Girls, would you hypnotize your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

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Hell No!

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[DinaM]

I actually have, or at least I have tried. ^_^

I've got a huge hypnofetish, you see... I've liked it since long before I knew what a fetish even was. Hypnosis just turns me on hugely... mostly the idea of being hypnotized myself, but also watching others be hypnotized.

So I tried it at one point with my then-boyfriend. He had agreed to it, so it's not like I was trying to be sneaky about it... but it turned out he wasn't into it at all, so we didn't do it again.

Later on, though, I had a casual relationship with a girl who put me under, and just WOW... But that's another story entirely! ^_^

[Asker]

I, like you, have a hypnofetish... it's a balance between being hypnotized myself and watching others be hypnotized. I was once hypnotized myself, though it wasn't a case where a girlfriend hypnotized me -- it was more for a hypnotherapy session. I would, nevertheless, want my (potential) girlfriend to hypnotize me. I'd be interested in hearing more about your experience being hypnotized...

[DinaM]

Okay... what would you like to know? I can't promise VERY intimate details, but...

[Asker]

I would be interested in hearing about the overall experience you had being hypnotized (it sounded like a very positive experience for you). It really all depends on how much detail you're willing to provide (e. g., it could be as generic as the length of time you were hypnotized and how it made you feel physically when you were in a trance). Maybe, if there were specific things you did while you were hypnotized, I'd be curious to know. You're free to provide as much or as little detail as you'd like when talking about your experience being hypnotized -- it's all a matter of what you're comfortable talking about.

[Asker]

Perhaps I should have been more specific... What was the most intriguing part about being hypnotized? Did you do anything in particular while you were hypnotized that you enjoyed?

[DinaM]

Well, now that I'm awake (when you last asked I was heading for bed) I can at least tell you my first few experiences.

First time was a bit of a false start; it was just experimenting with a friend who wanted to see if she could hypnotize me. She was reading from a script and I was actually starting to drift off, when she messed up her reading and let out a loud and annoyed swear word... startling me so I nearly fell out of my chair.

(The swear word, if you're interested, was the Norwegian "Faen!" which means "the Devil." It has about the same intensity and shock value as the word "Fuck!" in English... when telling this story in English I used to translate the word as "fuck!" but then EVERYONE began asking me if I took this as a command and started to fuck her... and NO.)

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[DinaM]

My first real trance was some time later. It was with the same friend, who wanted to see if she could do it better this time..

I felt very warm and relaxed, but I was completely aware at all times, and I was even thinking to myself at the time how I totally wasn't hypnotized at all. I knew that any time I wanted to I could just raise myself and go "PSYCHE! I was awake the entire time!" I just didn't want to. I just kept thinking how I would play along for a little while longer, and a little while longer...

That was my main experience with real-life hypnosis for some time. It wasn't a very erotic experience, but then I hadn't really set out to make it one. This was before I'd really figured out that hypnosis was a fetish for me, I just found it "fascinating" that you could go into a trance like that.

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[DinaM]

Of course in hindsight, it's really obvious to me that I had a hypnofetish ever since I was very little... all those times child-me stared in UTTER FASCINATION at hypno-scenes in movies, or re-read pages of comics and books where the characters got hypnotized or put to sleep... it gave me FEELS, but I was too young to really get what kind of feels they were.

I was a total prude as a child, and I think part of it came from some pretty deep denial... like it took AGES before I figured out I was attracted to girls because I would always utterly refuse any attraction to ANYONE. And so it was with my hypnofetish... I did not see anything sexual about it, and I think that was largely because I was in denial about it.

It changed when I was around sixteen, but I won't go into details on how and why. I began reading a lot of online erotic fiction, and losing my virginity at seventeen didn't slow me down any. When I was nineteen I first chanced upon an erotic hypno-story...

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[DinaM]

Well, something just clicked. That hypno-story was one of the most INTENSELY EROTIC things I'd ever read. I wanted to read more... and that was how I discovered the online hypnofetish community. It was like a revelation. At first I was just lurking, then I started joining a couple of forums and chats, talking to other people with the same fetish...

Unfortunately, while most of them were lovely people, there were a FEW creeps there who jumped at the chance to take advantage of a naive nineteen year old. I won't go into details, but I discovered that yes, it's possible to get hypnotized over the Internet, and yes, it can get really erotic... but then there were people pushing me in other directions, and I was being steered down paths I didn't want to go down... Luckily, I managed to pull away before things got TOO out of hand, but by then I HAD ended up being made to do a couple of things I REALLY didn't want to.

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[DinaM]

I was rather freaked out, and so I withdrew. More than that, because this was starting to dominate my online life and I was getting scared, i "quit" the internet. I didn't go offline or anything, but I ended all my online accounts, changed my e-mail address, retired my internet handle, just did everything I could to get AWAY.

It was years before I felt comfortable returning, now with a different handle and a new, more secure persona. I'm mostly back now, but now that I'm an opinionated old lady instead of that naive teenager, I'm not so easy to take advantage of.

But, my fetish didn't go away in the time I was off the community. It was during my time away that I tried to hypnotize my boyfriend at the time... I knew the techniques that had worked on me, and well... call it trying to take back that part of my life. As I said, though, he wasn't into it. I don't think he really understood the appeal.

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[DinaM]

And then there was the girl I told you about, my "casual girlfriend." We were never serious, mostly we just fooled around. But it turned out she DID understand. She wasn't a professional hypnodomme or anything, but she'd done erotic hypnosis before, and she was SKILLED.

I still don't know how she did it, but she could make me go deep in seconds. It was the first "speed induction" I'd experienced...

I remember taking her hand and beginning to listen to something she was saying, and then I went to sleep. There's no other word for it... you know how it feels when you suddenly wake up and realize that oh, you fell asleep? It was like that. The next thing I knew I was awake, and something like twenty minutes had passed.

God, it was so hot.

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[DinaM]

We drifted apart after a time... but that's okay. Like I said, it was never serious and it was great while it lasted.

Since then, I've met others with similar interests. Sometimes they would hypnotize me, sometimes they wouldn't. Sometimes we just talked about it, or shared stories. I'm a bit of an artist, and so I started doing some hypno-themed art...

I realize with all this I haven't spent a lot of time talking about what I DID while in trance... well, some of it I'd just rather not talk about, other things just kind of seem silly to me now. But to me I suppose it's not so much about what you do, as it is about the experience itself. And now I've been talking about this for much longer than I'd planned... so I'll just close it off with one final post!

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[DinaM]

And this is the final post! ^_^ One thing I CAN tell you I did while hypnotized is that I painted. Well, digital painting. I mostly work digitally these days... and at the end of this I'm going to link you to a painting on DeviantArt, by me. Most of the work on it was done while I was in trance.

Be warned that it does contain nudity (most notably naked tits!), but it's not all that graphic.

And that was my hypno-story. ^_^

www.deviantart.com/.../Goddess-of-Temptation-and-Seduction-741187073

[Asker]

Seems like an interesting story to say the least (not sure how believable it is, to be honest -- what caught me was the "Erotic hypnosis online"). I do have a hypnofetish myself, though I don't have much interest in the "Erotic Hypnosis" scene myself. May I ask what type of suggestions you received that prompted you to create that kind of art?

[DinaM]

Believe it or not, it's my story. ^_^

Actually, the suggestion was to paint that kind of art.

[Asker]

It's certainly an interesting story. Best of luck with your work!