Are you flattered by obsession?

[wolfcat87]

Are you flattered when a love interest becomes obsessed with you? How about when they want to know everything about you? They think about you all the time, and you are everything to them? They love to spend as much time and energy on you as possible.

Does this behavior make you feel good or bad?

I think it's interesting that shows and movies make obsession look sexy. We grow up seeing it as good when it's happening on tv. At some point people start pushing it as a bad thing. If the obsession is from a person you want, then it is good. If the obsession is from a person not wanted, then it is bad. Talk about mixed signals! What are your views?

Yes, I want to be the center of their universe!

No, I want as much space as possible!

I'm somewhere in between...

Unsure

[TheUniqueOne96]

Having never been in a relationship before, it sounds really nice and I would be flattered, if a person liked me that much, whether I liked them or not, though more if I liked them too, but I do think it would eventually becoming annoying or at least having some cons, so I'd say I'm somewhere in between.

[ShortCircuit]

Yes, yes, and yes. I wouldn't demand that my partner worship me, but I certainly wouldn't object to it if she did it of her own accord.

[Thehighlife]

Obsession is not love of healthy. At first it can seem romantic to be on someone's mind that much but it's a dangerous situation that will not end well.

[pitzi]

No... I had it before and it really creeped me out... it stops being flattering when it comes to being an actual obsession to me

[LovingLover]

I think it's natural. Science say we become addicted sort of effect when in love. Some Express it more. Secretly obsessed... I find it flattering once it maintains respect and doesn't cross boundaries.

[BrianK7]

Me personally I don't mind it. As long as its a healthy obsession and not of the overly jealous kind, or turns out to be nothing more then infatuation.

[Lance1965]

I'm somewhere in between...

I would find it a little overwhelming.

[Gedaria]

She comes round every other day , we chat a cup of tea and she uses, the loo. She is so sexy. But we are just friends and she is married..

[Exterminatore]

Ahhh... It’s kinda cute, yet repulsive at the same time when it goes too far.

[SpaceMarine]

My obsession for killing Chaos will never end. I am a son of Ultramar!

[Anonymous]

I would HATE for someone that I wasn’t interested in to spend so much of their time thinking about me.

[SjE78]

depends on the obsession

[LegateLanius]

No one has ever been interested in me.

[nakhrewali]

Yes I love that shit

[RIVERTAY888]

l do ha ha