What can I do to spice sex up with my boyfriend? ?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. We used to have a lot of sex (2-3 times a day) but things have been slowing down recently (once every other day). I want to know what we can do to bring the excitement and spark back into our sex life? The problem is that we have already pretty much tried everything... bondage, videos, blind fold, butt stuff, dress up/role play, public sex, etc... so now we have run out of new things to do. Any ideas? Do you think not having sex for a while would be helpful? Maybe him and I should stop sex for a week or two so we are excited again after some time without sex?

[NicoletteKomotov]

Have you tried fully feminizing him? With his body fully shaved and with sexy women's silky clothing and high heels, makeup, wig, gel form breasts etc, he will be sensual and sexy and can spark your interest as well in ways you hadn't thought of. Most men will deny having a desire to do so. ... But once they have done it and done it well, it becomes a wonderful adjunct to standard sex. It also gives you both something to do by shopping for clothes and high heels together and getting matching outfits and so on. It becomes a new hobby for you both to share. Get him this book and have him get started and see where it goes. He can download it to the Kindle ap on his phone or even get the audio version he can listen to on his phone. I give this to the males I suggest feminization to and it has helped get them started. See the happy lump in the cute one in the black dress?
www.amazon.com/.../ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0

[Kitten967]

Try different bondage, find positions you haven't done yet, use toys you haven't used before, invite other people to join you, find places you haven't done it before, just find things you haven't done yet and try it. Look on sex shops and see what you can buy to try.

[Missterio]

yes the inviting other people in never causes trouble in the other parts of the relationship... lol

suuure

[Kitten967]

For some people it doesn't cause problems. There are many couples who are into it and have a happy relationship

[Poppykate]

Go to your local sex shop when a female is working and ask for assistance. She will be glad to assist and will provide you with ideas! (And I don’t mean a threesome 😉)

[notsoMD]

Use some whips, slap him around, dress him up in a morph suit, drop hot candle wax on his chest, get the old man across the street involved or maybe stand on his thing. I don’t know, try any of the above! (JK, JK). Maybe talk to each about the your fantasies and work from there!

[taleswapper]

Just the opposite. See www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...-year_b_3790748.html The trick is to get out of your own headspace.

[Curiousbynature31]

Well I hate to tell you this is normal. You are out of the honeymoon phase. Add some kinky stuff but honestly don’t expect it to go back to the way it was.

[Anonymous]

Generally me and my other half just stop sex for a week a month. Generally falls when im on as I don't feel well enough to. But makes the build up when we do better :)

[Kat_puppies]

first of all you got a problem and you might neeed to lay it low its not all about sex ya know go on vacations with him and get to know him and love him more that ever

[dragau4]

Tease him but no sex just tease him until it gets unbearable itll be better other than that its pretty much up to you

[Regular1]

Maybe you should just break up with him and start selling your pussy on Backpage like a common little tramp.

[Longshanks68]

Dump him and come play with me is how to spice up your life

[t70mme]

Try teasing each other with self pleasure. I'm sure he would love to see you fucking yourself with a dildo

[Asixx]

Yes , try to stay away from each other for a while
Because having it to often will feel like a daily routine and not that exciting pleasure

[Iwantyerass]

Bring in another woman for a threesome. That should get him more excited. If not, then find a new man, cause that one is broken or turned gay.

[Missterio]

wow what a smart cookie you are -__-

[DaddyDom92]

Try the threesome or blowjob with rimjob. It will surely help

[Anonymous]

too much of something, is what i just said, too much

[parttimelover]

Try not living together for a while

[ileaza]

Have you tried sexting?

[Anonymous]

Try the Kamasutra type

[sidvt]

Give a gap n try

[Asker]

A gap?

[sidvt]

Yes if u give a gap to raise feelings back waiting gives u thrill n sexual feel so give some days gap and do it

[Anonymous]

Try kinky shit

[Humbledman74006]

Cuckolding