Why does my boyfriend forgive me so easily?

Question

We had an argument where i was in the wrong, i touched his leg and cuddled him and said sorry and he immediately forgave me and went back to his loving self. Why?

ak667 · Accepted Answer

If he's very calm and forgives and forgets easily, I think he knows how to be a "bigger man". You let things slide if you believe it leads to a more desirable outcome. The question isn't about what's fair (an eye-for-an-eye mindset leaves everyone blind), it's about what leads to the best outcome.

fashionguy17 · Accepted Answer

Why does it matter? It just means that he isn't one to hold grudges or lets goes of things easily. That's nothing to be ashamed of, and I applaud him for being the bigger man.

So... my question to you is... why are you judging him? Do you think he is weak because he forgives easily?

1234lulu · Accepted Answer

He dosent want to loose you.

A saying - " I felt sad and bad that you left me but when I saw the reason why you left me, I laughed. "

So if he is a real man, the reason for leaving you won't be "petty / small things ~ immature "

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

means he loves you. next time you argue try to make it less intense and forgive him the way he forgives you quickly as well. i think he sees that the argument isn't worth it and he loves you too much to let it get to him.

DrDastardly · Answer

So whenever I get into a heated argument with a partner, its usually because I don't feel my partner really thought about or understands my perspective. Whenever a partner appologizes they either come to understand why I thought no my way, or they remember they care for me and this silly little argument isn't worth losing each other over. (Not saying I don't ever appologize, just pertaining it to the question).

So to answer your question, by appologizing you either acknowledge/understand his beliefs, or he realizes that you care for him despite this differencing in opinion. Either way, he probably has no reason to be upset with you anymore and move past it.

ausmaster · Answer

Because he's one of those people that doesn't want to argue and would rather be happy with you. If you acknowledged your mistake and said sorry, that's all we ask for sometimes. It's still important to make sure if you are in the wrong, you will make sure to not make that mistake next time. He seems like a sweet guy like me, but if you push him to do that again and again, we will eventually stop doing it and become hardened. Then you will regret taking advantage of it and start fearing him.
Don't take advantage of this. Be happy he has a mindset like that. Not many guys will be like that, I am like that too but I can see myself stopping that if my girlfriend took advantage of it. Luckily my girlfriend doesn't. x3

SaltyBooze · Answer

to men, trust is more important than whos right or not. we also view discussions as a problem that needs fixing. he probly trusts you that you know you're wrong (and not faking), and that this is probly a problem already fixed, so he doesn't keep chewing on the fact.

Hal2002 · Answer

Because most of us do not let insignificant things bother us, you apologized. What more is there to say or do, than to forgive you and forget about it. There will be arguments in a relationship, if you can not get past them than you should not be together.

Jackieboi · Answer

Maybe he's just so used to being right he stopped caring a long time ago and is now only after the right answer but cares enough about you to want you to know it. Or more probably, since im guessing he's young, he's either very into you, maybe not that into the subject in the first place, or just with you for sex. Allthough that last one is the least probable since then he probably wouldn't have cared to discuss it

HereIbe · Answer

Don't worry. He's a kind and gentle man. That means he won't blow up. He'll forgive--until. Kind and gentle men have a "bullshit tank". Instead of blowing up or repaying your evil with his evil, he forgives and another plop of your bullshit goes into the tank. When it fills up, he will simply stop caring. You won't matter to him any more than a potted plant will. Just keep filling his tank.

WeirdPotato · Answer

It doesn't matter, but i have to say that he loves you, i think you shouldn't even be asking that question because it is so obvious. Look now, would you want him to be angry at you for weeks? He knows you wouldn't and plus he loves you so he actually has no reason for being angry at you.
P. s. you said sorry.

P. s. (2) dont start arguments that are pointless

alfalfamale · Answer

Because he couldn't be bothered arguing anymore. You knew you were wrong but still chewed his head off. He knew you were wrong and had a choice to just give up and have some peace and quiet or headbutt you, so he again chose the option with the least hassle

Hurlyburly · Answer

Well you were wrong, you noticed it and you said sorry... As long as it wasn't a huge argument I do not see anything wrong here.

ScaryCool · Answer

Well depends on the argument. Was it something petty or?

CarpetDenim · Answer

Because he really cares about you and he probably appreciates that you recognize you were in the wrong

Giggletr0n · Answer

Probably either he didn't want to deal with drama of carrying on an argument so he just gave in or he thought that sex would be off the table until he forgave you.

spartan55 · Answer

Would you rather he be pissed off at you for three months instead? Leave well enough alone and don't overanalyze.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

What's the point of staying angry and arguing? That kills relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

If you’re a guy then it feels like you’re always in the wrong. In my experience if I might have done something wrong then I am in the wrong completely. If it’s her fault then a mutual apology is in order. You don’t argue with women to win.

MrKinktastic · Answer

he's the forgiving sort. Please dont take advantage of that.

luvstoned4him · Answer

He loves you and y'all argument was probably over some petty shit. Why ruin a whole day over that?

Syrian_survivor · Answer

He loves you to bits and he's a keeper Don't use him, he's precious lol

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

what's the argument? did you forget to raise the toilet seat after peeing?

ThoughtCleric · Answer

Because he is kind gentle person and you are lucky as all hell to have that kind of guy. Hopefully if he is in the wrong next time you will do the same.

SandMan789234 · Answer

Argument was probably not that big of a deal and you admitted you were wrong.

sakalator · Answer

He loves you 😇 I would do the same thing. I couldn't be angry at my ex ☺️

Anonymous · Answer

I think men just tend to not stay mad, they blow off steam relatively quick and they're not mad. Girls tend to hold grudges more and for long periods. And it depends what the argument was about.

Futurelooker · Answer

Simply because he loves you.

AbdKilani · Answer

He is stupid, i was like that That is means that he values you more than anything, and later on you wilk break his heart

arod831 · Answer

He can let go of the things that are wrong with ease. That's a good thing. Unless he holds it in and brings it out later to throw it in your face.

Anonymous · Answer

you are a horrible women  I'd smack you in the face and make you my bitch  cause I know what you are doing breakup with him he is too good for you

elementalist · Answer

Every one is different about how quickly we get upset and forgive. If he forgave ya and showed it, then be relieved.

winterfox10 · Answer

Because that's what you do when you love someone and you know they're sorry for what they did.

alinakhanx0x · Answer

Bcz I guess sometimes loosing an argument is way much better than loosing a person u love.

numens · Answer

Because you admitted you were wrong and said sorry. Why stay mad?

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Maybe your last three words offer the clue: "His loving self." Those who love the most forgive the most.

Trey0209 · Answer

Cause men don't normally hold grudges for small things and feel happy being right some times then being told we are wrong all the time and brow beaten.😊

Anonymous · Answer

Sound like he's a decent guy, but maybe a slave to your pussy. Don't worry. I have every confidence you'll fuck it up.

fay23 · Answer

It probably wasn't that big of a deal and plus you apologised so that's goodm

Guanfei · Answer

Because he knows that even if you are wrong, you'll never admit it and it's a fight that will last forever.

Halohatch · Answer

Because you acknowledged how you wronged him, and he isn't petty and he knows how to manage his emotions.

MIKIBURGOS · Answer

It depends on lots of things, but i guess he doesn't want to argue with you so as long as it's settled, he tries to forget everything

Anonymous · Answer

Simple. He is truly madly deeply in love with you. Lucky gal :)

COCOCHANEL · Answer

he values a good relationship with you more than being angry and punishing you.

bigbang101 · Answer

He is a good man. Plus he loves you. Plus he knows how to deal with your bullshit! 😂

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

Because he loves you and doesn't want to keep an argument with you. He likes you two to be happy.

Anonymous · Answer

a woman, admitting she's wrong hell just froze over

TruBoof421 · Answer

can't win a argument with your girl either u win and no girl wants to be wrong or ur right and you never hear the end if it...

woooooooo · Answer

He's a forgiving person who has a soft spot for his girl.

TonyWilliams · Answer

Because of love may maybe, I forgive my love for everything

_autum9_ · Answer

Because he is not a manipulator... do you want him to be dramatic like you?

Abbas1996 · Answer

He's deep in love and soft as fuck. Love makes most people soft. Lucky you but dont tease him

Anonymous · Answer

Because he loves you and don't want to lose you. Anger can fuck up relationships easily. Also the people who forgive easily are really dangerous when angry and pissed off because when that happens they don't forgive nor forget!

HaJar_5 · Answer

U have 2 options, he's either so in love with u and he can't afford losing u, or he just want to get under ur pants.. u know what i mean

WhoDatGuy · Answer

Your testing your boundaries. Next time you'll go further and further until your bored of him

maikiki19 · Answer

If boy loves you he won't be mad at you. Isn't it obvious?

TomatoeUnicorn · Answer

Because it probably wasn't a huge argument and he loves you too much to hold petty grudges.

khumoyun_1 · Answer

He doesn't want to loose you, he loves you more than you him.

_unknown_71704 · Answer

because that person dosent ever want to lose you, you mean the world to that person

walid96 · Answer

It's natural to fault, nobody's flawless. He surely inderstood that.

Morne321 · Answer

Pretty obvious. He is either madly in love with you or he is a push over.

Anonymous · Answer

Because he loves you. My so forgives me easily too.

TayTay21 · Answer

Because he's a good person?

ReachingForNirvana · Answer

He is likely a very forgiving person.

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