She's a very smart girl and I admire her willingness to push on no matter how hard things get. She's a full time student at her college and she is also maintaining two jobs. She told me that she was going to transfer to university by next year and here I am just barley started my first year of community college and I'm already off to a bad start. I had to drop one class because I wasn't doing so well and I'm getting a feeling I'm going to fail my other class but I'm still trying to make an effort to pass. I feel that she has out ranked me at this point. Dont get me wrong, I'm very proud of her and admire her motivation. I just don't see why she is still with a loser like me. I really love her but I feel as if she deserves someone better than me and I wouldn't blame her if she is actually thinking about leaving me. I'm thinking about breaking up with her even if I know it'll leave me feeling heartbroken and depressed. I think this will be better for the both of us. Our relationship is doomed to fail anyways. It's just that part of me is still telling me that you just need to hold on a little longer and it doesn't matter how many times you fail, one day you'll prove your worth. Should I talk to her about this or should I just call it quits?
I feel like I'm not good enough for my girlfriend?
Yoo. Man dont do this to yourself. Dont be insecure about yourself. She loves you and you love her. If you tell her you are insecure, she might feel bad about you and feel guilty. Dont be weak. Be confident. Worst thing in a relationship one can do is feel he/she is inferior/superior to the other.
You should break up, she will dump you eventually when she realizes she can find someone more successfull and worth her time. It will save you the heartache.
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