My girlfriend says she is bored with me and the relationship. Any ideas on how to spice things up again?

[Anonymous]

[lucas262]

I Don't think you can,

just remember a woman breaks up with you emotionally before the actual break up for a woman to break up with you she has to kill you off emotionally that means all the emotions she had for you.

Basically most not necessarily all women their brain is wired naturally. If I don't feel this. Then the feelings must never have been real to begin with. Some people married 10 years and poof she acts like nothing ever happened.

Im trying to help you, let someone else give you girlfriend advise
Im telling you to prepare an emotional pillow for your heart to land on.

This will hurt but most of these types already have a 2nd and 3rd guy lined up that she compares you to.

If she isn't and you worl it out great if not then I hope this comes back to you and helps.

[GOOSEBOY78]

when was the last time you cooked for her or took her out to eat or the movies etc? just cos you got her doesn't mean the maintenance stops. it ain't a car.

[vintagegirl90]

Hmmm, create a series of spontaneous dates, so like ask her if she’s free and take her out somewhere however the twist is you don’t tell her where it is? You give her little clues and she has to guess where you’re going and what you will both be doing? Also try new hobbies together if there’s anything you both wanted to try! Explore new places, go for a drive to a different part of town, try new restaurants, do something outdoorsy that is challenging, watch a musical, watch a concert, go for a hike, plan a weekend away from home, go camping, go for a hike, go to an art gallery. These are all new things you can to do to make it less boring?

[canadiancoloursky]

^^^perfect girl and answer right here! :)

[princejoshua17]

Is tinder good

[btbc92]

If she's bored with you break up with her! Honestly, stop settling for less, your not there to please her. She's auditioning to be somebody more, a wife. Would you want to marry somebody who saying your boring? She's divorce you in a heartbeat. Maybe she needs to look at herself and contribute since she's board so much. Get rid of her entitled butt.

[JohnnySigma85]

I like her ☝. You should marry someone like her instead of the girl you're with now.

[coachTanthony]

What did you used to do when you were considered "Not so boring?" Do that.

[razelove]

Yep, let her go and get a new girlfriend. Why change yourself? Find someone who likes you the way you are.

[Iwillneverunderstand]

Do some web browsing, like pinterest or Google me ven some sex talk sites & find some fun little games or activities to do like note cards with silly or even sexual acts, do a week of things the two of you decide is fun, surprise each other randomly with things each other like. Just start exploring things and doing stuff together

[ManolisP]

Oh i think the relationship is already over, she is looking for a reason to break up. Of course i don't know your circumstances, so it would be good if you sat down and talk, seriously and honestly. But be careful, do not let her manipulate you and make you feel like you are not enough, or you are the problem! You are not responsible for her own happiness! Give a chance and talk but be careful, break up might be on the way.

[adidas0169]

If she's already telling you this she has already made up her mind. sorry but most of the time when someone tells someone something like that they already want out or they want you to kiss there's asses and string you along until they find someone better. chances are she's already is talking to someone else and has already moved on mentally.

[Wolflong117]

I disagree. When a woman tells her man this, it's because he's not bringing anything to the table and he's not showing up for or the relationship (this is the #1 cause women get bored) ... if she wasn't trying to save the relationship she wouldn't have brought it up and she would just ended it right there, but she's giving him the change to show up or she's gonna find a man who can show up in the relationship.

[Bananaman177]

This girl is toxic. No matter what you do or what changes you make, she'll never be satisfied.

She's a gaping hole that can never be filled. You want to spice things up? Dump her ass and make her come crawling back to you for a change.

[razzamatazzp01]

No ideas on how to spice anything up, but you should get away from her as quick as possible before she gets pregnant then it will really suck. because whoever she's cheating on you with will be your kids step dad, or maybe you will be the step dad.

[blkgold33]

Take a trip somewhere even spice things up in the bedroom as well. But before you do anything make sure everything good like sit down and talk with each other

[Anonymous]

Yeah tell her to quit laying there like a useless bump on a log when you're having sex with her. Tell her to move around and put some effort in instead of making you do all the work. I had an ex who tried that same thing and her response was well women enjoy it more but she didn't enjoy getting dumped the very next day

[PinkMichae]

If she was right for you she wouldn't get bored.

I'd start focusing on yourself because she's taking you for granted.

[Shiver]

Eat her ass, involve another person, etc. There's tons of things you can do to make it exciting, but if you really don't want to, just break up.

[chickenneck75]

It's over don't waste your time and energy. You don't know me but Id wish I'd listened when it was told to me

[Anonymous]

No such thing as boredom, just boring people. If the relationship was happening then you would never be bored. Good luck but these issues don't usually end well.

[Anonymous]

Surprise her with sudden anal sex. “Whoops”. Guarantee that will cause fireworks but not necessarily in a good way. But it won’t be boring

[Wolflong117]

If she wasn't bored with you before and now is, your clearly stopped bringing anything tong to the table or showing up in the relationship and for her. This is the number 1 way to make a woman get bored with you and the relationship.

[Wolflong117]

There are several ways to explain this, focusing on how a lack of effort or presence from the man leads to emotional disconnect and stagnation for the woman.
Here's a brief, to-the-point explanation:
Emotional Starvation: When a man stops "showing up," he often stops offering emotional connection, validation, and support. A woman feels emotionally starved and ignored, which makes her feel isolated and disconnected, eroding the bond over time.
Stagnation and Predictability: Relationships thrive on growth, shared experiences, and effort. When one person stops investing, the relationship becomes predictable and stagnant. This lack of movement and effort can lead to a feeling of boredom and a sense that the man is no longer a challenging or engaging partner.
Feeling Undervalued: The relationship starts to feel one-sided. When a woman's needs, efforts, and feelings go consistently ignored or unappreciated, she stops feeling valued. Losing that feeling of being a priority makes her emotional investment decline, resulting in her losing interest.

[duanemc86]

She's already thrusting someone else's dick. Has been for a while. Toss her ass out and move on.

[Ianto]

Buy some whips and bondage gear. Use them, hard. She may not enjoy it, but she can't claim it is boring! 😉

[samO98]

Yes, so simple, again try to start from very beginning, feel like you both starting as you were in very first few days of your best feeling,, it's my opinion thanks

[TheDud3]

Do a surprise anal so she can have a legit reason to break up with you because she's already probably going to, but you can at least know in the back of your mind that you poked her brown eye.

[GingerbuffMan]

Have you tried the donkey chop? Time to move on. She wants to, but wants you to do the leg work.

[jss123]

At this point its time to move on. Huge red flag. Whatever you do will only be a temporary fix.

[Dmann80]

Take control.
With that I mean that you need to take the choises in what to do and where to do things.

[Anonymous]

When a woman says she’s bored with you and the relationship, it’s already over. Sorry... I wish I had better news for you.

[JSWise143]

Leave her and let his find someone or something more exciting.

[Femdom_Society]

Probably time to go your separate ways.
Have you asked her what she wants?

[jackbasst]

Maybe you need to try something sexual or maybe even just walk away and that might shake it up a little bit and see what she had

[Mehzmeh]

Be spontaneous. Just get up and go somewhere. Surprise her with gifts and stuff.

[james2018dean]

Ask her what could spice things up. And actually just do it!

[Anonymous]

Yeah. Find a new chick. Don't ever sacrifice your peace for their pleasure. They're not worth it.

[Anonymous]

Well not sure as I went through this spell out of a need for more comunicaton and attention

[jonesin4u]

Fuck her in the ass and start the apt on fire that's exciting

[David_Kek]

Try dumping her, that'll spice things up.

[cavmanier]

Find a partner you're compatible with.

[Phoenix98]

Be unpredictable and spontaneous.

[manpower61]

Women are just shit creatures.

[Juxtapose]

Can she not entertain herself?

[OfDeath]

Have you tried figging?

[SuccessfulHornDog]

two words: Cleveland Steamer

[Anonymous]

Have a threesome

[kim45456]

Hahha

[Msgaïj]

😆 haha

[naughtynabor]

Sounds like you two need to find a girlfriend

[Codywow]

When was the last time you took her on a date?

[blackrose_]

Role play

[madgoat]

Don't marry her.

[Cannuck22]

Move on.

[SportsNerd]

Eat her candy

[blackxbarbiex01]

Go on vacation

[Anonymous]

Hahahhhahhhhahhah

[Anonymous]

Anal.