There needs to be healthy boundaries, and it's very important that any relationships you have in life (not just romantic ones) are not one-sided. There should be compromise to ensure the happiness of both parties involved.
If you stick to only doing whatever she wants at the expense of your own wishes, you will eventually end up miserable. Another thing to remember is that you teach people how to treat you, and right now you're teaching her that you are going to be her doormat. Trust me, as someone who has been way too lenient of a friend and tried to do anything I could to make my friends happy and be the best friend possible, I have a lot of experience in this area, and have been taken advantage of a lot because of my lack of boundaries and willingness to allow everything to be about the other person at the expense of my own happiness. My romantic relationships were also tarnished because of this.
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only if you never get your own needs fulfilled. Its you and your partners responsibility to find mutually satisfying solutions. I think its great that you know how to give but equally important is growing with the partner. Growing pains entails communicating effectively with each other about individualized needs to couple focused needs. Even if it means that it might create some tension.
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As long as it doesn't escalate from small things, I would deem it acceptable, though I would try to nip this at the bud. If you keep doing things she wants you to do without arguing or discussing the action asked of you, then she could start to change in the future. As demands she makes start to be denied by you, she could start acting out in a way you didn't know she was like. It could also create a dependency that is not healthy, where she Is always looking to you to care for her instead of remaining even slightly more independent and able to take care of herself. This could also work towards you, where you would constantly be going to her about decisions or what to do with your time.
You're spoiling her. You're also showing her that you always be there for her no matter what this can actually backfire as she may begin to take you for granted and constantly expect you to do everything for her. You obviously are crazy about her but eventually you'll get tired of constantly catering to her needs. relationships should be 50/50.
That's actually good, as long as you do not let yourself being taken advantage of or let yourself be walked over. Essentially this is how relationships should be - make your partner happy.
Worshipping however could be a bit over the top. Just respect her, compliment her, lift her up BUT NEVER put her or yourself on the pedestal. Be both on top of it.Well what if you hate something that she loved? ! I am sure you two aren't that perfectly matched that there isn't anything that you find annoying (even about her!) or just don't like! No body is perfect! No relationship is perfect! If it is/was then hey you''re pretty lucky! Not a lot of people can find that!
Nope, it’s not that bad that you are worship to your girlfriend ❤️
These types of relationships are fine UNTIL...
1. You are giving everything of yourself to the point where your life is literally all about her all the time
2. You feel like you're being taken advantage of
3. You want someone to do the same for you and you're just not getting that from her at all and she makes no efforts to tryHaving boundaries is healthy for all relationships. Try reading the boundaries series books by Townsend and cloud.
I mean as long as you’re not her slave, I don’t see the problem in wanting to appease your woman and keep her happy
No, now lick my leather boots clean.
Seriously though, if you feel like your the only one mindful of her needs and she doesn't give a c**p about your, then it may be time to reconsider the dynamics.Yes, I couldn't respect a man like that. In fact, there was a guy who claimed he was in love with me who essentially did that, and it weirded me out despite us being friends initially.
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