Is it okay to send my boyfriend nudes this early in our long distance relationship?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and i met online about a month and a half ago, and we are extremely into eachother. we live in different countries but we're managing pretty well, we both make equal efforts and make sure we're giving eachother the time and care needed. He's very flattering about my body and figure in general, and he frequently asks me for nudes, it was extremely challenging for me to finally send him one, because well, i have my own insecurities and concerns, he never pressured me only asked frequently, sometimes jokingly and i just can't say no to him, he's too cute and nice, he made a song about my boobs, also the thought of him being sad or bumped just gets to me and i fail to reject. I only rejected once, he understood and stopped asking that day but i can still notice his sad tone, which faded away later on that day. Now i don't feel bad about him at all, i don't think he's using me or anything i trust his feelings about me, i'm mostly concerned about the affects of sending him nudes this early on our relationship. I'm also concerned about our relationship turning too sexual because of the nudes, and i don't get to band with him that well. I really like him and I'm very serious about this relationship i don't want to ruin it so thoughts and help please <3

[Aysen]

Physical intimacy is one of the most important aspects of a relationship for it to be successful! I think it's adorable that your boyfriend wants to see you, in all your pure beauty; a bit of romance and a bit of naughtiness! While I do agree that revealing yourself shows you trust him, I'm a bit concerned that if you reveal too much too soon, it'll take away potential moments of sexual teasing and arousal where you could slowly reveal yourself instead of all at once!

You could praise him when he does something you love, and reward him with flashing a part of your body to him! My girlfriend did this and the build-up to the moment where she fully unclothed herself in front of me felt so lovely and desired me to touch her everywhere ❤ The pacing choice is up to you and I can understand your boyfriend's point of view of wanting to see you nude but why rush this so soon, especially since you've only been in the relationship for a little more than a month now? He's quite a pervert but he sounds innocent and a kind man to you. I'm happy to hear you both are having a great relationship so far and I hope it continues to thrive as the months and years go by :) Hope this helps with what you're looking for!

[IronLady6354]

I'd say no. He may seem like a great guy now (and he very may well be a great guy), but you don't know him well enough yet. He could use those nudes against you latter down the line. I'd advise against it.

[amodini]

For me, I don't think it's okay to go this far in early stages of your relationship... But, if you want to, then please avoid sending him nudes with your face