Have you ever aquired feelings for someone who was already taken?

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Yes! He just moved her in to his home. His brother moved out, and he moved her in. He says he wanted to be with me but the timing was wrong. Personally, I think moving someone in because of finances, rather than for love, isn't a good note to start on, especially if he has "always" had doubts about her.

I was ignorant and selfish for getting involved, but now I'll wonder if it was truly the timing or whether to give him the time of day at all. If they cheat with you, then they'll cheat on you.

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TacosRAwesome Follow
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Most of my crushes were gay or taken and I found out later.

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- WowwGirl
  
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  That sucks man
  
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- TacosRAwesome
  
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  It's fine.. I find it easier to befriend unavailable men.
  
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- LEADFOOTboi
  
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  wow... tough break...
  
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- TacosRAwesome
  
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  @LEADFOOTboi shit happens :/
  
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- WowwGirl
  
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  Oh well on Ward and up ward
  
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- LEADFOOTboi
  
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  Yee Yee... SEND IT
  
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Jjpayne Follow
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All the time... But it's more like girls I see in public. I daydream about a life with them then I see the ring one the finger or their kids run up to them and I'm like dam# ... Even at gatherings of friends that I've known, girls are taken up soon after I notice them... I guess early bird gets the worm 😞

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- LEADFOOTboi
  
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  *the early hoe gets the worm
  
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spartan55 Follow
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Absolutely not. Once I find out she is married or in a relationship she is off limits, PERIOD. Anyone who gets involved with a married or taken person is just as slimy as the cheater imho.

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Regmorus Follow
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Nope. Taken means potential feelings towards them are deactivated in me in their origin. To preserve peace.

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CupcakeKiller Follow
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I haven't. I wouldn't ever consider that person as an option and the feelings don't develop.

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- LEADFOOTboi
  
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  sometimes you don't know tho...
  
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ecfresh Follow
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Yes I have. But I didn’t act on them because she had a boyfriend. Turns out she also had feelings for me at the time.

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- Guardian45
  
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  There is a difference.
  
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- ecfresh
  
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  How so? She was taken and I developed feelings for her. That’s the answer to the question.
  
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- WowwGirl
  
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  I thought you answered fine
  
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- LEADFOOTboi
  
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  THE QUEEN HAS SPOKEN!
  
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AzureGirl Follow
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Yep, I liked a guy in high school with a girlfriend. We were good friends and remained as such.

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TonyMetal_1986 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 40

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No feelings for girls who are taken because i respect people who are in a relationship, especially if they are married.

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imredheaded Follow
Xper 6 Age: 40

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You bet. I didn't act on those feelings ever but sometimes I do long to be with them. I don't wish anything bad on their relationship either.

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Prettygurl12 Follow
Master Age: 32 , mho 54%

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Yup. Waited to make my move until his relationship ended naturally, though.

Now we're married.

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Interstate Follow
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Yes, but considering my stance on relationships, I wouldn't have acted on them even if I had interest in dating and she was single.

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MgkMk Follow
Xper 4 Age: 32

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Everyone would be at some point, if they were single... or not in love.

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Nikki1989 Follow
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Yes I did. He was married.

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- WowwGirl
  
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  I know the feeling
  
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mills__ Follow
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Yes I have but the moment I realized he was taken, I backed the f up

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praj89 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 37

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No never if I knew already someone is taken trust me there is not beauty in the world that I would betray my brothers for

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Sevenpointfive Follow
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almost always. the good ones always are taken. the saying is true

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HerLucidNightt Follow
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No. I actually lose all feelings when if i find out he's taken. Pretty easy to move on.

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Guardian45 Follow
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I have acquired feelings for women, who were unavailable. I don't pursue women, who are already in a relationship.

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- WowwGirl
  
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  Not pursue no Just feelings
  
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ariadneR Follow
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Oh yep, once you find out though it's like get over hi. he's unavailable

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Love2Kiss Follow
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Yes, I have been attracted to many girls who are taken.

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ClearSea Follow
Xper 5 Age: 25

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Yes. My best friend is in a serious relationship, but I can't stop thinking about us together.

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LEADFOOTboi Follow
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i have once... was one of the worst mistakes for my heart i ever made... q n p i was younger then

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ToastyTimothy1994 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 32

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Here's the solution: Stay away from people who are already taken! #WowGIrlRockz! #AvaRockz!

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R3DthatDude Follow
Yoda Age: 39

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Yes many times. Never did anything about it though

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ThatGuy133 Follow
Yoda Age: 44

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Yea I have. Just got over it

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NewZion Follow
Xper 7 Age: 35

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Feelings of lust.

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- WowwGirl
  
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  Yesss
  
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Gwenhwyfar Follow
Master Age: 35

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Yeah

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- WowwGirl
  
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  @WhereAmI @Gwenhwyfar that sucks guys🙁
  
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- WhereAmI
  
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  It's part of life. My first crush had a college age boyfriend.
  
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- WowwGirl
  
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  @WhereAmI yeah feels like you missed the bus
  
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- WhereAmI
  
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  Missed the bus? 😂
  
  I moved on like anyone else.
  
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- WowwGirl
  
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  @WhereAmI guess I'll wait for the next one
  
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- Gwenhwyfar
  
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  Happened twice. First time was freshman year of college. Didn’t tell me he had a girlfriend till after we messed around, then told me with a straight face “I gave you two really good orgasms, so you should feel kind of attached to me even if I do already have a girlfriend.” Dumped him cold after that. Second time... well, you know the whole story.
  
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- WowwGirl
  
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  Yeah I wouldn't count the 2nd
  First what a dick
  
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- Gwenhwyfar
  
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  Thank you 😊
  
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- WowwGirl
  
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  Course
  
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- LEADFOOTboi
  
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  wow... some guys really think they walk on water... i mean, i'm great, but i know i ain't that good...
  
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worldscolide Follow
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A long time ago I did. I was in my early 20's.

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Underworld158 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35

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Ur previous accounts

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- WowwGirl
  
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  Shut down by obsessed an moderator
  
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- WowwGirl
  
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  Care to explain @Underworld158
  
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tale20 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 32

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Yeah and it feels so bad

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Smirnoff23 Follow
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Yes has happened a few times

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AJC997 Follow
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Yes of course who hasn’t

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Benjr134 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 44

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Yes. But I’m respectful so never acted on them.

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Harris94 Follow
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Yes offcourse

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- Harris94
  
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  I feel a lot for that.
  
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- WowwGirl
  
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  Thank you
  
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ItsTheNephilim Follow
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Yeah.. Kinda 😐.

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NickiB1 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 25

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no not yet

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Jamie05rhs Follow
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Yes. Before I found out they were taken.

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alance99 Follow
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Yes i did, but i know how to get rid of it

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JimboGB Follow
Yoda Age: 36

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Attraction, yes, feelings, no.

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BlackWidow93 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 32

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Plenty of times

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Mehzmeh Follow
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Yup. Seems like that happens to me all the time.

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jamesgoldman Follow
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Nope

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WhereAmI Follow
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Of course.

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Nadim171 Follow
Yoda Age: 21

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I'm afraid I am going in this direction

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kyliesz Follow
Xper 6 Age: 25 , mho 32%

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nope

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Miristheiss Follow
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Is this about me?

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- WowwGirl
  
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  Course lol
  
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Gedaria Follow
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Yes many times...

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_dave_ Follow
Xper 4 Age: 25

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Yes I have

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cute_short_nerd Follow
Xper 6 Age: 19

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Yes.

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archiz Follow
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No never

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bklynbadboy1 Follow
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Yep it was horrible

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m944240871375 Follow
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hi how are you

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