What’s the difference between white men who only date black women vs white women who only date black men?

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Coulis · Accepted Answer

Yes, there is a difference. Growing up, I noticed a lot of white girls, particularly those from upper middle to upper class households, would date and even bring home say really hood black guys that my mother would NEVER let cross her doorstep saying they want something to do with me. Some of them wouldn't date educated and articulate black guys because they didn't fit this thuggish black boy fantasy in their minds.

We're talking daughters of psychiatrists going to private schools messing with crack dealers. I think there is a great deal of fetishism going on.

Re black woman white man. I think there is a sense of feeling that you are not like the other black girls. I would say 100% of black girls who have contact with white guys in their formative years feel the repulsion that most of them feel towards us. I know growing up I've had my features and hair mocked and told I'm ugly etc. I remembr my white girl classmate asked me flat out "don't you wish your nose was smaller" and "will you get a nose job?" I was 13 and it still stings to this day. And this was at a progressive school which shows how socially acceptable it is to malign African features.

So when a cute white guy is smitten with you as a black woman, it can be surprising intriguing and somewhat healing. Hope that there are some who aren't mean like the others and who truly appreciate you for who you really are. But even then, your hair will be a problem or some stupid stuff like that. It's rare to find a white guy that truly appreciates black beauty kinky hair and all.

I didn't realize how attractive I was until I was in my late 20s.

But I think nowadays since more parts of North America are increasingly integrated with whites and blacks living sode-by-side, people just are finding things in common with each other regardless of colour. That's a beautiful thing!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Porn pushes the idea that white women are obsessed with black penises.
So I think white male/black female relationships get a bit more respect and they're seen as a relationship based on love as opposed to black male/white female who everyone sees as a porn fetish.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

There's no difference. I think they're pretty closed minded, but they can do whatever they want.

Anonymous · Answer

White men and black female have one of the lowest divorce rates.  Black men and white women have one of the highest divorce rates. Actually, the highest.  That’s the difference.

jerdanro · Answer

I think there are many more white women who only date black men than the other war around.

anylolone · Answer

In theory there's no difference. I don't know if in practice there's a statistical difference.

Anonymous · Answer

White women are being sexually satisfied by their men.

julieand · Answer

There both dating humans

Wise4myage · Answer

B. It’s personal preference.

MemeSupreme · Answer

none lol

BlackPrince1 · Answer

No difference.

jimmy2 · Answer

Personal choice

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

its equally gross

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