How do I tell my boyfriend im on my period?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend wants to do some things together, and im down, but im expecting my period very soon, like tomorrow or the next day. Or if im late, next week. What should i do, and how shoulf i tell him?

[winterfox10]

The more awkward you get about this, the more awkward he's going to feel about it.

"Hey man, I'm menstruating. I'm happy to make out and suck your dick, but I'm not feeling up for having sex."

[Asker]

Uhhh

[winterfox10]

Lol obviously you don't need to say that you'll suck him off. I'm just saying that you should be straight up about the fact that you are on your period.

[Asker]

I feel uncomfortable if i do

[R4vedave]

"Hey just fyi, but I'm on my period"

Just be upfront. No reason to skirt around the issue.

[Asker]

But i feel embarrassed bringing it up. This is my first boyfriend too

[R4vedave]

I understand that, but honestly there's nothing to be embarrassed about. I remember how I was around your age too, always worried about saying the wrong thing or doing something embarrassing, but in reality, it doesn't really matter. He's not going to care that much if you tell him, it'll just let him know, and then you guys can move on.

[Asker]

Okay, Thank you

[slatyb]

I expect your boyfriend knows that women menstruate. Just say "My period is about to start so <whatever could happen>" If he can't handle that he's not mature enough to have a girlfriend.

[elite665]

Do I get horny on ur period?
Cause if so ask if he’s ok with some blood and then still do it

[elite665]

If not then just tell him you want to wait like a week or two for u period to pass

[Asker]

But how do i say it

[elite665]

Just tell him you want to do something with him but that you also are going to get your period then ask if he minds it

[Asker]

Should i do it over text or in person?

[elite665]

Either way it’s your boyfriend personally I would not mind either way

[Agem123]

It looks like you don't communicate well with each other. Why wouldn't you be comfortable by just telling him?

[winterfox10]

She's young. She's at that age when every little thing is a source of insecurity.

[Agem123]

Yeah. That's why anyone shouldn't get in romantic relationships in such age.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Snakeyes7]

Tell him if you want. If you are known to have massive mood swings I guess it would be good to warn him but I think that’s it.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

"I'm on my period." Done.

[Asker]

How. I dont have the confidence to say that

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Well, you can say it "unconfidently", or not at all. If he has a problem with it, then he should turn gay instead, coz dating a girl means dealing with that time of the month. Just say it.

[Asker]

But how do i bring it up

[larry69]

Just say I am on my period

[Asker]

Howwwww

[larry69]

Just be straightforward with it. Its totally normal.

[Asker]

But how do i bring it up? I feel embarrassed if i say it

[larry69]

Nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of for real. Maybe leave your tampon box open and in plain view. Maybe he gets the hint.

[Asker]

I dont use tampons

[larry69]

Leave pads around