What is the dark side of falling in love?

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Fractacular · Accepted Answer

Well, if you happen to be a jedi, you shouldn't fall in love at all. And if you do, and then you secretly marry her, you might have a bad dream about her dying in childbirth. And then if one of your best friends is actually a sith lord, and hints at possibly being able to help you save her, you might get conned into joining the sith and committing mass murder. And then your best friend, who is also a jedi, might get sent to kill you, and there could be this huge lightsaber battle on a lava-planet, and you might get your arms and legs chopped off, and have to wear this special suit so you could move around and breathe. And then your secret wife could die in childbirth for real, and there's no joy in your life, and you've got nothing to look forward to except the construction of this really cool battle station that can blow up planets. And then that might get blown up too.

Love is not for sissies, that's for darn sure.

Ripper_E · Accepted Answer

Being in love makes you vulnerable. With most people, you have your guard up but not with them you don't. They know all your weaknesses, how to hurt you more than anyone else. It's an amazing feeling to feel so free, but if you are that vulnerable, it can feel like they are basically your life support, your air you breathe. Without them, you feel dead.

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

The possibility that you have have been deceived into believing things about your lover that are not true or are woefully incomplete.
All lovers want to put on their best side for those they are courting, or who are courting them.
That is all fine, but it is of the utmost importance to find out about the "not so best side" prior to any commitment.
My parents always told me to never commitment to any relationship until you have had at least one knock-down-drag-out fight.
Only then will you start to learn who they really are.
Hope that helps:)

What is the dark side of falling in love?

sarawelsh122 · Accepted Answer

That once they have you and you become vulnerable to them they can rip your heart out and leave you on the curb like a piece of trash

BlackWidow93 · Accepted Answer

Showing them the side of you that you think is ugly

DP0122 · Answer

Losing yourself in all the chaos of it, you forget who you are by yourself and rely on them for happinesss

just_tired · Answer

The other person not feeling the same or using you/manipulating you

BrianMerritt · Answer

That your heart is no longer your own. THAT is a terrifying thing.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Emotions blurring the lines between Jedi and Sith. Just ask Anakin.

Naji_96 · Answer

The darkest side is that that one person who can make u happy at any time under any circumstance can also hurt or break you the most somewhere in life.

JackofSpades · Answer

Other than completely losing your mind and not being able to think rationally, not much.

cancan73 · Answer

You can leave yourself wide open to be manipulated and abused

metalman12 · Answer

U can become vulnerable because u can overlook major issues u would not

JesseTheMan · Answer

Possibility of break up. And also the possible lack of personal time and space.

teaforbooks · Answer

When you fall for someone who is toxic for you or you are toxic for him

boggboss · Answer

Yep like the pic shows one will have to live without the other 1 day

Miristheiss · Answer

To open your heart and to love, you always risk that you can be hurt and have your heart broken.

ashnakag666 · Answer

It sometimes (mostly) hurts more than it feels nice

TheRealQuestion · Answer

You give someone the power to utterly destroy you, and can't help but trust that they won't. And then they do.

Djaay · Answer

There isn't a dark side to falling In love , only if you don't fall in love May your life become dark.

Anonymous · Answer

nothing lasts forever. and when that person turns and burns you, it will hurt and make you depressed

Merc1994 · Answer

Not listening the common sense part of you, although is probably right.

Matt_myself · Answer

After falling in deep love we become physical and after some time we start getting bored.

mikeymike__ · Answer

Fear that they just leave. Getting ghosted sucks.

chrisdargela · Answer

When one person is loving d other more than the he/she is being loved

Davidtrammell · Answer

All the unintentional hurt that comes with relationship

jimmyshdbsnsn · Answer

U have to go through the situation in which she is going through

Anonymous · Answer

There is no dark side if u have fallen in love with the right person.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Changing for someone else

Whatthefluff · Answer

Being addicted.

PrincessV · Answer

is there a bright side

Decentguy · Answer

falling in love with the wrong person

jaydtre · Answer

The possibility of getting your heart broke

fredrick89 · Answer

You bear the risk of hatred, the fear of losing

AlexDelux · Answer

That you can get hurt

Anonymous · Answer

The cost of divorce is too high

dannyjett · Answer

Falling out of love

pizzaman123 · Answer

Finding out the feeling isn't mutual

justMewidU · Answer

One day you have to separate

sydneyboy · Answer

Like everything in life there is risk

mynkhunk · Answer

Separation

Anonymous · Answer

Sacrificing own feelings.

vladismear · Answer

The vulnerability

JtR764 · Answer

So true

kobir001 · Answer

pain

Litlvr314 · Answer

Loss

VladamirTrez · Answer

Pain

sameer_1995 · Answer

Never hurt someone

Lydosnow · Answer

Be addict

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