If you think that he will stop because you mention it, you are very mistaken.
It could be somebody elses, why are you certain that it is hers?
What do you expect, out of player, you said you knew what you signing up for, so what changes now?
I'm not saying that he could not done it and is Saint or that he is allowed...
I would just give it to him and tell that it is not yours, you would like to know whos, how it got there and see where it goes, you should see when he is telling BS by now.
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DON'T confront him !!! Not yet! He will just make up a story and deny any wrong doing.
You need to catch him out! There are plenty websites/apps that will advise you on how to catch a cheater.
Keep in mind that trust is the cornerstone of all relationships... with no trust , a relationship won't work.
If you don't talk to him about it, it will eat away at you for years. You have to know the truth. It might hurt for sure, but it is better to know. There might be an innocent explanation, but it might be real cheating.
Confront him about your doubts. Keeping things from eacother only makes it worse. Don't accuse him without concrete evidence but voice your concerns and doubts
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Its up to him to explain it. Don't be accusatory- just ask for an explanation.
If you are sure I would leave him and if you are always going to have issues around trust because of his history I would leave him too because you will always be stressed whenever your not with him
Start with "Who does the hair tie belong to?" And smile.
See if he has a plausible explanation. If he's still doing her you don't want him anyway.Maybe its his siblings, nieces, nephews, cousins, mother, grand mother etc
Yes you should talk to him about this
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