If two people are destined to be together, do you think they'll end up together no matter what?

[Anonymous]

movies and fairytales lead us to believe that no matter how much time goes by, or who/what gets in the way, if 2 people are meant to be, they'll end up together.

do you believe this is possible in real life? like the stars are aligned and you are made for each other?

if you were soon to be married and then the person you were destined for walked into your life (or perhaps came back into your life), would you take a chance on them?

Updates

+1 y

like in regards to The Notebook, which i know is only just a story but they were a young, intense love that got ripped apart. they each they tried moving on from one another but always wished to be together &finally got the chance. would u take it?

[chadsten]

How exactly do you tell that a person is destined for you?

From feelings? Like the ones you had for the person you're marrying? Not exactly conclusive, and a rather ridiculous situation.

I believe that who you end up with is who you were "destined" for. No "what ifs" or "could'ves".

[rjroy3]

I do believe that some people are "meant" to be together by design. But they have to put in the work to make it happen.

[butterfly713]

this guy, he totally gets it

[MaskofInsanity]

"One day, whether you are 14, 28 or 65,
you will stumble upon someone who will start a fire in you that cannot die.
However, the saddest, most awful truth you will ever come to find––
is they are not always with whom we spend our lives"
-Beau Taplin

[itsme_goodsamaritan]

I totally believe in this. And even though my BF has given no indication of making it official, I totally think we are destined to be together. I am willing to give my all to the relationship even if he never ends up marrying me (in my BF's words) lol

[harakiri]

no. you can be -right- for each other... but you totally might not end up together.

would i throw over my fiance for some dude i have chemistry with? no. chemistry is fleeting. it's shit, really. love is a choice.

[rUinSAYAN]

there are lots of possible fairytale stories in real life, you can have chemistry with many girls if you calculate it up.

1 out of 30/50 maybe. there will be one girl who just fits your ass for the most part, you just have to be free to start dating each other.. or you both just go shy and nothing happens

[Anonymous]

No they wont.
I know it from myself
I will never find someone like him and he will never do
I know it because we didn't bu due to stupid stuff. It was distance and money issues not letting us relocate easily and language difference of families.
I know that we were destined to be together not. In this universe but in the parallel one.
My heart aches now i should stop talking

[Prettygurl12]

I might. But I'm with who I think I'm destined to be with.

Our relationship IS like one of those fairy tales that people say never happen in real life.

[DontDropIt]

I would not. Hypothetically speaking, we split the first time for a reason. Who's to say that won't happen again and again and again? Not taking that chance.

[evenlift]

There is no destiny. You create your own happiness.

[ButterflyXkisses]

Does "destiny" exist?

[COCOCHANEL]

miracles happen