Two years ago i noticed a girl on campus always staring and eyeing me, for about a year i didn't make a move mainly cause my friend mentioned he dated her in the past (turns out they messaged a little when they were 12 ... lol) , i ended up messaging her, she did act weird and distant at times but we talked for several months, then dated for 3 months, i thought we clicked well, and we both admitted to having feelings for each other, got intimate i felt she was really into me, then suddenly, within a week she changed, got distant and broke up with me (her reason was that we're different, then she mentioned something abot getting hurt in the past and its better to end it ) , i took it well, was cool about it, wished her good luck in her dating life and we just remained on good terms , ran into each other few times, always talked and laughed didn't have any issues... a while ago following a one hour face to face convo she messaged me, i replied, and we sent like 3-4 messages each, a day later she blocked me on messenger for no reason !
next week i saw her hanging out with this guy on campus, new guy+blocking me=i got mad af, ignored her twice when she tried sayng hi to me, a week later her friends saw me on a coffee date with a new girl, on the same day my ex unblocked me on messenger, and when she sees me now she looks at me a lot and stares from a far... sometimes i think about her and wonder if she's thinkgs about me and wants me back or not, we haven't had any contact in over a month and iam not planning to contact her anytime soon , I don't know what will happen I don't know if she will ever reach out and actually tell me she misses me (Probably not) but all i know is that if its meant to be and she truly wants me in her life she will make it clear.
next week i saw her hanging out with this guy on campus, new guy+blocking me=i got mad af, ignored her twice when she tried sayng hi to me, a week later her friends saw me on a coffee date with a new girl, on the same day my ex unblocked me on messenger, and when she sees me now she looks at me a lot and stares from a far... sometimes i think about her and wonder if she's thinkgs about me and wants me back or not, we haven't had any contact in over a month and iam not planning to contact her anytime soon , I don't know what will happen I don't know if she will ever reach out and actually tell me she misses me (Probably not) but all i know is that if its meant to be and she truly wants me in her life she will make it clear.
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