I (26F) met a guy (35M) online. We're physically attracted to each other. He graduated from a reputable university in our country. He was moving too fast at first and I attempted to block him because I don't want guys who just want to get in my pants. After I blocked him, he created another account, called my phone number and told me that he wants to have a serious relationship. I gave him another chance and I confessed that I don't have a degree yet and now he wants me to finish my thesis this year. He told me that he wants a girlfriend who is a degree holder. He's constantly reminding me to finish my studies. He frequently calls and asks about updates about my studies. He's also constantly reminding me to lose weight. I'm 5'3" and 57 kgs but I still have curves. We both decided to start again as friends. Does he really want something serious or what? I need some advice. I admit that I'm really stupid when it comes to dating. English is not my native language so please excuse my bad grammar. Thank you for the answers.
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I dropped out years ago (4th year first semester). He wants me to enroll again and get that diploma. He said that I should do it for myself and for my family. It's true that education is important but I feel like he won't take the relationship to the next level unless I lose weight or get a degree. I'm 37-28-37 and I don't think that I look obese. I don't think my face is ugly either. He's still communicating with me and always initiates convos
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I already told him that I'm not the girl for him cause I don't fit his standards but he won't let me go. Whenever I ignore him, he would use another account to contact me and call my number.
