Is my girlfriend fed up with me?

[Anonymous]

We've been together for almost 3 years and we've never had a major problem until a few months ago. She's about to graduate High school and is about ready go into college. Lately it seems like she's been distant and can't seem to find anything to be happy in. I'm a bit immature at times but its usually at times when she needs a reason to laugh, but lately its been getting on her nerves. Its really affecting us.

[toolt00l]

Here's something a ton of people realize later in life; Dating in high school is usually pointless. It creates more of a learning experience than it actually does real relationships. It's rare that high school relationships last afterward (some do, of course).

So, honestly, and you probably won't want to hear this, there's a chance that she might just want to be single for her first year or so in college. College is an important growing experience and its not good to be weighed down with a relationship during that time. She needs to focus on other things first.

Are you in college or are you in high school as well?

[Anonymous]

Talk to her about it and tell her what's on your mind.