Guys, what can I do to make sex the best it can be for my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’m talking about when he cums, what can I do with my body to make it better and good feeling for him?

i notice there’s times when he moans a lot and other times he barely does so i always think I did something wrong.

i started taking birth control just so we wouldn’t have to use condoms and so he can finish inside and we’ve been doing that for months, he enjoys it way more.

what can I do at the point of his climax to make it better? Keep going (when I ride him)? Move my body a little so I’m grinding on it? What is possible?

[theKris94]

The penis is most sensitive right at the orgasm and right after.
So keep on riding and a little more after that. Make sure to ask him which kind of position feels best for him.
Some love the riding, some like the reverse riding, some like the doggystyle and so on.
He will maybe be a little hesistant to moan if you aren't doing it aswell.

I must admit i dont moan that much myself. I find it rather weird for a man to moan, but my current girlfriend loves it, so im trying my best anyways - maybe he thinks its weird for men to moan?

By far the best way to see if he enjoys it are his body movement and facial expressions, when climaxing. Try looking for that.

[Asker]

Good advice thank you so much

[Tony1Kanobi]

Erm. Communications the key to every relationship especially a sexual one. You need to find the time to talk about what you want to experiment or try out. Then ask what he wants. Keep talking about your sexual preferences with each other and your sex life can only get better and better. Personally knowing she's enjoying it and had an O or two is enough for me. Also maybe look into a UID ( the copper coil thing) thats what we use. its a real pain to get in but it can be 5 to 10 years of no rubber fun. Good luck. I hope it goes well.

[Anonymous]

Guys subconsciously want your approval that you like and want what they’re giving you sexually. When you sense he’s close to cumming, be vocal that you want him to cum and you want it inside you. They all love that.

[Asker]

That’s what he likes to! I’m kind of shy and am not too keen on saying those things but I do say how big he feels and things like that, he told me during that he loves when I talk like that, keep it up?

[Opinion Owner]

If that’s what he’s into, then yeah, be more vocal. There’s really no reason to be shy. I mean you’ve only got an audience of one.

[WhiteShoulder]

Keep riding him till he finishes spurting inside you. Sometimes if you’re really tight he’ll stay hard even after he finishes.

[Asker]

Good advice thanks girl!

[WhiteShoulder]

Welcome 😊

[AngyLlama]

I think you should talk about it with your boyfriend, he's the only one that knows what he likes

[Windows2011]

If he is on top : when he is thrusting and about to orgasm, hug him as tight as you can, and when he starts to thrust very deeply, wrap your legs around him and (pull him deeper), basically subconsciously telling him you want him inside you as much as he does, after he calms down keep you legs locked and kiss him.
if you are on top and riding (up and down) : when you feel he is about to cum go faster with deeper thrusts and keep going until he completely cums inside then stop, and don’t pull him out after, just let him enjoy the view for a few seconds, kiss his hand and lean forward to kiss him.
if you’re on top grinding (rocking back and forth) : almost the same as riding him, but when he cums try to rock slower but very deeply (as deep as you can) during his orgasm in a rhythmic manner.
thats really what I and most guys describe as amazing sex.

[Worshop]

Even if you've established where you're gonna cum before sex, i always like it when she starts asking where i want to cum before i reach my climax. I haven't had the chance to blow my load inside so i can't give advice on that, but if it's something like a facial, smiling and whatever kind of dirty talk you can muster up is great. Stimulation after cumming also might even lead to a second load or a great orgasm.

[Shah11]

Dumbass it's better you go and ask your boyfriend rather than asking stranger. How stupid you are.

[meta-djinn]

Ask HIM. Maybe even show him your questions here.

[GhettoGirl]

Smh...