My friend kissed me on the lips. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

My friend came over to watch a movie. He was sitting next to me on the bed. Then he put his arm around me. All of a sudden he kissed me (his heart was racing I could hear it). We kissed for like 5 minutes. After that we didn’t really talk about it. I’m not sure what to do. Should I bring it up? Does he likes me?

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+1 y

I talked to him and he said I looked really pretty today 😩 he also said we should watch a movie another time but he never mentioned the kiss. Should I ask him about it?

[btbc92]

Sounds like it was the spur of the moment. It was not wise for you to be sitting on YOUR BED, alone with him. In my opinion, you shouldn't have kissed him back. It's very clear that he desires a sexual relationship with you. And now you two are not just friends anymore. You need to decide what YOU WANT to do now you know. You should have stopped him to prevent confusion. Because now he thinks you liked it and that you're going to be his girlfriend. Yes, you need to bring it up if you don't want to be his girlfriend.

[Asker]

Don't you think I should just let it go and never mention it again? Maybe he forgot about it. Like you said it was the spur of the moment so it doesn't really mean anything.

[btbc92]

NO, because now what is the point of being friends with somebody your not going to take seriously? What do you think relationships are? For your own amusement? It's not. People get hurt. It's clear that, again, he wants something with you. And if you say nothing, he will tell everybody he kissed you and that you two are probably a couple. THEN what are you going to do? I am only telling you by experience. He crossed your boundaries for his own pleasure, and if you're not in agreement, both of you will get hurt. Stop being selfish and trying to protect yourself. This is serious. That's a coward move that your suggesting. Your an adult now, act like one.

[btbc92]

Guys don't forget Kissing a girl he WANTED to KISS. OMG...

[Asker]

but how do I bring it up? Im extremely shy. I do like him too but I don't know if I can even talk about it as I'm very embarrassed.

[btbc92]

Well if you are so shy to ask me a question, then were you shy when he kissed you for 5 minutes? Obviously you was not shy then because you want to stop him. But you didn't. So you have to decide what it is that you really want. You say you like him also, but you're the one that needs to really have that discussion. All the Weis is going to want to being a relationship full of lust and no real love, and if you get sexual with him you going to regret it. Especially if you're not going to wait until marriage to have sex, because at the end of the day he said to do whatever it is he pleases. And I know what kind of guy that is call because I had that type of person trying to pursue me. And I thank God I never did damn it even though he and I both believe in waiting till marriage to have sex oh, he was still a person that was pushy and didn't respect my boundaries. We were not in a relationship or any kind, and it definitely wouldn't have been anything on that level. But he was more so of an acquaintance and somebody to talk to than I can actually say a friend. I don't want you to feel like you're obligated to being something you don't really want and isn't ready for. You deserve respect, and it starts by putting your foot down and letting that person know what it is that you really want and won't tolerate. Because by you being shy, he will take advantage of you like he did before. He will assume you're okay with everything he does, and you will not feel okay with that. You end up feeling shame and guilt.

[btbc92]

Ask him a question*

[JustJen]

You kissed for 5 minutes? How is that even possible? Intrigued!

[Asker]

I don’t know. It just felt really long. I wasn’t actually timing it

[jcclifton]

OMG ! You were sitting on the bed.
You felt his heart racing.
You kissed for 5 minutes.
For some people that's a longer than they have intercourse.
That leaves guys. At least from what I hear.
Why are you asking her permission to do something you obviously already want to.

[Asker]

Im not sure if I understand what you're saying

[METALHEADi]

He is trying to say that u give the environment and mood to do that by let him goes on ur bed , kissing u for 5 min... if i were him i will do the same ... by the way i think he likes you

[Logorithim]

He likes you, but first you need to decide what you want with him, if anything

[Asker]

I like him but I don't know what to do.

[Logorithim]

Like him as a potential boyfriend in an exclusive relationship?

[Asker]

Not 100% but I’m willing to give it a try.

[Logorithim]

Then tell him and find out what he wants. Make sure you both know exactly what the other wants.

[Mark_C]

I'm going to go out on a limb and say yes, he likes you. I see nothing wrong in bringing it up. Do you like him? If so, I think you're going to be just fine.

[DaMack999]

You're young have fun. And definitely ask him if he wants to watch a movie again since u like him. Next time he does the same which I assume he will then go all the way and do become in a relationship. What's better then best friend boyfriend.

[Browneye57]

What exactly DO you think you should do? How 'bout just enjoy it?

[Tyffen]

Do you think he did it for fun?

[Tyffen]

You should talk to him about it...

[Secret6620]

Awwwww 😍😍😍

[ROCKS128]

😂😂😂😂😂

[ROCKS128]

He is getting ready for next turn.
I guess!😂