I have actual experience in this. Five years ago I had gotten to the point of having a crush on one of my friends, who was not single. Then, earlier this autumn, I observed the development of a relationship between my then-crush and my classmate.
I thought of stopping it before it got too far becaus I just couldn't stand seeing then flirting and what not... But then I finally moved on and it's all good now. I'm still single though...
Each woman brings something the other might not have and the same for men, not every woman is willing to learn to please her man in the kitchen or the bedroom to name the most obvious ones or be able to connect on an intellectual level. And the other may have those qualities, for me if i know that the two can't handle the knowledge of each other then keep them separated but be honest of what they lack in the relationship.
I would go for the person I fell inlove with second > because if you were truly inlove with the first person , you wouldn’t be looking around or falling inlove with another person. Chances are you were never inlove with the first person 🤷🏻♀️
Now I'm in a love triangle, for these two pakistanian guys like me, the one guy he was short he already had my number from my friend.. who's also Pakistan. But at the time I like this other pakistanian guy, but he end up playing me. So I continue to talk to the short guy even though I didn't like him.. but he's actually really cute looking.. then a couple months later I woke up one day, and there was a message on my WhatsApp.. from a guy.. who the pakistanian. It was the short guy's friend!!! 😳.. he already knew my name and everything, he said he's on my picture and he instantly like me, he said his friend the short guy gave him my number. And the new guy end up being a Scorpio like me, but you asked me to stop talking to the short guy so he doesn't get in between us... But there was nothing never made there on my part. But the short guy did love me and he wanted to marry me.. he didn't talk to me much anymore. I feel like his friend bullied him or something into getting my number.. the short guy he was a Virgo, the other pakistanian guy I like before him was a Gemini (wishy-washy player), and my friend who lives near me or works near me is a Taurus he's also Pakistani.. that's how the short guy got my number. But I really like the Scorpio guy cuz all about ME! 😅🥰❤️ Literally, has nothing but Scorpio and his astrology chart. He says he doesn't believe in love at first sight... But he instantly Like Me based off my picture or pictures that the short guy had. And now I think the Scorpio guy is getting disowned or something from his family, hopefully that doesn't have anything to do with me.
Never experienced it, but if I did, I'll ditch her instantly and focus on someone who is focused on me. What's the point in chasing someone who doesn't want you?
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I have actual experience in this. Five years ago I had gotten to the point of having a crush on one of my friends, who was not single. Then, earlier this autumn, I observed the development of a relationship between my then-crush and my classmate.
I thought of stopping it before it got too far becaus I just couldn't stand seeing then flirting and what not... But then I finally moved on and it's all good now. I'm still single though...
What I should do: get myself out as soon as possible
What I actually did do: dig myself in deeper
Are you in that position now?
Thankfully no, I'm just trying to get my business and relationships into order
Yes, I think returning to work would be a great step forward for you.
I hope so.
I've got a big sum that I intend to use to fix myself up.
I left, cussed the guy out, if he would’ve been near me I would’ve fought him or had one of my male friends do it.
Each woman brings something the other might not have and the same for men, not every woman is willing to learn to please her man in the kitchen or the bedroom to name the most obvious ones or be able to connect on an intellectual level. And the other may have those qualities, for me if i know that the two can't handle the knowledge of each other then keep them separated but be honest of what they lack in the relationship.
I would go for the person I fell inlove with second > because if you were truly inlove with the first person , you wouldn’t be looking around or falling inlove with another person. Chances are you were never inlove with the first person 🤷🏻♀️
Get out of it. If I was cheated on I might do something... bad.
choose the guy that I love and attracted to the most and walk away from the other
Same, even though the guys I like never pick me.
Now I'm in a love triangle, for these two pakistanian guys like me, the one guy he was short he already had my number from my friend.. who's also Pakistan. But at the time I like this other pakistanian guy, but he end up playing me. So I continue to talk to the short guy even though I didn't like him.. but he's actually really cute looking.. then a couple months later I woke up one day, and there was a message on my WhatsApp.. from a guy.. who the pakistanian. It was the short guy's friend!!! 😳.. he already knew my name and everything, he said he's on my picture and he instantly like me, he said his friend the short guy gave him my number. And the new guy end up being a Scorpio like me, but you asked me to stop talking to the short guy so he doesn't get in between us... But there was nothing never made there on my part. But the short guy did love me and he wanted to marry me.. he didn't talk to me much anymore. I feel like his friend bullied him or something into getting my number.. the short guy he was a Virgo, the other pakistanian guy I like before him was a Gemini (wishy-washy player), and my friend who lives near me or works near me is a Taurus he's also Pakistani.. that's how the short guy got my number. But I really like the Scorpio guy cuz all about ME! 😅🥰❤️ Literally, has nothing but Scorpio and his astrology chart. He says he doesn't believe in love at first sight... But he instantly Like Me based off my picture or pictures that the short guy had. And now I think the Scorpio guy is getting disowned or something from his family, hopefully that doesn't have anything to do with me.
I would get rid of the third vertex of the triangle. @Brainsbeforebeauty helped me realise the usefulness of dictionnaries.
lol jk
😂😂😂 lololol
I was in one, and I left like a queen even thought he wanted me. way more than her. But let shorty have him since she's SO IN LOVE with him right lol
Never experienced it, but if I did, I'll ditch her instantly and focus on someone who is focused on me. What's the point in chasing someone who doesn't want you?
Enjoy it I suppose lol
They are complicated. But who do you dump, you end staying a three some..
I will BREAK IT OFF and stop loving that fucker. It's an insult for me that he was loved by a queen but he chose some worthless girl over me.
With another guy? dump her
With a girl? Try and fuck both of them in a threesome for as long as j can but ultimately dump her.
Pop smoke and destroy the bridge.
I don't want any part in a love triangle.
Enjoy it, both men would be mine. If something is wrong with one in the long run, I'll take the other one and everything would still be fine
Extricate myself from it. I don't play those kinds of games.
1. If the guy likes only me and another girl has a crush on him: date the guy.
2. If the guy doesn't like me that much or likes both: walk away. Not dealing with this...
Leave, because I've been in one never got picked. 💔