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I have developed feelings for a girl i work with, but know from back in school. Its just her and I that work in a department where I work. We ride atvs together as well. I love making her laugh and smile. We have a great time together. I can't stop thinking about her. We flirt a lot with each other. But I am married. I have. Talked to my spouse about not being happy anymore. We are more like roommates the partners. We don't have sex more than 3 times a year. And it awkward when we do. We never say I love you. Neither of us is happy and we should just coparent. Something I should have done ALONG time ago. But I dont want to leave her in a finacial bind and I need my amazing son in my life everyday. Coming from a split family I know what its like not having both parents. Anyway. My crush is amazing. She makes me feel like im 17 again. I love going to work. I spend more time at work with her laughing and smiling then i spend at home with my spouse. We have a lot in common. I imagine myself grabbing her and kissing her. I wish I had the balls to tell her how I feel, I mean im positive she knows. But think she is waiting for me to make a move.
Honestly, she's amazing. We really get each other I feel like, we have so many common interests and enough uncommon to keep it interesting. I dont see a single flaw with this girl and I can open up to her about anything and know I won't be criticized or judged. I feel safe and secure with her and I always want to be around her. We met and became quick friends about a month ago, and we talk a lot, hang out all the time, and eventually I developed a little crush on her and it has grown quite a lot. I value our friendship and I really want to be with her, even just to test the waters and see where things go. But I can see myself being with this girl in the future, I can see a happy ending with this girl if we ever get to that point. I dont know how she feels. I know she doesn't want to screw up our friendship. I did fall hard for another girl before I fell for her, and I talked about it a lot so I feel that may have put her off if she felt anything at all. But I dont want to be with the other girl, I want this girl.
I kinda rambled on and it's probably really hard to follow
Haha, thanks. I just dont think she feels the same but I'm trying to find time to talk to her about how I feel.
Oh yes, trust me, I'm going to tell her. I'm very open about my emotions and I see the benefit of telling because there is nothing to lose in this case. I'm sure I won't hear what I want to hear but I'll be happy knowing I at least have a great friend whom I am quite close with
The girl I like, her name is Emily but she goes by EmJ (which is cute and when I first met her I made a spider man joke and she remembered, though she didn't remember it was me who made the joke at first. We had a laugh over that)
Lol, what are you, 12? And yes, I am very enamored with this girl and I would like to see our relationship take off. Maybe join us at the big kids table when your balls drop and stop spewing feces out your mouth
Well, I told her yesterday. I was a bit cryptic at first to make it easier to talk about, but i knew she knew because I've told her before that i kind of like her. She kinda dodged around what i said and she said it was a little awkward afterward. I didn't feel it was awkward and I invited her to come watch a show with me and another friend and she did, and even stayed when the other friend left. I don't know what to think, but maybe it just that she isn't ready or maybe is afraid of ruining our friendship?
I like this guy that's a friend of mine. We've been friends for about a year now. He gets on my nerves, yet has a way of making me smile and feeling special at the same time.
It's funny because he's not really my type, yet I'm still drawn to him.
It's not really a crush since he knows I like him! 😂
I told him I was interested in him and asked him if we could go out on one date. But he gave me the, "I don't want to date you because if things go bad I lose my friend and girlfriend" speech 😞
So yeah, just friends, lol.
Part of me thinks he does have a little interest in me because he calls me every single day (and gets upset if I don't answer), says he likes spending time with me, and does sweet things for me.
For example, last week he got me a cake as thanks for helping him so much. Yet anytime I try to do something nice for him or flirt with him? He pushes me away.
He's attracted to me, or so he says, but he doesn't want to act on it.
So I'm trying to be his friend and not get too attached because I don't see anything coming from this.
I have feelings for my friend with benefits. I liked him before we slept together. After we did, he said he thinks I'm awesome and he wants to continue being friends and having dates and sex, but he isn't in love. So that's what we're doing now.
He acts in love, like holding hands in public, being super cuddly and texting me all day. But I know it won't last forever.
What I'm doing is probably incredibly stupid... But I enjoy it a lot. He doesn't have a clue that I feel any different than he does. So that's my secret.
Awwww that's so sweet, I love this. It's complicated, I can see that. And not entirely fulfilling. But it's a nice thing he's holding hands with you, showing affection in public, being attentive with the texting. I say keep going with it. You're young. Now is the time to do this. Just don't let him treat you badly. But he's not, so have fun.
Sending you best wishes. 💐
@sydneyboy I'm already a bit emotionally attached. I just hope it's not too much :p
@AmandaYVR thanks!
be interesting to see if she can reel him in. to do so means stepping back from the emotions because if she is sucked in and exposes her attahcment, he'll get scared... I think. It's fishing, same thing. ladies... devise a plan:)
Yes but there is a part of you that he loves. ,, one of the best things that come from having a friends with benefits. Is that if done right you learn how to be in a realm
relationship I think friends with benefits Because tere are not strings no ties no pressure no problem s no lies just a real honest beautiful bond most guys that have a friends with benefits wishes his partner could be like that ,,
@lightbulb27 I don't have any hope that he'll change his mind. Do you think I should?
Weird side story: I know his ex, they were friends with benefits until she got too attached. She really likes me and I her, and we hang out now too. She found it difficult to hear about us, yet she doesn't blame me and she's happy that he brought her and me together as friends.
@ohshee yes I know he cares about me! The bond isn't empty. I find it confusing. He said he is looking for a long term relationship, he just doesn't see me as 'the one'...
I met the ex through him, because they're still friends.
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No need for hiding since he doesn't use this app. I think I'm having a crush on someone wonderful, smart and amazing.
He makes me laugh which is a plus. And most importantly, he makes me a better person...
I have this issue where - I like somebody when I think I can't have them and when I think I can or will - I all of a sudden begin to lose interest in them - maybe not 100% but a degree of dying interest will happen once I think I have a secure hold on somebody. I think during my vacation - God showed me which guy was the best option out of the guys I'm currently interested in - its slightly disappointing and scary but also a little curious and interesting.
Sounds like you enjoy the chase more than being in the actual relationships. If that's okay with you, and you just want to keep chasing that feeling, then for now, maybe you should just keep dating. But if your goal later on in life is to be different, you may have to change your way of thinking.
Or, if you think God knows better, take the responsibility out of your hands and try that method for a while.
I'm not sure whether you're ok, or unhappy about all this. Do you know how you feel about it?
At this age I just straight away ask them out. Gushing on them comes later. no pun intended!
I'm crushing on everyone 💋💋💋
So she's got it for you and you are wanting her so badly you can taste it and rock her world. Only if you are picking up the vibes she's noticing you then do the deal but first, tantalize her mind. Trust me here, you work your mind on her tapping into her signals slowly and gradually step up your man game putting the heat in between her thighs, and I guarantee you that when you slow play a girl who has noticed your presence, by the time you smooth your energy onto hers, she will explode like a volcano and rip you apart like a hungry Tigress pounding her prey. Go get what you deserve
I have developed a mild fixation on a cashier who strongly resembles someone who left a strong impression on me some time ago.
I wouldn't call it a crush, though.
I'm not really interested in the cashier herself, she is just an unhealthy mental replacement of someone else in my life.
So, my best friend is friends with another guy, who I always though was cute, but never had the guts to go talk to.
I would always catch him staring at me, and a few days back, my best friend told me that he likes me.
But, I think we're both too young, and he doesn't really have a reason to like me. So I kinda think that maybe it's just a joke for him. So I just settle with admiring him from afar.
God, I sound cringy.
Haha my parents are really orthodox and strict, so I can't even if I want to. My twenty five year old sister isn't allowed to go out, so I can't either.
i know you might be afraid to talk, but if you REALLY like him you have to find a way. I'm not an outgoing person like i've never gone and talked to anybody. At lunch there was somebody i always looked at and would unintentionally stare, she would smile : ) i definitely should've talked to her when i had soo many chances
there's a girl with an eye patch at Wetherspoons I fancy. Don't know if she lost an eye or had surgery. She's very good looking... Well out of one of her eyes.
I've kinda developed a bit of a crush on a guy who lives in another country 🤦 I know it likely won't go anywhere cause of distance, but he's super sweet and I feel like I can actually talk to him about things I usually keep private.
Ugh, the only guys I like I can't date for some reason and it's getting annoying.
She is actual the crush of my ex girlfriend... almost 10 years younger but incredible hot (she thinks she look like trash)... sometimes we talk or text a bit but nothing serious... but damn, always I look at her my hands start to sweat and im going pretty nervous, close to panic, but she didn't notice it because thats never happened before from her sight...
I would chop my arms off just to get a date with her... I plan it for next summer... she likes colourfull thingshoes and nature, so we will go to the butterfly-house... she just knows that we meet (she said it would be nice) , the tour is a surprise...
I have a crush on my friends 22 year old daughter, my friend is old enough to be my dad and has kind of been like a second father to me since mind passed away. And I never knew his daughter growing up I've only known her as an adult. But she is still 7 years younger than me and even if I thought I would have a chance in hell with a beautiful sweet young woman like her. I still love and miss my wife.
Was a crush (at the gym), felt pretty mutual (constant across the room stares), I reached out, we talked 3 or 4 times. Then, I keep getting the cold shoulder afterwards. I felt unwanted, but she would still wanted my attention. Even after half a year, she still does it, but I've officially decided to move on and completely ignore her.
I would show thicker skin, but she decides to end the conversation just as you start it.. over 5 times now, how would you feel? Sorry for my depressing story.
Well done
I like this girl in my class. She is cute and I like her glasses. I like how she dresses too. I think she likes another guy. I’m not too sure, but I kind of like her and she knows. I can’t talk to her thou, not because I don’t have the confidence to talk to her. I know I can talk to her. It’s just that, I’ll be leaving in December, and I won’t have time to nourish a relationship.
There's a guy in my English class who's really tall and just so fucking hot. But he has a girlfriend and I'm pretty sure I'm not his type. But like damn. He's also in the national guard.
Okay well I'm attracted to this girl who works at the local Long's pharmacy. She helped me pick out my current hair color. I asked her to pick from 2 colors as way to flirt with her. Problem is I don't know if I want to date her or bang her. Or both. My sister gives me eye rolls. Thank goodness this site is secure LOL.
Yess
I have a huge huge crush on Maluma rn... the singer.😭
Ik that this seems like a 13 y/o thing but he is so Hawt and I love his voice. It's just a celebrity crush but I'm kinda obsessed atm. lmao
There's a new intern at this place I go to for mental illness treatment. She only comes to work there twice a week and she's only been there for a month, so I don't know too much about her. I do know that she really likes art, she works part time at a court house, and she's still attending university. It might be too soon to say, but I really like her, she's so cute and friendly, I talk to her every chance I get when she's there and make her feel welcome.
Years ago I fell in love with my therapist best advice I can give you is to stay away from that it'll only lead to a heart break trust me on that (the screwed up part is she had feelings for me too but she never admitted it) no good can come from what you're doing trust me on that i been there and done that many years ago
I'm talking about an intern, not a therapist
Thanks for the warning, but I don't mind taking risks and chances. Even if it doesn't work out, at least I can learn from the mistake as I done with each experience, that's how we learn. Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all and all that.
i know you might be afraid to talk, but if you REALLY like him you have to find a way. I'm not an outgoing person like i've never gone and talked to anybody. At lunch there was somebody i always looked at and would unintentionally stare, she would smile : ) i definitely should've talked to her when i had soo many chances
Just so sad!! Most of the ones, recently, that I would talk about ended up being married to a guy, one to a lady, and about 5 that were committed to another woman!! Seems that 2 out of 3 that I get to know and like are either married or in a committed relationship with another woman!
When I was 10, I don't know why, but I wrote it out in a sort of For-My-Eyes-Only kinda proclaimation /documentation (Again, no clue why), I stapled the crap out of it and hid it under my bedroom carpet foam padding. Yeah. No clue.
I have a huuuge crush on my boyfriend lol I love that man ❤️
Same :3
I'm head over heels with a guy who is 10 years younger than me.. I know it feels wrong.. I wish i can jump him 😍 😍 😍
Hey are you from Australia 😍 😍 me toooo
you'll make his day if you do...
Oh i can not.. Im married.. Unhappily too 😩😩
Nope! I don't wana appear like a desperate unhappy cougar lol.. If it's meant to happen one day, I'm sure it will
I ain't messaging no one ☺️☺️☺️ thanks for your input 👍
Well done, your value went higher in my book! You're too young to be a cougar. The question becomes... why are you head over heels. That is what is worth examining inside yourself and holds wealth of information.
Lightbulb27 thank you 💓 truth be told.. I made some sort of unexplainable connection with him which lead to me falling for him; was not in my hands! I am highly likely to fall in love, find love and be connected.. Because I didn't have any of these with my husband, nor did I have it before marriage.
Lololol I'm a human with needs thank you very much Sydneyboy.. Now go away I'm busy at work
So you are still married and feeling that? I bet I could help guide you on path to figuring out what is going on. I'm not counselor, but... I am a lightbulb... lol! Point being, that connection you feel, is your subcosncious mind connecting with it's perception of that other person, which is probably accurate. The young man has some attribute that you grew up with, that is why you have those feelings. You want love and aren't getting it at home at this point, for whatever reasons... it's another question why you chose this hubby... and another question of whether either is good for you. But understanding why you feel this way and how to address the underlying emotions attached might be helpful. You are still of "make baby" age, so that is likely twirling around in the background.
I can explain more of how sub conscious works if you don't get that.
Wow you sure a lighbulb man 😍 and very intelligent indeed! Thank you for your help, it is truly appreciated ♥ I am seeing a counsellor, it's been a year, and the conclusion is always to leave hubby- easier said then done! I've suffered a lot emotionally growing up.. I've lacked emotional support, love and acceptance. It carried on to my marriage.. i got married in a month without knowing him just to escape my family life.
I met this young guy 3 years ago, locked eyes in a second.. Didn't think anything of it. We fought and disagreed a lot in the beginning till we had nothing to fight over, we accepted each other and became close friends. (my husband doesn't know his my friend but he knows the family). He has a ton of flaws but I have embraced them and see him perfect. It's a lovely life lesson in my opinion ♥
Thank you for sharing and opening up, that's good, hope they are helping you see past the mess. These things are like onions, peel a layer, there's another layer. I have my experiences that got me to this point of knowledge, was life lessons, not books, but now I'm learning and realize... the knowledge was already out there.
Sorry to hear of the childhood abuse, emotions... sub conscious is what is in charge, you know that. In short... those wounds are making decisions... as you sub consciously work out to purify your soul. It's the process of life it seems... be born, be hurt in the world and conditioned... reproduce maybe... then purify the soul. something like that.
Anytime someone is hurting in relationship, and another comes along can talk and open up with, that connection can/likely to spark. So could just be that, or maybe something deeper. With hubby, sounds like the pattern repeated as it generally does until it is broken. I can say in my priors, I learned there was huge value in that tortured mess, but had to work to see it. The soul healing is key. Then get there, and decide if can love that other persona and tolerate them for life... that's the choice part of love:) Not easy to end things with all the ties, emotional, $, kids, life. I honestly don't see how married folks do it... work out issues... I had to get away to think or I'd die. very stressful...
To me, all this is rocket fuel for you to get to a healthier emotional place. Change, is what is required to make better choices, heal the little girl in there that received a lot of lies.
I'm going to post a question or mytake on this soon, but thought you'd get a kick. I see this as very helpful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b93ZLw_Ra8
last thought... you talked to this other guy and emotionally bonded. That may make it hard to click with husband... if there is any spark remaining...
You are absolutely amazing! Yes I'll check out the mytake! I do need a lot of soul healing.. I'm hurting a lot, especially in my marriage. This younger guy has no interference with what is happening with my husband. I had no spark with my husband since day 1 and please don't ask me how I got married.. Its extremely long story! But this younger guy is like a dream fantasy!
Like yourself, life has taught me a lot and I'm an empath too so I help other people who suffer too!
Thank you for everything you've said! You're just awesome 😍
It's OK hehe I'm in my family owned business.. I got on when I feel the slightest stress and need to destress.. Im from brissy! Sorryyy very farrr lol
Lol and my husband would kill you 😝
Welcome... Peas in a pod! Empaths have "spiritual gifts" to unleash, it's the powers of the intuitive and creative mind burried under those old wounds... ready to grow when set free. Read up on this if you haven't or explore in yourself your intuition. Im reading on how to heal with energy, ability to read others energy... I've experienced and seen enough, it's real, just not understood well. Follow me so I don't lose track of you.. if you like.. so can track your journey.
Omg you're awesome! Yes I can read other people's energy! I'm highly sensitive aaaghhh! I will follow you ☺ 😁
Lol i don't do this over the net
I have a crush on someone on here but I will wait to write it down because we don't know each other yet lmao
Lol creeper...
Sure! My Crush was my GALAXY! She was everything I loved, and more. But what was special was that there were things about Her that I didn't always find amazing and sweet, but as I got to know Her, my Heart quickly molded to love EVERYTHING She was. She wasn't everything I loved at the start. Instead, my heart CONFORMED to Her! It was amazing.
I don’t have any “crushes” right now but I have more than that 😊 a boyfriend
The person I'm crushing on already knows and since we started dating she has lived up to the hype my mind set for her.
I do it using my username. Wusses do it anonymously.
@ariadneR will you marry me? <3
She knows I love her and respect her and wish her and her boyfriend the best and knows I respect her wishes.
I wouldn't use the word "crush" but I think @anmari2001 is pretty and funny. I don't like being anonymous so I will just post it regularly.
Hello there 😘
I met the most wholesome person, she is charismatic, a deadpan humour, and we share lots of interests. But I'm pretty damn chubby and nervous if that is something she is okay with. I want to be a better person for her.
I'm currently fangirling over how HOT my ex boyfriend's brother is.
Alright, I do have a crush.. Don't tell anyone!
By "anonymous" I thought you meant a crush from GAG. People are answering from their lives elsewhere.
In any case, we do not know anyone personally or even truly on GAG to hold a genuine crush.
Understood. Fair enough. Thank you for a nice reply.
I want to date my girlfriends sister as well, at the same time. I bet we’d like it. 😔
My current "crush" is a married woman. Something I try to ignore but I think it's mutual as sometimes I catch her staring at me and she's touched my arms sometimes in conversation. But hey ho never mind
I don't do crushes, I like a girl named Heather and she knows it, but she doesn't know that I know that she knows it, she is my friends ex wife
My ex girlfriend's sister
I would never have even considered letting it be known, much less acting on it. I still wouldn't even now. But she is very sweet, beautiful, and has a magnetic personality. I'd never stoop to that kind of level, but I'll admit there was always a crush in the back of my mind. That's where it shall stay.
I'm developing feelings for a female coworker
I already have and got hated for it so I try not to do that anymore
I don't really crush to be honest with you, I have people I like though and they're pretty cool people.
Dont know her name but some mom at my sons daycare!
Yeah a girl at work 10 years younger I just want to have hot sex with
Just a bunch of unwanted crushes from a bunch of craggy old women.
Wish they'd leave me alone.
I Have a crush on my husband's ex-girlfriend
I've Never properly met her, just pictures really. Saw her in person once in passing
@AmandaYVR
She's my crush.
A friend of mine who doesn't share the same f
He is the best person ever, very smart, sweet and caring.
Sometimes he acts as if he is into me as well, bur since he said on occasions we will always be just friends, I try not to get my hopes up. But it's difficult because of how close to me he is.
I don't crush, I ask. Makes for a much less complicated social life.
@Apple1996 of course she's one sexy beast who will fuck anyone at any time 😜👅💦
Your personal fuck machine who will slide his tongue all the way from your upper lips to your lower ones and eat you like a maniac 😏
Would love to violently play that sweet clit of yours with my tongue as I suck your pussy and enjoy that wet juicy meal 😉
@Apple1996 Umm no thanks lol
@Apple1996 I should punish you for offering it to someone else, you need discipline, the bending you over a table and pounding you from behind like a monster kind 😏
Nah. I just tell them.
Her name on this site is twat-twig
I don't have any crushes.
I don't have a crush as of now :/
No I'm shy like that?
Betty white
I'm not crushing RN.
Ice_sirène
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Official enough? 💓
Yes🙂
Aww. <3
Dont really crush
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