Why are you NOT attracted to white women/white men?

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For those who aren't, why are you not attracted to whites? I know a lot of people are but there are also plenty who aren't but aren't acknowledged.

Why are you NOT attracted to white women/white men?

I personally am not quite as attracted to white women as I once was. I still like some of them, but there are a lot of deciding factors in it for me. There are things I could note but I won't keep this long. If you would like to see more of my reasons you can read my old Take here: 7 Things I Dislike About White Women

In the meantime, what about everyone else?

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ImagineSketchy | 468 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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I like naturally darker skin. I saw the movie Get Out... Can't trust them. Black hair is my second favorite just behind natural redheads/gingers. I just enjoy the diversity of color and I find them more relatable than a Caucasian female. I can't truly find a Caucasian lady that understands me or gets where I'm coming from with how I grew up or anything. It makes having a bond a bit tougher, not impossible, just tougher. When I lived in the US, people I spoke to on a daily basis and worked with automatically assumed I was more into white women than I was of black women or Hispanics. I guess it's because I didn't act as though I came from the hood or the ghetto which is just more stereotyping that the whites cannot truly relate to or laugh at without making it uncomfortable.

The Get Out thing was a joke. 🙂

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- ManOnFire
  
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  "I can't truly find a Caucasian lady that understands me or gets where I'm coming from with how I grew up or anything. It makes having a bond a bit tougher, not impossible, just tougher."
  - That has also been some of my issue too.
- ImagineSketchy
  
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  I read your Mytake. To think it has been almost a full year since you posted it.
  You caught some fire for it, but it was received maybe 45/100 well.
- ManOnFire
  
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  Oh certainly, there were lots of white chicks who got in their feelings from reading it but the truth is the truth whether they agree with it or not.
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- ImagineSketchy
  
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  There is definitely truth to it, but I'm not sure how truthful it is. If you go to a European country, it will change.
- ManOnFire
  
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  Probably. But that Take was aimed mainly at white American women.
Dolemite510
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I still like cute while girls but I think they’re kinda boring in general, I love brown girls i guess u could say lol I. e. Latina, middle eastern, Asian, black girls etc they’re so much more exotic and beautiful in my opinion

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- ManOnFire
  
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  That exactly the place I've come to myself. Some white girls are really awesome, but many are just basic bitches. It's more often the OLDER white women who have a lot more appeal though.

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CubsterShura | 842 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Guru

1 y

I have nothing against Whites. They just aren't on my top desirable list mainly because of difference in culture/religion, and a secondary reason is that I find some other ethnicities more attractive than Whites even if I think of aesthetics purely.

But hey, if life ever brings me a White Muslim man (already sounds pretty unlikely, right?) and we seem to click I'll never say no to him xD

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Ninjazzed | 77 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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Why? White males are often caught displaying violent tendencies or they’re just plain disrespectful, pretentious, and gaudy as hell. More typically, the western white man. Huge turn-off. Oh, and don’t forget the internalized misogyny to top it off.

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- HedwigInABox
  
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  I'm pretty sure basically every other race is more mysogynistic that White men. Not that they can't be mysogynistic but I mean you can't really believe arabs for example value womens rights more?
- Ninjazzed
  
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  @HedwigInABox I know, but I’m not attracted to Arabs lol. I‘ve personally noticed a pattern of white men displaying misogynistic behavior.. I’m saying that I’m no longer attracted for them due to that reason.
- CubsterShura
  
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  @HedwigInABox I had a half White boyfriend before and he was far more disrespectful than my current Arab boyfriend. I have a few guy friends who are not Arabs but raised in the middle east and they are incredibly nice people and treat their girlfriends better than I've seen any other guy doing.
  
  I follow this community online and many European women from egalitarian societies there talk about much much better Arab men are than their own guys.
  
  Arabs are FAR BETTER than Whites.
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- HedwigInABox
  
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  @CubsterShura I'm half White half Arab and I had different experiences with arabs. I don't think all of them are bad. Or even most of them. I also know a lot of good arab guys. But they usually have a far more traditionel and often more misogynistic mindset than the average white Guy. How many white Guys do you know that think women who wear a Hijab are worth more than those who don't? Or that women aren't allowed to drink alcohol while men can. Or that the men get's to decide over what his Family is allowed to do and what not? wheter the women is allowed to Work or the daughter is allowed to date (she isn't 90% of the time) of course White Guys can be assholes to but the things I listed are pretty standart in arabic cultures while it's frowned upon in the West. But it's a huge difference wheter he grew up in the West or middle east.
- CubsterShura
  
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  Of course Arab guys will be more traditional. Most tend to be conservative Muslims and Christians.
  
  There is nothing wrong with valuing modesty. And White guys on the other hand value women who rebel against the tradition, so they aren't anything better. Women aren't allowed to drink while men can is a stupid bs that neither me nor my Arab boyfriend ever heard of. He doesn't drink. Alcohol is Haram for everyone. Regarding family, Arab men are more willing to be the provider and leader in the house, which is not necessarily a bad thing. And yes while many Arab people are not down to the idea of dating, White men are nothing better when they act entitled to sex just because they paid for the date. No Arab man will pay for your date and get mad if you don't hook up later.

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DizzyDesii | 1.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Master

1 y

I am attracted to all ethnicities but the one thing i dislike about anyone outside my race is when they say racially insensitive stuff. Like you can tell when they mean no harm by it but its like dammit i liked you and you just had to go fuck up. Like dont call me chocolate/coco and stop mentioning my smooth brown skin. Like just dont say it cause ima look at you side ways. Dont ask why my hair has this texture and dont ask if black girls have pink pussies too. Just stop. And for the love of the Lord do not say the word ghetto regardless of if you’re talking about white, black, etc. Just dont. I get that we have freedom of speech but also know when to stfu

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- ManOnFire
  
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  Yes! They're being round-about racist with those comments by trying to seem like they mean no harm. And it's only ever white guys I hear saying that stuff, even some of my co-workers.
- DizzyDesii
  
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  Mmm the latinos be sayin slick dumbshit too tho because we actually let them get away with the N word. The indians are ones who say dumb stuff regarding my skintone tho
- ManOnFire
  
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  We definitely let them get away with the N word, yeah. I was thinking about that awhile ago too. I'm surprised Indian men would ever like a black woman since they often are obsessed with white women.
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Not just on here but i met a lot of indian men in person who liked me but they also wanted multiple gfs lol
- stealthmod
  
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  OBVIOUSLY YOU DON'T
- DizzyDesii
  
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  @stealthmod please tell me what i said wrong 🙄
desidoll | 485 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Guru

1 y

I'm Indian and I am attracted to all ethnicities if I find the individual to be attractive. My fiancé is white. I won't say they are my first preference but white men is in the top 3 for me. I am not obsessed with them like how many Asian women are lol. My first preference is Arab. I have dated a few but for some reasons they seem to have one similar attitude/pattern that I cannot tolerate even if they are Atheists/Christians. I think it is the culture/mindset thing. I switched to white men because I figure that I get along with them better.

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- ManOnFire
  
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  I thought you said you were Indonesian.
- desidoll
  
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  Lol again? 😆 I said the province that I was born in is at the Indonesian border but still in Malaysia. Anyway, most people do confuse me as Asian 😐
- ManOnFire
  
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  So then you're Malaysian?
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- desidoll
  
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  Yes I am..
- ManOnFire
  
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  Okay, then everything else makes sense.
Anonymous

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Less attracted to white men and I'm white. Have no idea what causes that.

I'm people not being attracted to a white person can be a preference but in some cases I think it is holding on to false beliefs or not thinking outside of the box. I've been trying to be more aware of not ruling out white men just because i'm initially less attracted to the. I'm just more attracted to Asian men. I always have been since I was in high school and I grew up in a pretty lily white community.

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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I didn't see the second part of your post. What you are talking about in your past post is stereotyping of white women.
- ManOnFire
  
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  Those are not stereotypes. Those are common problems, yeah. I stated at the beginning of that Take that not all white women are like that but those things are more common among them than other women.
- Opinion Owner
  
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  I've seen women of all races come off like the women you've described. I've never run in those circles so those are the women I'm around by choices.
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- ManOnFire
  
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  You have NEVER known of a black woman, Latina, or anyone else to think every man is hitting on her or trying to sexually assault her. You have NEVER known of a black woman, Latina, or anyone else to be as feminist crazy as white women with feminist sentiments. And you have NEVER known of a black woman, Latina, or anyone else to think she is the sexiest because she believes the world glorifies her for being black, Latina, or anything else.
  
  I do not believe that.
- Opinion Owner
  
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  They are out their believe me.
Pejtu | 409 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Yoda

1 y

I really dont like Asian girls for example, even tho I know they have a thing for white guys Especially
Why?
Because i can't stand how SHY they are its ridiculous!
And the way they moan during sex makes my blood boil with anger 🤬🤬🤬
Yes i did fuck 2 Asian girls meaby not all are the same but these 2 were the same

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- ManOnFire
  
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  Oh my God, I absolutely hate the way they are obssessed with white guys! They talk about how annoying it is when a guy has an "Asian fetish" yet they have a fetish for white men, it's gross.
ariadneR | 640 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Yoda

1 y

Like you I'm not quite as attracted as I used to be. Dont get me wrong they still are, I mean if Tom Hardy asked me out I'd say yes in a heartbeat 😂😂
I couldn't tell you what it is, maybe as I've matured so have my tastes. 🤷‍♀️

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- ManOnFire
  
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  Right. And I kinda think I'm over all that "preference" stuff these days. And over this idea that white women are in some way better than other women, when they're not.
- ariadneR
  
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  Preach brother preach.
Gatman34
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White women are liberal feminists victims who complain all the time and are superficial and high maintenance

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- ManOnFire
  
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  Yep.
Anonymous

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I'm white, for some reason never been attracted to Asians, Indians, black people even though I've meet a few women that were. It's not a biological choice and feel. You have to feel physically attracted to someone. I won't date someone unless that I had some physical attraction to native American women but rarely.

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ronaldo75 | 179 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Explorer

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I find white girls to be pretty just like any other race but I'm Latino and I've seen A LOT of cases of white girls dating black or latino men then lying to the cops and their families about abuse.

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- ManOnFire
  
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  THAT is one of the reasons I'm not much into them like I used to be either. Good mention.
Nik1hil | 1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Master

1 y

Please!..
I 💝💖💗💓💞💕💟❤️💜💛🖤💚💙White girl..
Even if she is trash..
And looks like pale fucking Vampire..
Unless there is other race girl is competing.
I would gladly put up with White trash..
But if the white girl is not fit or educated and manners and any other race girl who is fit and mannered and well educated and it intelligent.. Then I will leave the white girl..

But it's like can more easily be blind to faults of a caramel cookie.

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Anonymous

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I don’t know why that is. As a white female I can say that I typically am not attracted to darker skin tones. It has absolutely nothing to do with their culture or race. And of course that could change at any time. I just simply am not as attracted to that for whatever reason. I think people just have a type that they biologically find the most attractive. (skin, eyes, hair, style, voice, demeanor). Like it’s more subconscious than a decision you think through

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MrOooFancy
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I don't think it's anything they did themselves, I've just become attracted to Asians girls way more. Tbh this has lowered my attraction to every other race

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boggboss | 4.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Master

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Funny enough my girlfriend is white yet I am least attracted to white when talking about skin colour

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SexyLolaxyx
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Skin colour shouldn't matter. yet too many think. I just go for personalty. if act like a dick head that I am not attract to that

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JCT666 | 805 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Guru

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I wouldn't say I'm NOT attracted to them, but I generally find white women to be overrated and most of them tend to be liberals, which I'm not into.

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jasco | 518 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Yoda

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Personally it's not the race that makes me unattracted to someone its there looks and personality

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Liam_Hayden
Guru

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Sorry, but blanket rejecting people based up color is and always will be racism.

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ChiTown33 | 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Guru

1 y

I'll tell you why. Because nobody cares about the whites! https://www.youtube.com/embed/XZ7gPulRKhk

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Anonymous

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I am, just not American white men. A lot of them are just immature cry-babies.

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UnknownGagsUser | 330 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Guru

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White people are adorable what not to like 🤔

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- ManOnFire
  
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  @UnknownGagsUser You're Asian. Asian women are just as obsessed with white men as white men are with you.

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