I've had girlfriends but they ultimately cheated on me after I trusted them with this info on me. As a result I became avoidant when it came to talking about my folks, past relationships and upbringings. Overall, the only form of loyalty I've ever received was from my friends and instructor at the gym. When I've gotten into bar fights, they had my back. My past girlfriends always left when trouble ensued. Overall, I've explained to her why I struggle to confide in others outside of my MMA instructor and teammates. But I can't name anyone off the top of my head who's actually been there for me through rough times besides my training friends.
Any thoughts? I do feel like I'm falling in love with my girlfriend but at the same time, paid the price for getting too deep.