Are sugar mommies as common as sugar daddies?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Question inspired by @AlongCameCindy's question Guys would you lose respect for a girl if you knew she had a "sugar daddy"? .
Sugar mommies are the opposite gender version of sugar daddies - older women who engaged with younger men for companionship and intimacy in exchange for money.
Frankly, I personally witnessed only two of these relationships, in contrast with the more numerous cases of sugar daddies.
What's your opinion?

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+1 y

In the cases I saw it wasn't only in exchange of money, but also professional favors and career boosts.

[opnbuk59]

When I was in college I had women offer to take care of me wanted me to be there when they got off work go out with them a boy toy again I will never compromise my ethics it morals not integrity for no one it's all I have to take with me and I'm not motivated by money doesn't drive but they tried good looking women tempting but I couldn't sugar minutes sure more prevalent in East Chinese Asian women had a couple of them offer me 5 Grand to have sex on regular basis said no still trying to get me to I noticed that younger women Barker in their 20, s it's so they sell someone to take care of them I'm no sugar daddy,

[Finchie40]

It occurs but not as much as sugar daddies , the only sugar mommies I came across were married successful women that weren’t satisfied at home sexually by their husbands so they would pay for a younger guy to come screw them mainly in a hotel room that she paid for as well, and then she go back to her routine married life like nothing happened , it’s sad but it happens

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Those are exactly the cases I saw.

[LuvMeSomeBoys]

They’re pretty common actually, but it’s mostly older guys looking for widows to be a nurse with a purse.

[Anonymous]

Definitely not as common. Women aren't as desperate for sex and companionship as men are

[Honestyyy]

Mmm not to sure about that😂😂 i know some women that are hornier than guys

[D_Bone_Steak]

Sugar mummies hit me up... you work and whatever but feed me, give me gifts, and be respectful.

Me... I'll workout and take my sexual aggression out on you.

If I'm wrong... I don't wanna be right.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

... lol

[D_Bone_Steak]

Pretty much what it is with the genders swapped right?

... just she usually gets lazy, finds leverage, then extorts the resource while dropping her side of the deal to be physically appealing... and becomes a land whale that holds leverage over her victim.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Gender agendas differ... that's my point by that.

[JackSmy]

I think so, but they are more subtle, and they are more discreet, because society will judge them terribly, unlike the male version.
More mature women are just amazing, because they know what they want, and how they like to feel, and they just love showing younger guys how to make them have the joy they want!
I actually have a lot more respect for women that are comfortable with their sexuality, and just want to enjoy their feelings, without the judgments and social stereotypes!

[Kaneki05]

Well i dunno but aren't sugar daddies rare anyway. Like i have never seen any actaul proper sugar anythings lol, apart from on insta but on there it's all extremley attractive or dolled up people.
To average people sugar daddies and mommies are rare af anyway.

So does it really matter if it is still rare. I wish i had a sugar mommie lmao.

[Brindale]

Pretty sure the idea is frowned upon, regardless of gender, but for "sugar daddies" they're probably considered a player or some shit while a "sugar mommy" would be considered loose/desperate/etc.

So they probably wouldn't be as easy to find as sugar daddies

[jamesgoldman]

Nowhere near as common or at least they are more discreet so are hidden in plain sight

If a women dates a younger man then she's labelled a cradle snatcher
If a guy dates a younger women she's just his trophy wife and society accepts it as normal

I suppose there was an element of that in my second relationship but I refused to accept the offers I couldn't reciprocate i. e. a £5,000 Swiss watch (in the 5 years since I haven't even bought a £1,000 watch let along £5,000)

[Ellie-V]

As common no like mainstream... no— but there’s definitely a whole community of them out there

[Kay0019]

I think they are fewer than sugar daddæs but they do exist

[wankiam]

they possibly are just as common but not in an intentional way

[JamesBlackDragon]

It's possible that it's 50/50 the only difference is women are more discreet about it then guys are also when a woman is looking for a sugar daddy she will advertise it if a guy is looking for a sugar mama he doesn't

Anyway no one really knows who sugars more we can only judge by what we see but we can't see everything therefore we can only make an estimate that guys sugar more

[Usereman]

Definitely not. Women aren't about giving other people money. They have websites for this kinda stuff. The only women that go as sugar mommies and dudes trying to con people, and girls that were too stupid to realize the put themselves as a sugar mommy by accident (which explains why they want one. Most girls that want a sugar daddy are dead beats)

[Leavesbound]

No but I had one for a year when I was 19. She was 43 and that was a blast. Didn't hurt that she was hot.

[ThatGuy133]

Yea, it's possible. Just like a man can support a woman, a woman can support a man.

[Inevitable-outcome]

I would say no but they're a lot more common than people think.

I know most of my female friends have financially supported their partner at some point. I think the problem is a lot of women enter these arrangements and they think it's a real 'relationship'. People aren't calling it what it is.

A lot of the sugar mommy relationships are based in a woman thinking a guy truly loves her... But if she really examined it she would see that's not the case.

[AlongCameCindy]

I think they're definitely less common, if not you certainly hear about them a lot less.

[AlongCameCindy]

I think men crave and are also more likely to pay for things like that as well, i don't think women are made like that as much.

[wyzb_ondmyears]

They shouldn't be. How can you ever feel like a man if you're leeching off a woman? It's one thing if she just makes more money than you as long as you're bringing something to the table too but no real man would ever need a sugar momma.

[haleysalvigione2]

Yeah girls hook up with guys with money and so would guys

[E-Warren-lover]

No its usually a case of a player using a divorced mom for sex and a free place to stay as well as access to her exes money

[kenFold]

Only sugar daddys I've ever heard of are the gay men that pay straight boys

[Billlewis]

There are also quite a few submissive sugar daddies and pay pigs who enjoy spoiling a woman and her boyfriend, as a fincuck, as well. That's actually one of my favorite turn ons.

[Owen3]

I would love to have me a mature woman to have but also I always crave a Yung 1 and it's more of a fantasy I guess

[OfDeath]

I don't know the actual statistics but my guess is no. Sugar daddy relationships seem more in line with the human gender politics

[elizamichale1]

I dont think so
Sugar daddies are more common

[Agape93]

Depending on the area, yeah.

[Doogie4518]

I don't know but if you know of I pass her to me please?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

They could be just not recognised as much

[Anonymous]

Didn't you make your career by being your married manager's lapdog?
That's what a sugar mama is.

[WhiteShoulder]

They are rare

[yourpsychosuburban]

Depends on were your from

[COMMODOREII]

I just want to know how you get one 😗

[0112358]

No, not remotely.

[Avicenna]

Absolutely not

[Plitty-Tank]

Nowhere near as common.

[Silence00]

🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤 no, I never seen any.

[cumkissme69]

I wish I could find one I have never seen one

[justjared]

I need a sugar mama

[CT_CD]

No..

[Lunatic1]

No, not really.

[the_sinner]

Not where I'm from.