I told him I like him, now he's acting weird?

[Anonymous]

I told my male friend I like him and asked him if I asked him out if he'd date me he really didn't answer but got all shy and laughed and said I made him smile I didn't want to weird him out so I said just forget I said anything I did ask him how he feels about me and he said he was to hung up on another girl to really look at anyone else well last night I tried calling him he ignored my calls he's still doing that talked to him on facebook and He's just weird like he's uncomfortable I asked him to call me and he blew me off saying he was busy I wouldn't have said anything if I had thought it would have messed things up but it was making act weird around him since I hadn't told him and just had to do it anyways on his status about his ex I see now He's still hung up on other girls I'm not sure how to act around him now he's been a good friend I don't want to lose that what should do

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i felt really good after I tld him like a weight had been lifed but now that this has happend I feel like I should have kept my mouth shut but I also feel like I nned to take a risk

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also he doesn't know that see that he still likes other girls and I don't know how he feels about me

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when I asked him he sid he was wraped up with his exs and what not

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and I told him not to fall or me and now I regrect it I just didn't want him think I expect anything

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i also think I might reading to much into thig I don't know I'm confused

[songbird2010]

Just be the way you always are, you are so much better taking risks than not saying anything so I think you were very brave to let him know how you felt. At least now you know how it stands, he's just not ready to settle down. Maybe give him some space for a week or two. Don't call him for awhile and he will soon miss your friendship and will be wanting to be on friendly terms again!

[Asker]

Yeah I've just been going threw a lot and have been talking to him on a dailybases and I just began to feel some sparks and something was eating at me that I had to tell him and I wondered and hoped he felt the same your right it was better to take a risk

[Reiki_Z]

well maybe you should push him off a bit

let him see your not the girl to be taken for granted

pulling to much will make him seem like he can play around with the idea that he can always come back to you if things don't work with the other girls

so id say be nice but be stern

and he will be like damn

[Asker]

Yeah but right now he's pretty much ignoreing me and everything both you and the other person but answered to just back off and yeah I wanna do that what scares me is that might have lot a good friend

[Reiki_Z]

Well if he is a good friend he will always come back

if the convo is what he longs for

but at least you were honest

id say try being a little more open to other guys as friends and stay positive

they might end up falling ha ha

[Anonymous]

thats why you don't tell someone you like them, just chat and flirt, tease etc they will work it out and its more fun...

[Asker]

Yeah when I told him he was like OK and that was it so don't know