What should I do when my girlfriend says she's "TIRED OF ME?"?

[Anonymous]

I really love my girlfriend and i want us to be happy together but recently she seems to be losing interest and this is hurting me a lot... so my girlfriend and i have been going out for around 11 month now and she used to be crazy about me, which i love. i try my best to make her happy etc like every other guy who wants to treasure and cherish their relationship. However, in these last 2 month things are starting to fall apart. she no longer gives me the same affectionate response as before and i can understand its because the honeymoon phase is over, but what makes me really uncomfortable is the amount of disrespect she has for me now. These days she just saying I'm annoying and yesterday i just got told that she's "tired of me" which really hurt me a lot.

I want to make the relationship work and I'm putting all my efforts in to fix it but i don't know if thats the best best option... so love gurus, should i give her some space and act "cold" to get her interest level back or should i put my heart on stake and try fixing the situation despite knowing that i can get hurt? i really love her a lot and want to fix the situation :'( i just want the girl who loved me a lot and would do anything to see me back instead of the distant gf who's tired of me...

Thanks for the Long read. Everyone's help would be really helpful : /

[Rosie45]

Have you asked her if anything else is going on in her life that she could be upset over or if you have done something? It may seem little to you but a huge deal to her and she might just be worried, if she is still being hurtful after this try being more distant to see how she reacts and if this doesn't work I think it might be best to have a deep conversation about where yous are with each other to see if you should call time on the relationship

[Melon96]

I admit i got tired of my boyfriend because of what he did, i tired to be fine about it but i end up slowly losing the love i have for him. He can’t blame me. I have been tired of trying to understand him to the point that i don’t even understand anymore. I tired of him immaturity and stupidness towards every decision he make. So better talk to her so you will know why she got tired of you.

[Anonymous]

Do something different with her, not the same tyoes of dates you are doing. Buy some nice cloths (all guys should have a good leather jacket). And relax, you will date others after her. Might want to start looking now.

[DeltaDanner]

Ask her what's wrong, find out what is at the core of this. It is better to try and fail to have never tried at all. See if you can save it, but if you know you will only get hurt then just back away from it

[futuregirl]

Sorry.. You can only move on. You deserve better