Infidelity is a decision.
The person who takes that decision is responsible for it.
Seldom is infidelity one spur-of-the-moment decision. It is usually a planned event that becomes a regular feature of the lives of those who are involved.
Unlike other men, I am not the sort of man who thinks that the world (and the relationship) must end if his woman samples a different cock or 10.
I understand that people have libidos, kinks and can have some weird and wonderful fetishes as a result of (usually abusive) experiences.
For example, I have been with more than one woman who could not cum unless she was able to imagine that she was being raped; or tied up and raped; or tied up, tortured and raped.
I ask four things of a woman: tell me about it; exercise some quality control; do not become pregnant; and do not bring home a disease.
good question, I was interested to see how many true simps there are lmao. Cheating's never acceptable; if you need to, break it off and get with the other person. If that's unsafe, get the police or some protection agency involved.
It's completely their responsibility since girls aren't supposed to be brainless bodies and neither drunk as hell 24/7 at the point to not be conscious of what they are deciding to do. But this is the same for males anyway. We don't want to assume that one gender is so extremely underdeveloped that it can't even get basic reasoning abilities right?
I can understand that some women are so exaggerately lacking of individuality that reach the point to be "driven" by a guy to have something with them just because they have some charm, but still I find this to be her responsibility anyway, 100%.
While if we talk about an aggression, and rape, or threatening situations, well this is not cheating because she wasn't attracted to the aggressor, and if she could decide she wouldn't do it. So it doesn't count as cheating in my opinion.
I think it depends on the situation. What if a partner can no longer perform in bed but there is still love between them and they want to stay together? What if one is in coma? Some people would have a problem not having sex for the rest of their life. If someone cheated in a position like that, I wouldn't blame them, would you?
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Nothing justifies cheating , so it’s the cheaters fault 100 percent , My thing is if you are going
To cheat then end your relationship with your partner , don’t go back to your partner like nothing happened , the cheater is just living a lie if they go back to their partner , the cheater doesn’t love their partner if they can go screw someone else , so if you cheat on a partner that should be your answer to leave your partner and let them find someone that won’t cheat on them , Most cheaters can’t admit they are pieces of shit and will go back to their partner like nothing happened and live the rest of their life as a liar
You just said the answer to your question... and the ones who contradict it are still at fault no matter what. Ones still at fault for thinking of cheating. There are no excuses to be made. Unfaithfulness in any capacity is still unfaithfulness that will not be excusable—one who decides to do that will need to live with the consequences.
The saying "It takes two to tango" is a perfect example for this question. Cheating takes consent on both sides for it to happen. When you are in a monogamist relationship with someone, you are agreeing to be exclusive to each other for the duration of the relationship. If while in that relationship you become emotionally or physically intimate with another, you are making a conscious choice to cheat. If you know what you are doing is betraying the trust of your significant other and you still do it, you are making an aware choice to do it and you are liable for your action.
In short, if she knows very well she shouldn't be cheating and does it anyway, then it is 100% her fault. And don't think the same doesn't apply for men, because it dang well does!
Wtf that's so sexist. I don't care what gender or species you belong to if you've consentfully gotten sexual with anyone while in a commited relationship it's your fault
Pretty sure the 7 people who voted its not her fault and the 2 unsure ones have either cheated or are trying to forgive a cheater.
And obviously cheaters are at fault! Sex aside it's a betrail of trust and loyalty and that alone is big issue.
Personally there are two kinds of people I can't stomach: disloyal ones and hypocrites.
It’s her fault. Cheating is inexcusable. The other person may have done something wrong but it doesn’t justify cheating.
Alrighty. To cheat on a partner is a choice. However, are reasons WHY a person cheats.
Maybe her current partner doesn't give her enough attention, or maybe the female is simply promiscuous. Like I said there are different reasons, but cheating is still cheating regardless.
Man, woman, unicorn, platypus, kermit, alien, cereal box, helicopter, or whatever the fuck you are, if you cheat you are 100% responsible for it.
Every relationship I've ever had I've been cheated on. 3 of them had the audacity to blame me for it. The worst was the one who claimed that I worked too much ( to support her non-working lazy ass) and wasn't around enough to give her the attention she needed, so therefore I DROVE HER INTO HIS ARMS. Her words.
Nope. The Cheaters are always at fault for being little cowards
The ones who say girls are not responsable if they cheat... are GUYS! WOW!
What kind of weird question is this? Cheater are always at fault for cheatin
ANYONE who cheats knows it is wrong and inexcusable. If you are not satisfied in a relationship then leave.
If you cheat, YOU are responsible. Does someone who cheat have a reason? Of course, and those reasons vary, but unless someone is pointing a gun at your head or divine intervention takes over your body and makes you do it, then you are at fault.
Stop reading comments in social media of mentally limited retards and trolls, who cheat on their partners because it's their partner's fault.
You’re the blue anon who said it isn’t the guy’s fault when he cheats. So I guess on your toxic thoughts, it isn’t her fault if she cheats either. How awful.
Cheating is your own choice unless you were held at gun point and told to do it.
Unless her boyfriend doesn't give her his dick, then yes, cheaters are fault. They do the effort and have the intention to cheat.
I cheated once it was mostly my fault though it was just kiss when I discovered I’m a lesbian.
I don't care about the other person I might beat thw shit out of him out of rage but I would leave that slut.
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