and fickle. Friends can develop it, and acquaintances can start with it. If interest isn't there, you get the feeling you will be bored.
Bigger girls can't seem to get enough of me, but im attracted to thick or skinny girls usually. So often I don't outwardly reject big girls, but I change the subject when they try to get intimate.
Of course, it's funny how women get so upset like they should never be rejected but if do it to a guy. The guy is expected to understand
Also extremely true.
That’s why they are better off just dropping hints/being friendly and waiting for the guy to make a move. But I hear a lot of the 20s guys these days have no clue how to approach women.
@hahahmm I wonder if this is why so many are badasses these days, and why girls like that. "Badboys" seem to want that image and personality to make up for what they lack.
You deserve a medal, im one of those guys who dont know how to approach women, bc most women i grew up with were bad humans.
@Nerdking find a guy who knows how and ask for tips but don’t ask a guy who is in your social circle or works with you cause he may view you as competition.
There was this one girl who liked me but I knew she already had a boyfriend. I didn't feel like getting in to the drama, so I ignored her flirting.
I've experienced something similar as well.
One of my best friends (Extremely hot woman) wanted me to go out with her but I rejected her because I needed a major break from relationships (I just got out of a relationship).
Yes, mostly rejected because i wasn't interested or attracted. I have also been in long relationships most of my time dating
Nope I've never been in this type of situation because I wasn't a guy who was focused on my love life that much.
Yes , as was about to be deployed on operations with the British Army , also said no to a few women that turned me off with their self obsessed / nasty " personalities " .
Yes, many times during college. Some of them did things that would certainly have been charged as sexual assault had they been men.
Yeah I've heard how women in college can do that.
Yes, she was the apartment complex whore. I was not intetested in getting an STD.
Woooaaahh lol.
I’ve rejected a women before. She had found my phone number through her sister, who had gotten it from my sister. So not only did I have a random chick message me, I had to tell her I wasn’t interested in women so she pretty much wasted her time.
Yes, on a number of occasions, and for both the reasons you mention, most recently in September.
Several. I just wanted to be friends but they wanted more so I had to cut ties with them. They just wouldn't let it go.
Ya I was ditched by my x girlfriend because she needs money not real love. I again met her and took her to a restaurant and made her pay bill and said good bye and left the place
Nice!
Thanks
That’s why my ex left me too... for a rich guy. Wish i had the opportunity to do that to or something like it missed my chance when I️ straight cut off all contact
I haven't exactly turned them down, but because of my shyness and lack of alone time with them, and lack of them conversing with me, nothing happened. Oh well FML
I feel you 👊
When a girl comes at you and she isn't confident it's a turn off to begin with
Very true.
By the way, is it just me or younger girls are becoming more aggressive when flirting?
they have to be because if guys are then they get in trouble., Yes they are, it's very convenient though they shouldn;t have to be like that becuase guys shouldn;t have to feel guilty fro flirting
Yes i did becouse i was in a relationship with an other woman.
Got a lot of respect from her after this.
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got respect from the one i rejected
Yes i have, she was... how to say it... yeah a little crazy